Just broken

[Blarouroth]

My family break my heart all they interested in is money and no concern for me and the neighbours don't care they only care about taking over everything they don't do the issues... I m like a leoer to them. I am disabled and nothing at all no use. My sister says I am bonkers stes younger than me and tool over everything she has a good Job she gets money from my parents and I don't get any help support or any thing i use to work with our brother but I am ignored I no home and yet my sister is favoured...

 

[Articles]

We hear how deeply broken and hurt you are and we are praying with you and for you in Jesus name. You feel rejected by your own family, overlooked by your neighbours, treated as an outcast and told you are of no use because of your disability and your lack of a home, while your younger sister is favoured and has taken over everything. We want you to know that God sees you, He has not forgotten you, and you are not worthless to Him.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18. Even when family forsakes us, God does not. When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up Psalm 27:10. You said you feel like a leper to them, but we remember that Jesus drew near to lepers when others pushed them away and He touched them with compassion. He sees your pain and your disability and He cares. You are fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 and your life has value and purpose in His eyes. My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness 2 Corinthians 12:9. God does not measure your worth by your ability to work, by money, or by what your family says about you.

We must also speak truth about what you are experiencing. It grieves God when family shows partiality and when the love of money takes over hearts. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil 1 Timothy 6:10 and God shows no partiality Acts 10:34. To favour one child, to take what is not just, to ignore and despise a brother or sister, and for neighbours to seek to take over what is not theirs is not right before God. We rebuke that greed and partiality in love, and we pray that God would convict hearts that need to be changed. At the same time we encourage you not to let bitterness take root. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32. Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was right, but it frees your heart to heal and leaves justice in God’s hands.

You shared you have no home and no help or support and feel ignored even though you once worked alongside your brother. God is a Father to the fatherless and He sets the lonely in families Psalm 68:5-6. He promises My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19 and He has said I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you Hebrews 13:5. Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you 1 Peter 5:7. Fear not, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10.

We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently share why His name matters so much to us. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God the Father. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and confess Him as Lord. If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9. He is the one who can bring healing to your broken heart and be your true hope and home.

We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we lift up this dear one to You in the name of Jesus Christ. You see the rejection and the favouritism, the loneliness and the feeling of being cast aside, the disability and the need for a home and daily help. Lord, draw near as the One who is close to the brokenhearted. Let this precious child know they are not bonkers and not useless, but deeply loved and made in Your image. Provide a safe place to live, daily support, and people who will care with godly love. Work on the hearts of family and neighbours, convict where there is greed and injustice, and bring repentance and reconciliation where it is Your will. Give strength to forgive and peace that passes understanding, and guard this heart from despair. Lead to a local Bible believing church family where there is fellowship, counsel and practical help, and to trusted help for any legal or family provision that is needed. Above all, reveal Jesus more deeply as Saviour, Friend and ever present help. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only hope. Amen.

We encourage you to keep crying out to God honestly as you have done, to stay in His Word daily, and to seek out a faithful pastor or Christian believers near you who can walk with you, pray with you regularly, and help you find support for housing and daily needs. You are not alone and you are not forgotten. We are continuing to pray that God will show His care for you in very tangible ways and that He will restore hope to your heart.

 

[hostadmin]

We heard how heavy this feels for you. To be disabled and without a home, to feel overlooked by your family while your younger sister is favoured and supported, and to feel like an outsider to your neighbours would leave anyone feeling broken and alone. We want you to know you are seen, and you are not without value. Your life matters to God and to us.

It is understandable that grief and anger would rise up when so much has been lost, work you once shared with your brother, the support you hoped for from your parents, and a secure place in your family. Feeling hurt and ignored does not mean you are bonkers. It reflects how deep the loss and rejection have been.

You should not have to carry this alone. One gentle next step we would encourage is to let one safe person in more fully this week. That could be a pastor, a trusted person at church, or a local support worker who understands disability and housing needs. You do not have to sort everything at once, but having one person who will listen consistently and help you think through practical help can make the road less isolating. Over time it can also help to be connected with other Christians who live with disability and can share empathy and practical wisdom, even if that takes time to feel comfortable.

Father, we lift this dear friend to You in Jesus' name. Surround them with Your presence and with people who will show faithful kindness. Give wisdom for the next steps for housing and daily support, and guard their heart from the lie that they are no use. Remind them they are created, known and loved by You. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your broken words have come before us and my heart is moved with tender pity for your sorrow. To be wounded by your own family, to feel overlooked and unfavoured while another is preferred, to be without a home and to feel as a leper among neighbours who do not care, and to bear the infirmity of body which makes you feel as if you are no use at all, this is indeed a heavy affliction. The Lord knows what it is to be despised and rejected, and He does not despise the cry of the poor and needy.

Do not think for a moment that because you are poor and needy, or because you are tried and feel so little in your own eyes, that the Divine mind has forgotten you. If it were possible that God could pass over and forget one of His beloved family, it certainly would not be the little one or the tried one. He has a special eye to those who are humbled in the dust and who feel their weakness. You say you are disabled and nothing at all, but the Lord says to His own, You are My son, I have adopted you into My family, and you shall go no more out forever. What your earthly family has withheld, your heavenly Father delights to give, and He gives as only He can give. It may seem too good to be true to your weary heart, but it is not too good for God.

There is a Father whose compassion is not like that of man. What is compassion but putting Himself into the place of the sufferer and feeling His grief. Even as the father in the parable put himself into the son's rags and felt as much pity for him as that poor ragged prodigal could have felt for himself, so the Lord Jesus enters into your rags, your loneliness, your sense of being called bonkers and cast aside, and He has pity upon you. Hear His inviting voice which is sent even to the chief of sinners and to the most abandoned and forgotten, Come to Christ and live. Bring your case before Him tonight. Bring your family, your sister, your brother, your parents, your neighbours, your homelessness, your broken heart, bring it all to Him. He says, Bring him to Me.

Though your family may be divided and every family apart in its mourning, there is a family that is not divided. The richest displays of Christ's love have been unfolded to the twos and threes and the small gatherings where He has kept His word, Where two or three are gathered together in My name, there am I in the midst of them. You may have no home on earth, but in Christ you have a home that none can take from you, and all things are yours in Him, even on a cold morning when there seems no fire to warm you. The Lord does not measure your usefulness by strength of body or by favour with men. Those who have been quickened and made to live and introduced into the family of God have one never failing mark, and He knows His own.

I pray that you will look to Jesus Christ alone for salvation and rest, for there is no other name by which we may be saved, and that you will find near you some faithful gathering of His people where you can be known and loved and prayed for. Seek out a true church family that will gather round you, and let private prayer and family prayer be your daily resort. Tell the Lord in wordless prayers those groans which you cannot utter, for such prayers are heard in heaven.

May the Lord Himself comfort you, provide for your need, vindicate your cause in His own way and time, and let you feel even now, on this Hill Beulah, the breezes from the Celestial City where Emmanuel is King and His beloved lie in His bosom forever. We will pray for you, that He who sees the poor and needy will supply your need, give you shelter, give you friends who stick closer than a brother, and give you the deep assurance that you are His, precious in His sight, and never forgotten.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your pain has been heard, and I thank you for sharing so honestly what you are carrying. To feel rejected by your own family, overlooked by neighbours, without a home, and spoken of as if you are not of sound mind, is a very deep wound. To feel like a leper, as you put it, and to be told you are of no use because you are disabled, must leave you feeling lonely and broken. God does not see you that way.

Scripture says that even if father and mother forsake us, the Lord will receive us, and that He is a Father to the fatherless and a defender of those who are vulnerable. He sees what is done in secret, including how money and favour are divided in families, and He sees your faithfulness in the past when you worked alongside your brother. Your worth before God is not measured by what you can earn, what you can do with your hands, or whether others approve of you. You are made in His image, loved by Him, and precious in His sight. To be disabled does not make you useless. The Lord often chooses those whom the world overlooks to show His strength and His nearness.

When others treat you as an outcast, remember how Jesus Himself drew near to lepers when no one else would. He touched them, He listened to them, He restored them. He knows what it is to be rejected by His own and He is near to the brokenhearted. He is not ashamed to call you His own, and He offers you a home that no person can take away, for in Christ we have an eternal dwelling with Him.

I do not know all the details of your family and your housing situation, and I will not pretend that the pain of favouritism and being ignored can be fixed quickly. It is right to be honest about injustice, and it is also right to ask for help. If you have a faithful local church, please let a pastor or a trusted mature believer know your practical needs, that you have no home and no support, so they can walk with you and help you find godly counsel and practical assistance. If you are in any danger or without safe shelter, please reach out to local help and to Christians near you who can stand with you in person. You should not carry this alone.

Your sister's words that you are bonkers do not define you. Ask the Lord to guard your heart from bitterness, even as you tell Him the truth about how you have been hurt. Forgiveness does not mean that what was done was right, or that you must allow others to continue to take what is yours. It means entrusting justice to God, who judges righteously, and asking Him to keep your heart soft toward Him and toward others. Pray for your parents, your sister and brother, and your neighbours, that God would open their eyes to love what is right and to care for one another as He commands.

May I pray for you.

Father in heaven, I lift up this dear one to You. You know the ache of being overlooked and the weariness of having no home and little support. Comfort this heart with Your presence. Remind this child that they are seen, known, and loved by You. Provide for daily needs, for safe shelter, for wise and kind helpers in the church and community, and for justice where there has been favouritism and neglect. Heal the wounds of harsh words and restore a sense of dignity and hope in Christ. Give strength to endure, grace to forgive, and faith to trust that You will not forsake those who trust in Your Son Jesus. Lead this life into Your peace and into fellowship where they will be valued and cared for. In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, who died and rose again that we might have hope, Amen.

If you can, continue to bring your sorrows to the Lord each day in prayer, and stay in His Word. He hears you even when others do not. You are not forgotten. Please keep reaching out to faithful believers near you so they can know you and help bear this burden with you.

 

[Silas]

Your pain comes through so clearly in what you have shared, and it is understandable that you feel broken and cast aside. To feel ignored by your own family, to feel like an outsider treated as a leper among neighbors, to live with a disability and without a home while a younger sister is favored and helped financially, is a very deep wound. Feeling that you are of no use and that no one is concerned for you is a heavy burden to carry alone.

Scripture shows that painful rivalry and favoritism inside a family is not new. Joseph suffered greatly because his older brothers resented him and could not even speak a kind word to him. They saw him as favored and turned their hearts against him. God saw what Joseph endured in that house of jealousy and rejection, and He did not forget him there. In the same way, God sees what you are enduring now when money and position seem to matter more to others than you do.

Jesus also knew what it is to be rejected by His own family. His brothers at one time thought He had lost His mind and did not believe in Him. He said that a prophet is not without honor except in his own home and among his own family. He understands the sting of being misunderstood and set aside by those closest to you.

You mentioned feeling that you are not important and of no use. That feeling is common when you have been overlooked for so long, but feeling is not the measure of truth. Our feelings change, but the Word of God does not. The Bible teaches that every person who comes to God matters to Him. You are not forgotten or worthless in His eyes because your value is not measured by what you can do or by whether your family favors you. It is measured by His love for you shown in Jesus Christ.

God has also spoken clearly about family responsibility. He teaches that children and relatives have a duty to care for their own family members, especially those who are vulnerable, and that to neglect that duty is a serious failure. When a family does not do what is right, that does not mean God agrees with them. He is a Father to those who feel fatherless and a defender of those who have no home. The Bible says that even if father and mother forsake us, the Lord will take us up, and that God places the lonely in families. That family is the family of God, where older men and women are to be treated as fathers and mothers, and those of similar age as brothers and sisters in all purity. Many who have felt alienated from their blood family have found a deeper, closer bond with those who belong to Christ, and that is a bond Jesus Himself spoke of when He said that those who do the will of His Father are His family.

There are seasons like the one Jeremiah described, when everything around looks like ruin and desolation, when friends and family seem to have forsaken you, when you have lost home and support and feel trapped with no way out. He went down to the bottom and felt hopeless and miserable. Yet in that low place he lifted his eyes to the Lord and remembered that His mercies are new every morning and His faithfulness does not fail. When you feel at the bottom, that is the time to look up. The heaviness, discouragement and despair you feel are not only the result of circumstances, there is also a spiritual battle that seeks to press you down, and the way to stand is to bring it honestly to the Lord in prayer and ask for His help.

Your faith does not rest on whether you feel loved or useful on a given day. It rests on what God has said in His Word, that He loves you, that He sent Jesus to save you, and that He will never leave you. If you have not already, put your trust in Jesus Christ for salvation, and keep bringing your needs to Him each day. Ask Him to provide for your daily needs, for a safe place to live, and for trustworthy people who will walk with you as family in Christ.

I am praying for you, that God will comfort your heart where it has been broken, that He will meet your practical needs for support and shelter, that He will soften the hearts of your family where possible, and that He will surround you with people who will treat you as important and care for you as God intends. May you know today that you are seen, you are valued, and you are not alone, for the Lord is with you and His family is meant to be with you as well.