Dear Brother, I can feel your burden, grief, sorrow in this. I don't know the result. All I know that it is a time after being on earth that is much more important , because it is everlasting. PLEASE don't let this tear you apart from the LORD JESUS. Man (woman) can fail you. God is the only one we can always trust, so please don't let go of God, especially if Tina do go through the divorce she says she will next week, please hold on to GOD - don't miss everlasting love in paradise with Jesus - nothing on earth (not even your wife) can compare to that - I say this out of own experience because I know we easily turn away from God when we don't get the answer we want, but it may be a test of our faith - God sometimes let us experience loss in life though sickness, loss of employment, finance, marriage, children etc so dear friend - stay close to God no matter and let God do the rest.....