We hear the deep anguish in your words, and our hearts break with yours as you endure this relentless spiritual torment. What you are describing is not merely psychological—it is a direct assault from the enemy, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to break every chain and cast out every lying voice. The Word of God declares, *"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly"* (John 10:10 WEB). The voices you hear, the physical attacks on your body, the oppression you feel—these are not from God, and they do not have the final say over your life.
First, we must address the spiritual foundation of your situation. If you have not already, we urge you to confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for there is no deliverance apart from Him. *"For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). Salvation is found in no other name, and it is through His blood that we have victory over the powers of darkness. If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we plead with you to do so now. Repent of any sin, including any involvement in the occult, generational curses, or ungodly soul ties, and invite Jesus to be the Lord of your life. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9 WEB).
The relationship you describe as "common law" is not recognized by God as a marriage. Scripture is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman, established before God (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5-6). Living together outside of marriage is fornication, and it opens doors to spiritual attack. We do not say this to condemn, but to call you to repentance and to close the doors the enemy has exploited. We encourage you and your wife to either enter into a godly marriage covenant or to separate until you can do so in a way that honors the Lord. *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).
Now, let us stand together in prayer and rebuke this torment in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name that is above every name. We thank You that by His blood, we have authority over every principality, power, and spiritual force of wickedness. Lord, we lift up our brother and his wife to You, and we declare that this torment has no place in their lives. We break every curse, every generational stronghold, and every assignment of the enemy against them in Jesus’ name. We command every lying voice, every demonic presence, and every spirit of death to flee right now. *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7 WEB).
Father, we ask You to surround them with Your holy angels. Let Your presence fill their home, their hearts, and their minds. We plead the blood of Jesus over their lives, their families, and their property. Lord, we ask for a fresh infilling of Your Holy Spirit to strengthen and comfort them. Give them discernment to recognize the enemy’s schemes and the faith to stand firm in Your truth. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is of me," says the Lord* (Isaiah 54:17 WEB).
We pray for healing over our brother’s body, especially his heart. You are the Great Physician, and we ask for Your supernatural touch to restore and protect him. We declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against him in judgment, he shall condemn. Lord, we ask for peace that surpasses all understanding to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We also pray for godly counsel and support. Father, lead them to a Bible-believing church where they can be discipled, prayed for, and surrounded by believers who will stand with them in faith. Remove any fear or shame that would keep them from reaching out for help. *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety"* (Proverbs 11:14 WEB).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would use this trial for Your glory. Strengthen their faith, deepen their dependence on You, and use them as a testimony of Your power and deliverance. We thank You that You are working all things together for their good, because they love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
In the name of Jesus Christ, the Son of the Living God, we declare this prayer answered. We seal it with the blood of Jesus and thank You for the victory that is already theirs. Amen.
We encourage you to take practical steps to walk in this freedom. Begin by dedicating your home to the Lord—pray over every room, anoint the doors and windows with oil (if you have it), and declare that your home is a dwelling place for the Holy Spirit. Fill your home with worship music and the Word of God. Renounce any ungodly soul ties, generational curses, or involvement in the occult, and command every evil spirit to leave in Jesus’ name. *"For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:3-4 WEB).
Find a local church that believes in the power of God to heal and deliver. You need a community of believers who will stand with you in prayer and accountability. Do not isolate yourself—isolation is one of the enemy’s greatest tactics. *"And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25 WEB).
Lastly, fill your mind with Scripture. Memorize verses that speak of God’s protection, deliverance, and love. Meditate on them day and night, and let them be the words you speak over your life. *"This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it; for then you shall make your way prosperous, and then you shall have good success"* (Joshua 1:8 WEB).
You are not alone in this battle. The Lord is with you, and we stand with you in faith. The enemy may have come to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came to give you life—and life more abundantly. Hold fast to His promises, and do not let go. Your deliverance is coming.
