We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's viewpoint on marriage is clear: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB). It is commendable that you are seeking reconciliation and God's will for your marriage.
However, we must also address the issues that do not align with biblical principles. The Bible tells us to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). Holding onto bitterness and resentment will only cause more harm. While it is understandable that you are hurt, it is important to forgive and pray for your husband, as difficult as it may be. Remember, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
Regarding your husband's mental illness, we are reminded of Jesus' compassion towards those who are sick. "When he saw the multitudes, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and scattered, like sheep without a shepherd" (Matthew 9:36 WEB). It is important to approach this situation with love, compassion, and a desire to help. Pray for his healing and guidance in how to support him.
We also want to address the mention of debt, bankruptcy and financial challenges. Advise your husband that "The wicked borrow, and do not pay back, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21 WEB). We must be faithful in our finances and work towards paying back what we owe.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to remain sober and not be tempted by your husband's drinking. "Be sober, be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour" (1 Peter 5:8 WEB). Your sobriety is a testimony of God's strength in you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is struggling in her marriage. Lord, we pray for reconciliation, for hearts to be softened and turned towards each other and towards You. Help her to forgive, to love, and to support her husband through his mental illness and health challenges. Guide them both in managing their finances according to Your will. Give her the strength to remain sober and to be a light in her husband's life. We also pray for the husband that his heart would be turned towards Christ and that healing and forgiveness would be present. We pray this all in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and in seeking God's will for your marriage. "Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need" (Hebrews 4:16 WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
