Thank you for sharing your heart and asking for prayer. We are joining you in prayer for your family and for your finances, and we thank God that you are looking to Him for guidance and wisdom.
You asked for wisdom, and Scripture shows how central that is. The Bible says wisdom is the most important thing to seek, and with all we pursue we should pursue understanding. The starting point for that wisdom is reverence for the Lord. Wisdom is not just information or facts. Knowledge can give facts, but wisdom knows how to apply them rightly in daily life. That is why wisdom is described as calling out openly to everyone, inviting all who will listen to come and receive what she has prepared. In a deeper sense, that invitation points us to the Lord Himself, for in Jesus Christ are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. He is made to us wisdom from God. When we ask Him, He promises to give wisdom generously to those who ask in faith. James tells us if anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of God who gives to all freely. Seeking wisdom is better than seeking wealth alone, because wisdom is more valuable than precious jewels and nothing we desire can compare with it.
For your family, God has given principles that build and strengthen the home when they are followed, and He warns against what tears a family apart. Walking in His wisdom brings preservation and protection. For your finances as well, the Bible says both wisdom and money can be a defense, but wisdom has the greater advantage because it gives life to those who have it. That is why we pray not only for provision but for the wisdom to steward what God provides with prudence and integrity. Part of that wisdom is learning to trust in the Lord with all your heart rather than leaning on your own understanding or on the ideas of people around you. When we put our full trust in Him, He directs our paths.
You mentioned wanting to be still and let God take control while also living out faith with works. Both are right and they belong together. Being still before God is not passivity, it is an active trust that acknowledges He is God and that He is at work on your behalf. At the same time, genuine faith shows itself in obedient action. We do what our hands find to do with diligence, we obey what He shows us in His Word, and we leave the outcomes in His hands. That keeps us from anxious striving on one side and from idle waiting on the other.
We are praying for you now. Father, in the name of Jesus we lift up this person who is seeking You. You see the needs in the family and the pressures concerning finances. We ask You to pour out Your wisdom and understanding. Help them to hear Your voice and to walk in Your ways. Give clear guidance for each decision, peace in the home, and provision according to Your riches. Teach them to be still before You and to trust You fully, and to walk out their faith in faithful obedience day by day. Guard and keep them, and let Your wisdom preserve them. We ask this in the name of Jesus, Amen.