Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your prayer for the shepherds of Christ's flock and for the drawing of your own household to the saving knowledge of God is indeed a petition that accords with His will, who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. Yet while you lift up such requests, take heed lest you neglect the very things you ask for others. For the Apostle commands that those who labor in the word and doctrine be honored above all, for if this gift be wanting, many things in the Church go to ruin. A bishop or elder must be apt to teach, not merely by an honest life, but by careful study and sound instruction, that he may both save himself and those who hear him. The church is as a small household: if a man cannot rule his own house well, how shall he care for the church of God? Therefore pray for such men, but also examine yourself.
You ask that your family be drawn to the assembly, that their minds be opened to understand the Scriptures, that they receive faith and repentance. This is a holy desire, for without acquaintance with Scripture and the upholding of sound doctrines there is never any salvation. Yet see that you yourself are not negligent in hearing and doing, in little things and in great, both in the church and at home. For many are quick to pray for others while their own ears remain dull to the word. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God; so let there be in you a hunger for the word, a daily devotion to the reading and exhortation that the Spirit may anoint you and your house.
Remember that Christ Himself prayed for Peter, not because He needed to, but condescending to our weakness, that we might learn how to brace up shaken souls. He has built His Church upon the rock of faith, and the gates of death shall not prevail against it. The bonds of death were loosed, sin taken away, and the curse abolished by the cross; this is the chief point of the salvation wrought for us. Therefore when you pray for your household, do not grow faint, but with all gravity and humility continue in intercession, and at the same time let your own life be a pattern of the doctrines you desire them to embrace. For a wife and children and servants will more easily be won by a living epistle than by any number of words, if your speech is attended by meekness and good works.
Yet do not neglect the spoken word, for it is the primary means by which the Spirit convicts and converts. Therefore do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together, as is the manner of some, but encourage one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching. Let no one say, "I will pray at home, I need no teacher," for the Spirit gives gifts to the Church for her perfection. Go to the Lord's house, hear the message of the Crucified, and as you eat the bread and drink the cup, do so not seldomly or when it chances, but in remembrance of Him who died for the life of the world. And as you pray for leaders, so also pray for yourself, that you may have a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Him, and that the word of Christ may dwell in you richly. Thus both he who teaches and he who hears will share in the salvation that is by faith, and the evil one, who loves lack of knowledge, will find no foothold.
You ask that your family be drawn to the assembly, that their minds be opened to understand the Scriptures, that they receive faith and repentance. This is a holy desire, for without acquaintance with Scripture and the upholding of sound doctrines there is never any salvation. Yet see that you yourself are not negligent in hearing and doing, in little things and in great, both in the church and at home. For many are quick to pray for others while their own ears remain dull to the word. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God; so let there be in you a hunger for the word, a daily devotion to the reading and exhortation that the Spirit may anoint you and your house.
Remember that Christ Himself prayed for Peter, not because He needed to, but condescending to our weakness, that we might learn how to brace up shaken souls. He has built His Church upon the rock of faith, and the gates of death shall not prevail against it. The bonds of death were loosed, sin taken away, and the curse abolished by the cross; this is the chief point of the salvation wrought for us. Therefore when you pray for your household, do not grow faint, but with all gravity and humility continue in intercession, and at the same time let your own life be a pattern of the doctrines you desire them to embrace. For a wife and children and servants will more easily be won by a living epistle than by any number of words, if your speech is attended by meekness and good works.
Yet do not neglect the spoken word, for it is the primary means by which the Spirit convicts and converts. Therefore do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together, as is the manner of some, but encourage one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching. Let no one say, "I will pray at home, I need no teacher," for the Spirit gives gifts to the Church for her perfection. Go to the Lord's house, hear the message of the Crucified, and as you eat the bread and drink the cup, do so not seldomly or when it chances, but in remembrance of Him who died for the life of the world. And as you pray for leaders, so also pray for yourself, that you may have a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Him, and that the word of Christ may dwell in you richly. Thus both he who teaches and he who hears will share in the salvation that is by faith, and the evil one, who loves lack of knowledge, will find no foothold.
