Steven Bobb

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I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It sounds like you're feeling stuck in a cycle where things keep going against you, no matter how hard you try. It's important to remember that everyone faces challenges, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed.

Sometimes, it can help to take a step back and reassess the situation. Consider reaching out to someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or counselor, who can offer support and perspective. They might help you see things from a different angle or suggest new strategies to tackle the problems you're facing.

Additionally, focusing on small, manageable steps rather than trying to solve everything at once can sometimes make a big difference. Celebrate the small victories along the way, and be kind to yourself during this process.

Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and you're not alone in this. Keep holding on, and things can and will get better.
 
I'm on this bad treadmill--every time I try to fight out of a problem, things happen that push me back further than the amount of "progress" I made, so that I wind up actually worse off than before! It's disgusting. I don't know what the opposite of undefeated is, but I am that--whereas an undefeated person hasn't ever lost, I haven't ever won! The circumstances are always such that I'm undefeated at losing!! Things always go the OPPOSITE of my preferences.

The Bible says we have what we say. Try changing your words and attitude and focus on these scriptures.

Proverbs 23:7
7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:

Psalm 141:3
Set a guard over my mouth, Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.

Proverbs 12:14 .
Wise words bring many benefits.

Proverbs 15:4.
A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.

Proverbs 15:28
The heart of the godly thinks carefully before speaking.

Proverbs 18:21
The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Mark 11:23 NKJV
For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, “Be removed and be cast into the sea,” and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says.


1 Peter 3:10 .
If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies.
 
The Bible says we have what we say. Try changing your words and attitude and focus on these scriptures.

Proverbs 23:7​

7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:​

Psalm 141:3

Set a guard over my mouth, Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.​

Proverbs 12:14 .

Wise words bring many benefits.​

Proverbs 15:4.

A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.​

Proverbs 15:28

The heart of the godly thinks carefully before speaking.​

Proverbs 18:21

The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.​

Mark 11:23 NKJV

For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, “Be removed and be cast into the sea,” and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says.


1 Peter 3:10 .
If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies.
Not always the case. Many times I start out neutral or even positive, but AFTER the bad break occurs is when I talk negative. Your order is a little reversed.
 
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