I Need God Showing Me A Way Out Of This....

[Miriam]

I'm carrying a heavy burden for so long... Slowly but surely I came to know I married a man who lies constantly, a verbal abuser. He became a "Christian" about 5 years ago; was baptized and after 10 months I discovered pictures of him with a girl not older than our daughter of 22; He was 53 years at the time.... Today he left the church and claim to be Atheist...I'm taking anti depressive for a few months. We have a 14 year son and I know a divorce would destroy us all. I trusted completely someone I shouldn't; dedicated my whole life to this marriage...I need prayers; need to get out of this situation without hurting/damaging my son and myself even more than we already are. Please, pray for us...

 

[4ever hope]

I am sorry to hear that you are going thru this. I pray for God's peace to wash over you as you seek comfort and guidance from Him thru prayer and discussion with other people of Faith in God. I pray that your husband experiences a spiritual awakening and that your family is protected from all negative influences. (((HUGS)))

 

[jcdavid]

I will suggest that instead of anti depressive drugs, take the WORD OF GOD (READ THE BIBLE EVERY DAY), in seven days time, you will tell a new story in the NAME OF JESUS-AMEN. The WORD of God will give direction and lead you out the trap with fullness of joy. John 15 vs 7

 

[kk1129]

Father, in Jesus name I rebuke and bind the enemy working in this family and this marriage. I demand that the enemy restore what it has stolen unjustly in this family and this marriage. Lord, in Jesus name I plead the blood of Jesus to heal, restore and make whole what has been so savagely attacked. Father, please lead both the man in this marriage and the 22 year old in the picture to repentance and to live their lives for You. Bind this marriage back together with cords that cannot be broken and make them stronger than ever. Lord, NOTHING is impossible with You. We look only to You for the answer and the miracle. Thank You for the miracle and beauty You will make of this.

 

[Deaf Ann]

Dear Heavenly Father, In Jesus's name, I rebuke husband of Miriam staying away from sexual urges and desires over young female and the darkness influence of atheism, make him in a "quakely" feeling inside of him by the flowing from the power of God, turn him back to God and Miriam restoring the marriage under the eye of God. I am asking God to encourage them for forgivness and repentance in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

 

[faithope]

Dear Miriam

May God guide you as you check on these following scriptures....if there is peace in these scriptures for your particular situation, then, it is where you need to work and pray on those scriptures.

(1 Corinthians 7)

No.1

v15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.

No.2

v11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband.

No.3

Because you choose to live a sanctified life for the Lord, your son will be protected by His promise-verse 14.

In righteousness, you shall be established...for your 14 year old son shall be taught by the Lord and great shall be the peace of your son-Isaiah 13-14, amen indeed!

No.4

I agree with jcdavie that you need to read His word day in and day out, othewise, you'll break down emotionally-its okay to grief/angry/upset but only to a certain point

28 My soul melts from heaviness;

Strengthen me according to Your word.

32 I will run the course of Your commandments,

For You shall enlarge my heart.



92 Unless Your law had been my delight,

I would then have perished in my affliction.

116 Uphold me according to Your word, that I may live;

And do not let me be ashamed of my hope.

162 I rejoice at Your word

As one who finds great treasure. -Psalm119

In Jesus' Name, amen.

 

[faithope]

Dear Miriam

May God guide you as you check on these following scriptures....if there is peace in these scriptures for your particular situation, then, it is where you need to work and pray on those scriptures.

(1 Corinthians 7)

No.1

v15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.

No.2

v11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband.

No.3

Because you choose to live a sanctified life for the Lord, your son will be protected by His promise-verse 14.

In righteousness, you shall be established...for your 14 year old son shall be taught by the Lord and great shall be the peace of your son-Isaiah 13-14, amen indeed!

No.4

I agree with jcdavie that you need to read His word day in and day out, othewise, you'll break down emotionally-its okay to grief/angry/upset but only to a certain point

28 My soul melts from heaviness;

Strengthen me according to Your word.

32 I will run the course of Your commandments,

For You shall enlarge my heart.



92 Unless Your law had been my delight,

I would then have perished in my affliction.

116 Uphold me according to Your word, that I may live;

And do not let me be ashamed of my hope.

162 I rejoice at Your word

As one who finds great treasure. -Psalm119

In Jesus' Name, amen.

One more clause that I forgot to add it in which is:-

Deutronomy 24:1-4 and Jeremiah 3:1

1 “When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, 2 when she has departed from his house, and goes and becomes another man’s wife, 3 if the latter husband detests her and writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her as his wife, 4 then her former husband who divorced her must not take her back to be his wife after she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the LORD, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the LORD your God is giving you as an inheritance.

I believe it applies both parties

God bless you sister.