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[Anonymous]

LIFE IN I HAVE A BOAZ IN MY LIFE THAT I CAN LAUGH WITH GREATLYYY..I FIND MY HUSBAND MY BOAZ OF MY DREAMS THAT WILL BE A GOOD THING FOR ME GREATLYYYYY THAT LOVES TO SMOKE DAB…..MY CATS COME RIGHT TODAYYYY THEY CAN STAY BEHIND IF THEY WANT TO ITS TO MUCH TODAY THE EVIL WAS TO DRASTICALLY IN LOVE DOESNT EXIST THAT ENDS IN MY LIFE IT DOES EXIST GREATLY GODS WILL WITH MY CATS GREATLYYY I THEY COME WITH ME OR NOT NOW GREATLY BOTH OF THEM…LIFE IN THE WORLD CAN HAVE A HEART FOR ME NORMALLY…LIFE IN I FIND A GUY MY FINE ASS GUY THAT WILL STAY WITH ME GREATLY I FIND A BETTER PLACE TO STAY WHERE I CAN BE HAPPY GODS WILL WITH MY CATS NOW AFTER TODAY IM NOT HAPPY LET THAT CHANGE GREATLYYYY…LIFE IN I HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE AGAIN GREATLY I CLEAN OUT THE GARAGE SOME MORE PACK ALL MY THINGS OUT OF THE BEDROOM SO THERES NOTHING LEFT OF MINE IN THERE EVER AGAIN GREATLYYYY..THATS IT THATS ALL WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS..

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and confusion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The raw emotion you’re expressing, anger, despair, longing for love, and a sense of betrayal, is not something to be dismissed. But we must gently yet firmly address the areas where your words and desires do not align with God’s Word, for His truth is the only path to true healing and restoration.

First, we must rebuke the idea that you are seeking or celebrating a "fine ass guy" or any relationship outside of your marriage. Scripture is clear: marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). The moment we entertain thoughts of leaving our spouse for another, whether emotionally or physically, we open the door to sin and destruction. Jesus Himself said, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6). The pain you feel right now does not justify breaking this covenant. Instead, we must bring this pain before the Lord and ask Him to restore what has been broken.

The mention of smoking "dab" is also deeply concerning. God calls us to honor Him with our bodies, which are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Substance use that clouds the mind or leads to sin is not of God. We must repent of anything that dulls our spiritual sensitivity or draws us away from His will.

You also speak of your husband as your "Boaz," a term often used in Christian circles to describe a godly spouse. But if this man is not living in a way that honors God, if he is leading you into sin or failing to cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church, then we must pray for him just as fervently as we pray for you. A godly marriage requires two people submitted to God’s will, not just one. If your husband is not walking in righteousness, we must intercede for his heart to be transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Your cats are a secondary concern, but even in this, we see your heart’s turmoil. God cares about every detail of our lives, including our pets (Matthew 10:29), but we must not let even good things become idols that distract us from His purpose. If moving forward requires leaving them behind for a time, trust that God will care for them as He cares for you.

Now, let us turn to the Lord in prayer:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the anger in her words, and we ask that You would meet her in this moment with Your perfect peace. Father, we repent on her behalf for any thoughts or desires that do not align with Your Word, whether it be the temptation to abandon her marriage, the allure of sinful relationships, or the misuse of substances that harm her body. Cleanse her heart, Lord, and renew her mind according to Your truth (Romans 12:2).

We declare over her marriage that what You have joined together, no man, or circumstance, should separate (Mark 10:9). We pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart, draw him to repentance, and restore him as the godly leader You designed him to be. If there has been unfaithfulness, betrayal, or neglect, we ask that You would heal those wounds and replace them with forgiveness, love, and unity.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of despair that is trying to convince her that love does not exist or that happiness can only be found outside of Your will. Remind her that true joy is found in You alone (Nehemiah 8:10) and that Your plans for her are good, even when the path is difficult (Jeremiah 29:11). Give her the strength to clean out not just her garage, but her heart, to remove anything that does not belong to You and to fill that space with Your presence.

We speak life over her home, her marriage, and her future. May she find her identity in Christ, not in her circumstances or her emotions. Help her to see herself as You see her: beloved, chosen, and called for a purpose. And may she experience the fullness of Your love in a way that overflows into every area of her life.

We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and the only name that has power to break every chain. Amen."

Sister, we urge you to press into God’s Word during this time. Meditate on Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." You are not alone in this battle. Surround yourself with godly counsel, women who will pray with you, hold you accountable, and remind you of God’s promises when the enemy whispers lies.

If your husband is not a believer or is living in sin, do not lose hope. 1 Peter 3:1-2 encourages wives to win their husbands "without a word, by the behavior of their wives, when they see your pure and reverent behavior." Your godly response to this pain could be the very thing that draws him to Christ.

Lastly, if you have not already, we must ask: Have you surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ? Have you confessed Him as Lord and Savior, believing that He died for your sins and rose again? If not, we beg you to do so today. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus is the only way to the Father, and it is only through Him that we find true peace, purpose, and eternal life.

You are loved more than you know. Do not give up. God is working, even when you cannot see it. Hold fast to Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the heavy mixture of grief and fierce hope in your words, the finality of something ending, the longing for a fresh start, and the sheer effort it’s taking just to get through today. That’s real, and you’re not alone in it.

When a chapter closes so abruptly, the feelings can crash in all at once, hurt, relief, the impulse to scrub your space and your heart clean. Packing your things out of the bedroom and clearing the garage are tangible, good steps. They’re ways of saying, “This part is done, and I’m making room.” As you tackle those boxes, it’s okay to move at your own pace, to rest when it gets heavy, and to let a trusted friend sit with you or help carry things. You don’t have to do it all alone.

We also hear how much your cats matter and how unsettled things feel for them too. They’re a gift, and we’re asking God to steady their little hearts and yours, to bring a peaceful place where you can all land safely, whether that’s together or in whatever arrangement brings the most wholeness. You deserve a home where you can breathe again.

As you look ahead to what’s next, a better place, a positive attitude returning, and someday a loving, faithful husband, we’re not going to offer quick promises. But we will ask Jesus to hold you close, to mend what’s shattered, and to guide each practical step. He sees you, even in the chaos.

Jesus, we lift up this brave woman who just hit a hard wall. Wrap her in Your kindness tonight. Protect her cats, steady her hands as she packs, and open a door to a safe, happy home where she can heal. Give her the right people to lean on, and in Your perfect time, bring a good man who loves You and cherishes her. Quiet the voices that say love doesn’t exist, They’re lies. Replace them with a stubborn hope and a clear mind. We ask this in Your name, Jesus.

 

[Spurgeon]

It is over. The words fall like a door slamming shut in a dark hallway, and for a moment every light you thought you carried goes out. I will not pretend that this is a small thing, nor will I heap platitudes on a wound that is still bleeding. An ending, whatever the details, leaves you with a pile of pieces that used to be a life, and your hands do not yet know how to hold what remains.

But I want you to hear this, plainly and tenderly: the closing of one chapter is not the closing of the book. You are still in the story, and the Author has not put down His pen.

You have been cast into deep water. I know that sensation, when the waves break over the bows and you cannot see the shore. Yet it is a strange and holy truth that the Lord often puts His people in an uncomfortable ship for the good of everyone on board. Not because He has forgotten you, but because He means to make you salt where the decay is worst, light where the darkness is thickest. Even your present upheaval, your frantic packing and cleaning, is not wasted motion. “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might.” Right now your hand finds boxes, a garage floor, a bedroom to empty of your things. Do it with all your might, not as drudgery but as an act of holy defiance against despair. Each item you pack is a brick laid for the next dwelling God has prepared. You are not merely clearing out a room; you are making space for what He intends to build.

I can hear you saying, through the tears, “Who will show me any good?” The world shouts that question from every street corner, looking for visible, tangible joys that crumble in the fingers. A fine man, a happy home, laughter, these are not wrong to desire, but they are poor foundations. The heart that waits for a Boaz has a better promise: the true Boaz, your Kinsman-Redeemer, has already claimed you. Jesus Christ has bought you, and He has not let you go. The love you fear does not exist is standing at your right hand this very moment, scarred and sovereign. He does not leave when the laughter dies. He does not vanish with the smoke. He stays.

Your cats? The Lord who notes the fall of every sparrow knows where they are needed. Cast that care upon Him. He will settle them according to His will, and you may trust Him with creatures He made for His own pleasure.

And what of the heaviness that presses on your chest, the sense that all the goodness has drained out of life? Ponder this: the deepest happiness is not found in the mending of circumstances, but in the forgiveness of sins. If you are in Christ, your sins are forgiven you. That is not a churchly phrase; it is a key that unlocks the dungeon. It is the sun breaking through a black-edged envelope. A pardoned soul has solid ground beneath her feet, not the shifting sand of a man’s affection, not the fleeting calm of a tidy room, but the immovable rock of God’s favor. “Son, be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee.” The Master spoke that word to the man sick of the palsy, and it fell on his paralysis with more power than all the physicians in Jerusalem. It falls on your crushed spirit with the same authority. If your sins are forgiven, then God is not against you. Then the end of a human love is not the end of the love that upholds the universe. Then you have reason, even now, to take a single deep breath and call it the beginning of a new song.

I do not ask you to ignore the ache or to paste a smile over it. A broken bone must be set before it can heal. Jesus Himself is the one who binds up the broken. He says, “I will seek that which was lost, and bring again that which was driven away, and will bind up that which was broken, and will strengthen that which was sick.” You have been driven, lost, broken, sick. Very well. That is precisely the description of the patient the Great Physician has sworn to cure. He does not pass by His bruised sheep. He leaves the ninety-nine to find the one that is floundering in the thicket. You are not too tangled, too frantic, or too spent for His hand.

Do not run away into a cave of solitary misery. The impulse to hide is strong, but the healed demoniac heard the word, “Go home to thy friends, and tell them what great things the Lord hath done for thee.” Go back to the ordinary places. Call the trusted friend. Sit at the kitchen table. Let the tears come. There is no shame in them. Your life is not a public performance; it is a pilgrimage, and pilgrims sometimes stumble badly. But the Shepherd is ahead of you, and His rod and staff are real.

Soon enough, you will find your hands busy with new tasks. The garage will be clean. The bedroom will hold nothing of yours, and that very emptiness will be a kind of altar. A positive attitude is not a forced grin; it is the steady, quiet confidence that God has procured prosperity for you, not always the prosperity of bulging barns, but of a heart at rest in His will. When He brings you into a wide place, you will look back and tremble with gratitude for all the goodness you did not then perceive. The ripples of your life, even the bitter ones, will flash with light.

For now, simply lean. Lean on the everlasting arms. Do the next small thing. Breathe the name of Jesus into every ache. He has not let you go.

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Lord Jesus, gather this bruised soul under Your wing. You see the packing boxes and the hidden tears. You know the longing for a better place, for companionship, for laughter. Meet each need in Your own perfect way. Restore a right spirit. Bring her cats to safety according to Your will. Make the new place a haven, and let her heart sing again in Your time. In Your strong name, I commit her to Your keeping. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.