Anonymous

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I am totally lost and there are several situations that I can’t figure out. I resigned from my job due to workplace abuse, fell into rent arrears, and have choices to make. I don’t know what I should decide and right now I have no motivation to decide. The odds are stacked against me and I pray in Jesus name for him to lift off this burden. When people say there is a God in control, my human mind can’t accept it because everything concerning me is in utter chaos. It seems like everything is out of control.
 
We hear the deep anguish in your words, and we want you to know that your cry has not fallen on deaf ears. The weight of workplace abuse, financial strain, and the overwhelming sense of chaos is more than any person should have to bear alone. You are not forgotten, and though it may feel like the odds are stacked against you, we serve a God who is not intimidated by chaos—He speaks order into it.

First, we must address the doubt that creeps in when circumstances seem out of control. It is human to question, especially when pain clouds our vision. But Scripture reminds us in Isaiah 55:8-9, *"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and your ways are not my ways," says Yahweh. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts."* Even when we cannot see His hand, we can trust His heart. The chaos you feel is not a sign of His absence, but perhaps an invitation to draw nearer to Him in dependence.

You mentioned praying in Jesus’ name, and this is crucial. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6), and it is only through Christ that we find true rest (Matthew 11:28). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him—not just your burdens, but your heart, your future, and your trust. Salvation is not just a one-time prayer; it is a daily choice to walk in faith, even when the path is unclear.

Now, let us rebuke the spirit of despair that whispers lies of hopelessness. The enemy wants you to believe that your situation is permanent, but God’s Word declares in Jeremiah 29:11, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* We also rebuke the financial bondage you are experiencing. God is Jehovah Jireh, your Provider (Genesis 22:14), and He has not abandoned you. We declare provision over your life and wisdom for the choices ahead.

Regarding your job situation, workplace abuse is never acceptable, and resigning may have been the right step for your well-being. However, we encourage you to seek godly counsel about your next steps—whether that means pursuing another job, furthering your education, or even exploring temporary work while you regain stability. Proverbs 15:22 says, *"Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established."* You do not have to figure this out alone.

As for your lack of motivation, we understand. Burnout and stress can leave us feeling paralyzed. But we urge you not to make permanent decisions in a temporary state of mind. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* Even in this season, God is working—perhaps not in the way you expect, but in ways that will shape your faith and character.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who is carrying a heavy burden. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the financial strain they are under. We ask that You would lift this weight from their shoulders and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we declare that You are in control, even when circumstances feel chaotic. We rebuke the spirit of despair and doubt, and we speak Your truth over their life—that You have plans for their welfare, not for evil, to give them a future and a hope.

Lord, we ask for provision in their time of need. Open doors of opportunity that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8), and give them wisdom to make decisions that align with Your will. If there are areas where they need to repent—whether in bitterness, unforgiveness, or fear—we ask that You would bring those to light and grant them the grace to surrender them to You. Father, restore their motivation and give them the strength to take one step at a time. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We pray for healing from the workplace abuse they endured. Mend their heart, Lord, and restore their confidence. If there are legal or financial steps they need to take, provide them with the resources and support to do so. Surround them with godly community—people who will speak life, offer practical help, and point them back to You.

Above all, Father, we ask that You would draw them closer to You. Let this season of struggle be a time of deepening their trust in You. Help them to fix their eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of their faith (Hebrews 12:2). We thank You that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28), even when they cannot see it yet. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.

Friend, we want to leave you with this encouragement: You are not defined by your circumstances. You are defined by the God who holds you in the palm of His hand. This season is not your forever, and though the road ahead may seem unclear, God promises to guide you. Psalm 32:8 says, *"I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you."* Trust Him with the details. Take one step at a time, and lean on Him for strength.

If you are able, we encourage you to reach out to a local church or Christian community for support. You do not have to walk this path alone. God often provides through His people, and there may be resources, counsel, or even job opportunities available through those connections. Keep praying, keep seeking Him, and hold fast to His promises. Your breakthrough is coming.
 
We're here with you, friend, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want to add our voices to the prayers already being lifted up on your behalf.

First, we want to remind you of the truth in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees you, He knows your pain, and He is close to you in your time of need. He is not surprised by your circumstances, and He is more than capable of turning your chaos into order.

We also want to encourage you with these words from 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." You don't have to have all the answers right now. It's okay to not be okay. God is big enough to handle your doubts, your fears, and your questions. He is not intimidated by your chaos; instead, He invites you to trust Him in the midst of it.

As for your job situation, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, "For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers." Surround yourself with wise, godly people who can help you navigate your next steps. Remember, it's okay to ask for help.

And finally, friend, we want to remind you of the truth in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has a plan for you, and it's a good one. Trust Him with your future, and take one step at a time.

We're praying for you, friend. We're believing for your healing, your provision, and your breakthrough. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep seeking God. He is with you, and He is for you. You are not alone.
 

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