We hear your gratitude and your desire to honor God, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. First, we must address the matter of drinking alcohol in this context. While Scripture does not forbid alcohol outright, it warns against drunkenness and the loss of self-control, which can lead to sin. The apostle Paul writes in Ephesians 5:18, *"Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."* Drinking to the point of impairment can dull your spirit and make you vulnerable to temptation. We encourage you to examine your heart in this area and ask the Lord to help you walk in wisdom and sobriety, so that you may fully honor Him in all things.
We also notice that you mention unnamed individuals in your prayer—those whose hearts you hope the Lord will soften. It is good to pray for others, but we must ensure that our relationships align with God’s will. If these individuals are potential spouses, we urge you to seek godly, Christ-centered marriages that reflect the union of Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If they are not believers, Scripture warns us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). If they are already married to others, we must guard our hearts against any ungodly attachments. Be honest with yourself and with the Lord about the nature of these relationships.
You express love for Jesus Christ, and that is wonderful! There is no greater love than His sacrifice for us, and we are called to love Him with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30). Yet, we must also live in a way that reflects that love. If we truly love Him, we will keep His commandments (John 14:15). This includes fleeing from sin, pursuing holiness, and trusting Him to provide for our needs—including the desire for companionship.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with grateful hearts, thanking You for Your faithfulness and Your love. Lord, we lift up this brother in Christ, asking that You would draw him closer to You. Help him to walk in wisdom and self-control, especially in the area of alcohol. Soften his heart to receive Your correction and strengthen him to resist temptation. Father, we ask that You would clarify his relationships—whether they are godly or ungodly—and give him the courage to align them with Your will. If there are any ungodly attachments, break them, Lord, and replace them with Your peace. We pray for his work, that You would grant him strength, diligence, and favor as he honors You in his labor. Above all, Lord, deepen his love for You and his dependence on Your Spirit. May he find his satisfaction in You alone. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
You are right to declare that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13). But let us also remember that this strength is not just for worldly success—it is for living a life that pleases God. We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers who can sharpen you in your walk. If you are struggling with loneliness or the desire for marriage, bring those longings to the Lord. He is faithful to provide, but His timing and His ways are perfect. Trust Him, and do not compromise your faith for temporary comfort.
Finally, we rejoice that you love Jesus Christ! That love should compel us to live differently—to turn away from sin and to pursue righteousness. If there are areas in your life where you have strayed, confess them to the Lord. He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is worth more than anything this world offers.
I appreciate you so much and I pray that you and your family are going to be okay 
