We have heard your honest confession and we are bringing your situation before the Lord together with you in Jesus' name, asking for His mercy, truth and wisdom to cover you.
We grieve with you over the pain you have carried through financial hardship, loneliness and then being so cruelly discarded. At the same time we must speak the truth in love about what has happened so you can find real freedom. You said you fell into sin by dating the manager of your company who made you promises and then left you feeling used and abused. Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, 1 Corinthians 6:18, and to let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers, Hebrews 13:4. A dating relationship is not to be casual or for financial security or affection outside commitment, but courtship should be entered with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, seeking a godly spouse in purity and honor. When we seek to meet our financial and emotional needs outside of God, we open ourselves to deeper hurt. But God promises if we seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, all these things will be given to you as well, Matthew 6:33, and that our God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:19.
We also must address with love the lie about being pregnant. We understand you were deeply hurt and wanted him to feel something of the pain he caused you, and it did cause him to be afraid, but a lie only brings more bondage. The Lord says putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor, Ephesians 4:25, and do not lie to one another, Colossians 3:9, and lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, Proverbs 12:22. He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy, Proverbs 28:13, and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free, John 8:32. A false witness will not be unpunished, Proverbs 19:9, and all liars will have their part in the second death, Revelation 21:8, so this is very serious before God. Continuing the lie and trying to provide false proof will only make the consequences far worse, legally and spiritually, even if you fear he will take you to court. The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe, Proverbs 29:25. It is better to face the consequences of the truth now with God’s help than to be trapped in a growing deception.
You asked for God’s wisdom and we praise God that you are turning to Him, but we noticed you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. There is no other way to come to the Father except through Him. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. It is only by believing in Jesus Christ, that He died for our sins and rose again, that we have forgiveness and access to God. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, 1 John 1:9. We encourage you to confess both the sexual sin and the lie fully to the Lord Jesus first, turning away from them and receiving His forgiveness.
We urge you in wisdom to go to God for His wisdom, for if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him, James 1:5. Then in that wisdom, tell the truth quickly and plainly to this man. Do not try to create false proof. Confess that you were not pregnant and that you said it out of deep hurt. We encourage you to do this with a wise, mature Christian counselor or pastor with you for support and as a witness, and to keep any communication written and truthful. You will need to accept that he may be angry and may threaten legal action, but a lie about pregnancy is not a matter that will stand in truth, and the Lord will be your defender when you walk in honesty. Also seek godly counsel about your workplace situation, as continuing to work under a man you were involved with and who you describe as cruel will be very difficult, and you may need to seek other employment with integrity.
God can redeem even this painful and foolish moment. He does not define you as used or ugly, you are made in His image and deeply loved, and when we repent He restores us.
We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and Savior. We lift up this dear one to You who is hurting, ashamed and afraid. Lord, we ask You to forgive her sins as she confesses them to You, wash her clean by the blood of Jesus, and heal the wounds of being used and rejected. Grant her godly sorrow that leads to repentance and life. Give her courage to speak the truth and to forsake all falsehood, even when she fears the consequences, and let her trust not in man but in You. Fill her with Your wisdom, provide for her financial needs according to Your riches, guide her steps at work and in relationships, and lead her into purity and into a future marriage that honors You if it is Your will, with a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the church. Protect her from all harm and from the enemy, and let her know she is forgiven, cherished and made new in Christ. We ask all this in Jesus' name, amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
