Some sins are described in the Bible__homosexuality, idolatry,etc.But some things SEEM wrong, but may not be mentioned specifically.Because I had this problem with some, and have heard others have it. Taking advantage of someone, and with intent to do so.We're to help others. I understand that. But I'm not talking about legitimate needs.I'm talking about someone who makes a lifestyle out of making their lives easier by finding others to do everything for them.Like, among many unsaved people I notice a tendency that, once they get to know someone a little,instead of just seeing the person as someone to be friendly with,right away the thought comes to mind,"this person can do this and that for me.they can be useful to me."Now, is it a sin to look to use someone to your advantage?I would think to a certain extent it is, because it involves selfishness,when you have a legitimate reason you can't do it at a certain time, and they don't work with you, they "push it",and don't take no for an answer.They want to "jump the line",if it's job related and you have other appointments first, they "don't take no for an answer"and try to "push themselves in."Also selfishness because you could do 5 things for them, and you need one thing one day, and they give every excuse why they don't want to{in other words, "one-sided"} Also, they sometimes "turn on you" if you can't comply.What I'm saying, everyone thinks the person turning down the favor is the selfish one,but I think the person ASKING FOR something can be selfish.Also, we're supposed to help, but if someone asks us for something against our principals, like if an unsaved husband asks a Christian neighbor,"My wife is away. Go tell my mistress I'm alone in the house"...come on.SOOO...is intentionally taking advantage of someone a sin, if it's done for the purposes of manipulation?I somehow think so.
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Is taking advantage of someone a sin?
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The Encourager
The Encourager
Brother James did not say anything for or against what you initially stated. Brother James looked on the flip side of the coin. Brother Steven, you also look on the flip side of the coin. Can we just all work and walk together in Christ Jesus in love.
I need to make this point: When God tells me or either of you to do something, no one is taking advantage of us. They may think they are using us, but it is God using us.
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The Encourager
The Encourager
Brother Steven, I do appreciate many of the questions you ask. We are not always going to agree with each other. And when we don't agree with each other, you or I should not go into the attack mode with each other or anyone else. We must walk in love and speak the truth in love.
But we should always agree on the Word of God! I will always agree with the Word of God no matter what.
The Bible Says that we should not take advantage of people. It is wrong in God's eyesight. So it should be wrong in our eyesight.
"Do not take advantage of each other, but fear your God. I am the LORD your God" (Lev. 25:17).
"Never take advantage of poor and destitute laborers, whether they are fellow Israelites or foreigners living in your towns" (Deut. 24:14).
Don't take advantage of the poor just because you can; don't take advantage of those who stand helpless in court (Prov. 22:22).
If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, it is sin for them (James 4:17).
But we should always agree on the Word of God! I will always agree with the Word of God no matter what.
The Bible Says that we should not take advantage of people. It is wrong in God's eyesight. So it should be wrong in our eyesight.
"Do not take advantage of each other, but fear your God. I am the LORD your God" (Lev. 25:17).
"Never take advantage of poor and destitute laborers, whether they are fellow Israelites or foreigners living in your towns" (Deut. 24:14).
Don't take advantage of the poor just because you can; don't take advantage of those who stand helpless in court (Prov. 22:22).
If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, it is sin for them (James 4:17).
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Steven Bobb
Beloved of All
Like the bumper stickers state,"Christians aren't perfect, just forgiven".So whether you're a Christian or not, if you say something I think is wrong,,I can disagree with it. Or does it only apply to you disagreing with me?
When we see someone walking and living in sin, then we should pray for them. No judging anyone, no anger, nothing that will offend anyone. Jesus knows the heart of those who live in sin. They need to cast the devil out of their home and out of their heart. Only Jesus can do this. In the name of Jesus there is power from heaven. Satan will flee and they will be delivered.
Brother James
Beloved of All
I didn't say anything against you to disagree with.
It takes a very odd person to think that they can think what someone else is thinking, don't you think?
Did you even bother to read in Mathew?
Steven Bobb
Beloved of All
Well you agree about the taking advantage of .Yes, I might have a tendency to do that,but like I also posted to him, it takes 2 to tango, and in another blog I posted that I would have "moved on", if he would do the same.But sometimes I feel he wants to get the last say.Also, disagreeing is one thing, but sometimes others appreciate what I say, but he'll make a critical remark, like,"why am I thinking about that?"But if he doesn't like what I post, why not just move on?Saves both of us from an argument.I agree with what you said about, it IS ridiculous, everyone sees the arguments, including unsaved people who are thinking about being saved.
Steven Bobb
Beloved of All
I can tell a critical tone.
Steven Bobb
Beloved of All
WHEN GOD DOES IT.But if it's someone just doing it for their own selfish motives,and cares more about themselves than you, in that case...
natasha2
Beloved of All
I bind all spirits and powers that causies misunderstanding or strife amongst you twoin the name of Jesus. I plie the blood of Jesus over your conversations, in the name of Jesus.
Steven, pray the psalm 1 over yourself every day, and read proverbs, there is much wisdom how to proceed in life. I heard one preacher say IF I AM NOT SURE SHOULD I DO SOMETHING OR NOT, I RATHER DONT DO IT. Also, ask God for Wisdom (James 1). He will give it to you. Also pray for the fullfilling of the Holy spirit and leading of the Holy spirit. Also every morning plie the blood of Jesus over yourself. I believe wrong people will stop intruding your life. But you must also do your part. Faith without works is dead. Is God tells you not to socialize with one person, then dont do it. If you feel confusion or anger every time with someone, dont communicate with that person. By doing that you are honoring this person, yourself and God. Gods will is best.
There is something called ungodly soulties, when you have problems with someone, you feel confusion, you feel drained or anything like that. Some brother or sister may be ok, but it is not given to you to be close to you. Everyone of us has a different calling and knowledge of God. That goes also for unsaved people.
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Steven, pray the psalm 1 over yourself every day, and read proverbs, there is much wisdom how to proceed in life. I heard one preacher say IF I AM NOT SURE SHOULD I DO SOMETHING OR NOT, I RATHER DONT DO IT. Also, ask God for Wisdom (James 1). He will give it to you. Also pray for the fullfilling of the Holy spirit and leading of the Holy spirit. Also every morning plie the blood of Jesus over yourself. I believe wrong people will stop intruding your life. But you must also do your part. Faith without works is dead. Is God tells you not to socialize with one person, then dont do it. If you feel confusion or anger every time with someone, dont communicate with that person. By doing that you are honoring this person, yourself and God. Gods will is best.
There is something called ungodly soulties, when you have problems with someone, you feel confusion, you feel drained or anything like that. Some brother or sister may be ok, but it is not given to you to be close to you. Everyone of us has a different calling and knowledge of God. That goes also for unsaved people.
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Brother James
Beloved of All
I was only making a point that we are all users of Jesus and we as Christians all take advantage to some degree of Jesus. We are all in this world to do our part for each other, to do our part that God has ordained for us to do. Some understand that more than others. Jesus wants us to use Him, He wants us to depend on Him, not just for salvation but rather for everything.
I do understand where you are coming from Steven. Do you understand where I'm coming from?
Do you love Jesus? Than do what Jesus instructs us to do in His Word! If someone tries to take advantage of you, then yes use your best judgment of how to respond to them but do it out of love and in the Name Jesus.
Do you love that Jesus suffered for you? Then are we not all to suffer for Him?
Do you love Jesus? Do you accept Jesus? Is accepting and doing Jesus Words a form of proof for ourselves as well as others that we accept Jesus?
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