Jesus Christ please help me

Theerpuinhaven

Disciple of Prayer
I need help. Please pray for me to stop drinking alcohol and to be able to get back to work tomorrow morning. I had a cyst in my spine removed and I still have pain in my back and legs. Please forgive me for not being able to be a better husband and a better person and a better man and a better worker. Please soften the hearts of my bosses and my family and my customers. Dear God please help me change. I don't want to live like this anymore. Please help me.
 
We hear your cry for help, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting your burdens to the Lord in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Your honesty and humility before God are a powerful first step toward healing and restoration. The Word of God tells us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this struggle—God sees your pain, your repentance, and your desire to change, and He is already at work in your life.

First, we must address the root of your struggle with alcohol. Scripture is clear that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and we are called to honor God with them (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Drunkenness is a snare that leads to destruction (Proverbs 23:29-35), and it grieves the heart of God when we allow anything—including pain, stress, or shame—to control us instead of surrendering to Him. Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18), and that includes freedom from addiction. We rebuke the spirit of bondage that has kept you in this cycle, and we declare that in Christ, you are no longer a slave to sin (Romans 6:6). The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you, and it is more than enough to break every chain (Ephesians 1:19-20).

Your physical pain is real, and we do not dismiss it. The cyst in your spine and the lingering discomfort are burdens we bring before the Great Physician, who *"heals all your diseases"* (Psalm 103:3). We pray for supernatural relief from pain, for strength in your body, and for wisdom for your doctors. But we also encourage you to seek godly, biblical counsel for pain management—whether through physical therapy, godly medical advice, or even prayer for divine healing. Do not let pain become an excuse for sin, but neither should you bear it alone. God is your healer, and He will sustain you (Isaiah 41:10).

Your heartfelt confession about failing as a husband, worker, and man reveals a deep desire to honor God in every area of your life. The enemy would love for you to stay trapped in shame, but Scripture tells us that *"if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). Your repentance is not in vain—God is already at work, restoring what has been broken. We pray that your wife, family, and employers would see the change in you and extend grace, just as Christ has extended grace to you. But remember, your worth is not defined by their approval or your performance. You are a son of the Most High God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that is where your identity lies (Galatians 2:20).

Now, we lift you up in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, the Author and Perfecter of our faith. Lord, we thank You for this brother’s honesty and his cry for help. You see the depths of his struggle, and You are already moving on his behalf. We ask for Your supernatural strength to rise up within him, breaking the chains of addiction and filling him with a hunger for righteousness. Father, we rebuke the spirit of drunkenness and declare that he is no longer bound by it. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in self-control and sobriety, as Your Word commands (Titus 2:11-12).

Lord, we pray for his physical healing. Touch his spine, his legs, and every part of his body that is in pain. We declare Your healing power over him, and we ask that You would give him the endurance to face each day with hope. Provide him with godly wisdom for managing his pain, and surround him with people who will encourage him in his walk with You.

Father, we ask for restoration in his marriage. Soften his wife’s heart to see his repentance and his desire to change. Help him to love her as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25), and to lead his family with humility and grace. We pray for favor with his employers and customers—may they see the transformation in him and respond with mercy and understanding.

Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would draw him closer to You. Remind him daily that his worth is found in You alone, and that You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5). Strengthen his faith, deepen his prayer life, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We declare that he is a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17), and we thank You for the work You are doing in his life.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

You are not defined by your past failures, but by the redeeming love of Jesus Christ. The road to recovery and restoration will not be easy, but it is worth it. We encourage you to take practical steps to break free from alcohol: seek accountability through a biblical support group or a trusted brother in Christ, fill your mind with Scripture (start with Psalm 119:9-11), and replace the time spent drinking with prayer, worship, and godly fellowship. The enemy will try to convince you that you are too far gone, but God’s Word says otherwise: *"He who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ"* (Philippians 1:6).

You are loved. You are forgiven. And you are called to walk in freedom. Keep pressing into Jesus—He is your strength, your healer, and your Redeemer.
 
We're here for you, brother. We understand that life can be tough, and sometimes it feels like we're drowning in our struggles. But remember, Jesus is right there with you, and He's got a hold on you that's stronger than any addiction or pain.

We're praying for you tonight. We're asking God to give you the strength to stand firm against alcohol. We're claiming the power of Jesus' name over you, breaking every chain of addiction, and filling you with His Holy Spirit. We're asking God to touch your spine and legs, to bring healing and relief from your pain. We're praying for restoration in your marriage, for favor with your employers and customers, and for a deeper walk with God.

But we also want to encourage you. It's going to take more than just prayer to overcome this. You're going to need to take action too. Find a support group, maybe a Bible-believing church or a trusted friend who can hold you accountable. Fill your mind with God's Word - start with Psalm 119:9-11. Replace the time you used to spend drinking with prayer, worship, and godly fellowship. You can do this, brother. God hasn't given up on you, and neither have we.

Keep fighting. Keep trusting. Keep pressing into Jesus. He's got you, and He's not going to let you go. You are loved. You are forgiven. And you are called to walk in freedom.
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 

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