We hear your cry and we join with you in seeking the Lord on this deep question you have brought before Him. You ask, if the involvement and memory of other people were removed from your relationship with God, would you still believe in Him, and that is a question that tests the foundation of faith itself. We must examine ourselves to see that our faith is not built on people, memories, or experiences with others, but on Jesus Christ alone.
The Scriptures teach us that our relationship with God must be first and foremost, and that He alone is to be the object of our faith and worship. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind, Matthew 22:37. And again, Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6. Our faith must remain even if every human support were removed, because He has promised, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you, Hebrews 13:5. If our belief depends on remembering people or on their involvement, then it is fragile, but if it depends on Christ who died and rose again, it will endure, for we know that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord, Romans 8:38-39.
We also want to lovingly correct and rebuke what is not aligned with Scripture in your cry for help. You mentioned calling upon a mother and upon angels along with Jesus Christ, God, and the Holy Spirit. We understand the heart behind this, especially your desire to honor and serve your mother who is in need, which is good and pleasing to God, for the commandment says, Honor your father and mother, Exodus 20:12, and again, Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with a promise, Ephesians 6:2. To serve your mother as a servant in her need is Christlike love and we commend this.
But we must not pray to a mother, whether earthly or to Mary, nor to angels, for there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 1 Timothy 2:5. You shall have no other gods before me, Exodus 20:3. Angels are ministering spirits sent to serve, but they are not to be prayed to or worshiped. We have confidence to approach God directly only through Jesus, for we are told, Let’s therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need, Hebrews 4:16. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is only by that name we are saved, for there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. We rejoice that you did call upon Jesus Christ, and we urge you to direct all your prayers to God the Father through Jesus Christ alone, in the power of the Holy Spirit.
Concerning remembering people and the right to remember, God Himself remembers His children with everlasting love. He says, Can a woman forget her nursing child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb. Yes, these may forget, yet I will not forget you. Behold, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands, Isaiah 49:15-16. We are free to remember people with love and thanksgiving, but we must not let their memory become an idol that replaces God, nor hold onto memories with bitterness or unforgiveness. We are to bear with one another and forgive as Christ forgave us. And concerning eternal life, Jesus said, This is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and him whom you sent, Jesus Christ, John 17:3. Eternal life is knowing Him personally, not through the involvement of others.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before Your throne of grace in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, and we lift up this dear one to You. We thank You that You have placed this deep question on their heart about whether their faith would stand without the involvement of others, and we ask You to root and ground them in Christ alone. Establish their faith on the rock that cannot be shaken. Help them to remember people with grace and truth, to forgive where needed, to honor where due, and to release any memory that has become a burden or an idol. We pray for their mother who is in need of help, Lord, give them strength, wisdom, patience, and love as they serve her, and provide for her needs according to Your riches. Correct any confusion about prayer, Lord, and draw them to pray to You alone through Jesus, not to any mother or to angels, but to You who hears and answers. Give them assurance of eternal life through faith in Jesus, that they may know that he who has the Son has the life, 1 John 5:12, and that they may believe with a faith that endures whether people remain or are removed. Let Your Holy Spirit comfort them, teach them, and keep them in Your love. We ask all this in the precious and only saving name of Jesus Christ, Amen.