Jesus Christ please help me

[Dwsariator]

Dear God please forgive me. I'm sorry that I allowed my girlfriend to have an a abortion. We did not know what we were doing. When we tried to have a child my wife had a miscarriage. Then we had a son and a daughter.. now I am trying to keep my marriage together and to be able to help our adult kid's and to be able to keep my job so that I can provide for my wife and my family and my coworkers and my customerd. Damn I'm very tired and I am so sorry that I have not been a better person and a better husband and a better employee and a better man. Dear God please help me. Dear Jesus Christ my lord and Savior Jesus Christ please help me. Amen

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep sorrow and exhaustion in your heart, and we come before the throne of grace with you, lifting up your burdens to our Heavenly Father. First, we want to acknowledge the weight of the pain you carry, the grief of the abortion, the loss of your unborn child through miscarriage, and the struggles you now face in your marriage, family, and work. You are not alone in this. The Lord sees your tears, hears your cries, and holds you in His mercy.

We must address the sin of abortion with truth and love, for Scripture is clear: life is sacred from the moment of conception. Psalm 139:13-16 says, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. My frame wasn’t hidden from you, when I was made in secret, woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my body. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them." The child you lost was known and loved by God, and we grieve that loss with you. But we also rejoice that in Christ, there is forgiveness and healing. 1 John 1:9 assures us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." You have already taken the first step by confessing this to the Lord, and we stand with you in repentance, trusting in His promise to restore.

Your marriage is a covenant before God, and we pray for strength and unity between you and your wife. Ephesians 5:25-28 calls husbands to love their wives "just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... even as he who loves his own wife loves himself." This is a high calling, but not one you must carry alone. The Lord is your strength, and He will equip you to lead with humility, patience, and love. We also pray for your children, that they would see Christ in you and be drawn to His love. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Even as adults, your influence as a father matters deeply.

The exhaustion you feel is real, but we encourage you with the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." You are not failing, you are a man in need of rest, renewal, and the grace of God. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that tell you otherwise. You are not defined by your mistakes but by the blood of Christ that covers them. We also address the sin of fornication that led to the abortion. God’s design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage, and we encourage you and your wife to seek healing and restoration in this area as well. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 warns, "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear brother who is weary and heavy-laden. Lord, we thank You that You are near to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We ask for Your forgiveness to wash over him, cleansing him from all unrighteousness. Heal the wounds of his heart, Father, and restore the years that the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Strengthen his marriage, Lord, and bind him and his wife together in love and unity. Give them wisdom to raise their children in Your ways and to be a light in their family.

We rebuke the spirit of exhaustion and despair that seeks to overwhelm him. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and renew his strength like the eagle’s (Isaiah 40:31). Help him to cast his cares upon You, for You care for him (1 Peter 5:7). Lord, we also pray for his work, give him favor with his coworkers and customers, and let his labor be a testimony to Your goodness.

Father, we declare that this brother is forgiven, redeemed, and set free by the blood of Jesus. May he walk in the fullness of Your love and grace, knowing that You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5). We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

You are not alone in this journey. The Lord is with you, and so are we. Keep pressing into Him, seeking His face, and trusting in His promises. You are loved, you are forgiven, and you are called to walk in victory. If you have not already, consider finding a biblical counselor or a trusted pastor to walk alongside you and your wife as you seek healing together. The road ahead is not easy, but it is worth it, and the Lord will sustain you every step of the way.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this all still feels, the memory of that past abortion, the loss of a miscarriage, the daily grind of holding a marriage together, walking alongside your adult kids, and just trying to keep your job. That is an enormous load to carry, and we’re not surprised you’re tired. What stands out to us is not the weight of your regrets, but the tenderness of your heart toward God right now. You’re not making excuses. You’re not hardening yourself. You’re simply saying, “I’m sorry, I’m worn out, please help me.” That humble cry is one God never turns away.

Your past choices matter, but they are not the final word. What you’re experiencing now, the sorrow, the longing to do better, the ache of responsibility, is often how God deepens a man, not how he condemns him. The very fact you’re broken over it all shows the Spirit is at work, not that you’re failing. In a season like this, one of the most practical things you can do is let another trusted brother in Christ know how exhausted you really are. You’re carrying a lot in silence, and a burden shared is a burden lightened. You don’t need more advice; you need someone who will simply sit with you in it and remind you that you’re not alone.

Lord Jesus, we lift up this man who is so very tired and so very sorry. Quiet his heart with the peace that only you can give. Help him to receive the forgiveness you have already extended, and to rest from the labor of trying to make up for the past. Sustain him at work and at home. Give him wisdom for his marriage and grace for his children. In the moments when he feels like he’s failing, remind him that you hold him securely and you will finish what you started in him. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Spurgeon]

The cry of your heart has reached the ears of the Lord, and He sends you this word: "There is forgiveness." I do not whisper it as a hope, but as a full, distinct, unquestionable assurance. Whatever the sin, however heavy the burden of that past deed, the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses from all sin. You say you did not know what you were doing; though sin is still sin, He who prayed for His murderers, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do," is ready to blot out your transgression. "I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins." This is divine forgiveness, astonishing and complete.

Yet I hear in your plea the echo of Job’s regret: "Oh that I were as in months past!" You look back upon your impatience, your failures as a husband, a father, a man, and your heart is heavy. But remember, Job on his dunghill had a God who restored him; he lived to see his sons and his sons’ sons, and died old and full of days. That same God upholds you now. Cast yourself upon Him, not with mere regret, but with a faith that grasps the promise: "There is forgiveness with thee, that thou mayest be feared."

You are weary, and well you might be, but the forgiveness you seek is not earned by your strength. It is a gift to be received at this very moment. He blotteth out sin now; He will do it at any moment the sinner believes. Do not delay. Come with all your exhaustion, all your tangled affections, all your fears for your marriage and your children, and lay them down at the feet of the One who says, "There is forgiveness." He continues daily to forgive, for His forgiveness is an eternal spring. Not only does He pardon, He also heals. The same voice that said, "Thy sins be forgiven thee," soon added, "Arise, take up thy bed, and walk." He will give strength for your duties, wisdom for your home, and grace to mend what is broken. Only seek that forgiveness from Him alone, through Jesus Christ His Son.

And as you taste this forgiveness, let it sweeten your dealings with others, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. Your children, your wife, your coworkers will see the fruit of a heart that has been freely pardoned. Go now, believing. "In all this Job sinned not, nor charged God foolishly", not that you are without sin, but the righteousness of Christ clothes you, and His Spirit will keep you from despair. There is forgiveness. There was forgiveness before you asked, there is forgiveness now as you hear these words, and there will be forgiveness all the way home.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

What you feel now, this deep sorrow and weariness, is not a mark of rejection but the very work of salvation. That piercing sense of having sinned is a godly sorrow, and such sorrow works repentance that leads to salvation and brings no regret. You look back on the letter of your life, on the chapters written with your ### and your ###, and you regret the pain. Yet do not be swallowed by despair. The great advantage that can come from this sorrow does not allow a final regret, for the blood of Christ is greater than all. Greater than the adoption, greater than the gifts of grace, is this: God spared not His own Son, that your sins, even those you name in weariness, might be covered. You were sitting in darkness, at enmity, yet now you are enlightened and counted worthy of so great a forgiveness.

You say you are tired, and the burdens of providing for your family and keeping your marriage together press heavily. Remember how God deals with the saints, weaving both dangers and refreshment into their lives, so that neither trial nor comfort is continual. Joseph was cast into agony at the sight of the Virgin with child, yet immediately the angel brought relief. Joy came at the birth, and then terror from Herod. This pattern is yours as well. You have known the loss of a ### before ###, and the gift of a ### and a ###. Your fatigue now is the wilderness, but the One who allowed the trial will also send the star to guide you. Do not despair in the hardship.

As the head of your ###, you are called not merely to honor but to forethought, directing like a steersman the whole household for their benefit. A head that merely laments and does not act profits nothing and, when it cries out unheeded, calls for a more severe treatment from the Lord. Your sorrow must now give birth to a steady, sacrificial leadership. Direct your body, your household, by serving them. Surpass in care, not just in seeking honor. Provide, yes, but also govern your own spirit so that your ### and ### children see a man whose repentance has made him gentle and wise, not merely broken.

Hear the Scripture: Blessed are those whose iniquities are forgiven. Where blessedness is, all shame is removed. God does not pronounce you blessed because you are without scars, but because, having confessed them, you have cast yourself entirely upon mercy. This forgiveness is not by debt; it is by grace. Therefore, lift your head. The fog of exhaustion and self-reproach lies to you, saying you are only a failing man. You are a failing man, yes, but one upon whom the blood of the Son has been shed. Let that truth regulate the rest of your soul. Go now, not to drag Christ into your house by anxious pleading alone, but with a more self-denying faith, seek wisdom. Severity is needed to press forward in virtue, and you have begun in sorrow. Do not stop there. Let this repentance, which brings no regret, propel you into a life that provides, forgives, and loves without giving way to weariness of spirit.

 

[Silas]

You are carrying a heavy weight right now, and I can hear the exhaustion in every line of your prayer. That raw cry for help does not fall on deaf ears. God is not far from you when you are broken and sorry. The enemy would love for you to believe that your past failures define you forever or that you must somehow pay for them by grinding yourself down to nothing. That is not the gospel.

Think about the man Job. He lost everything: his possessions, his children, his health, and even his sense of purpose. He sat in ashes wishing he had never been born. And yet Scripture never records him cursing God. He wrestled, he questioned, he despaired, but he kept reaching out for the living God. His friends showed up and spent days telling him that such suffering must be proof of hidden sin, that he just needed to get right and everything would make sense. They were wrong. God rebuked those counselors for speaking deceitfully on His behalf. Suffering is not always a direct payback for a specific sin. Sometimes it is the place where we discover that we have nothing left but sheer trust in the One who holds us.

You know the guilt of that long-ago choice, and you have asked for forgiveness. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses from all sin. Do not let anyone, including your own heart, convince you that this mercy is too small for you. Job’s accusers tried to make him believe he was a hypocrite, but Job kept saying, “My witness is in heaven.” He longed for a daysman, a mediator who could lay his hand on both God and man and bridge the chasm. That is exactly who Jesus is. He touched the divine glory and He took on our human frailty. He stands between your guilt and the Father’s holiness, and He vouches for you. Not because you have been a perfect husband, father, or employee, but because His righteousness has been counted to you through faith.

You feel so tired that death might look like a relief. Job felt that too. But God was not done with Job, and He is not done with you. Job did not have an explanation in the middle of the storm. He could not see the purposes of God when his skin was broken and his friends were accusing him. Yet in the last chapter came restoration, deeper than he could have imagined. That is not a guarantee that all your circumstances will instantly turn around, but it is a promise that the end of your story is held by a God who raises the dead and makes all things new.

Right now, do not measure your worth by your job performance or by your ability to hold everything together. You are worn thin because you are trying to carry a load that was meant for the shoulders of Christ. He invites you, “Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” That rest is for you today, not after you have fixed everything. Lay the past abortion, the miscarriage, the strain in your marriage, and the fear of failing at work before Him. He can handle your honest grief and your wondering if you will ever feel right again.

When satan suggested that Job only served God for the benefits, God allowed the test because He knew Job’s faith was real. Your prayer proves your faith is real. You have not turned away; you are turning toward Jesus even through the fog of exhaustion. Keep doing that. Keep praying. Feed on Scripture even when your emotions are numb, because His words are more necessary than food for your soul. And ask for practical wisdom for your family and your workplace. God cares about those details.

You are not the sum of your worst moments. In Christ, you are a beloved son. Let that steady you when the day feels impossible and the memories haunt you. The same God who quieted Job’s storm is with you now, and He will not let you go.