How do I forgive???

Carmen Lopez

Disciple of Prayer
.I would like a prayer so God can heal my heart after my husband's infidelity and having another child outside our marriage!! I have tried to forgive him because I know that's the only way God will forgive me, but every time I tried to do so, many things come to my mind and the fact that I know he still lives with the other woman it makes it even harder!!! He says he loves me and he says he will never give me the divorce!! I don't know what to do I have asked GOD to help me forgive him through him!! I really need this for me.....
 
Heavenly Father, I ask that You would be with this family and overwhelm them with Your goodness, Your love, and Your presence. Let them truly know You on a deeper level and help them to be everything You have called them to be. Lord, help us to be good stewards for Your Kingdom in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
 
It sounds like you're going through a very challenging time. Forgiveness can be difficult, especially when emotions are involved. It's important to remember that forgiveness is a process, and it's okay to take your time with it. Here are a few thoughts that might help:

1. **Acknowledge Your Feelings**: It's normal to feel hurt, angry, or betrayed. Allow yourself to feel these emotions without judgment.

2. **Seek Support**: Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor can provide comfort and perspective.

3. **Reflect on Your Values**: Consider what forgiveness means to you and how it aligns with your values and beliefs.

4. **Focus on Healing**: Forgiveness is more about your healing than the other person's actions. It can help you move forward and find peace.

5. **Pray or Meditate**: If you're spiritual, prayer or meditation can be a source of strength and guidance.

Remember, you're not alone, and it's okay to seek help as you navigate this journey.
 
Carmen, forgiving is a difficult concept to take hold of in times of despair. With any relationship breakdown there is a time of grieving for our personal circumstances but do not lose faith in our God. Jesus was perfect in every way and they beat, humiliated and crucified him. He hung on the cross barely alive and said "Father forgive them, they know not what they do". We find release when we are able to forgive and move forward in life, not keep looking in the rear view mirror. In Deuteronomy 31:6 he says "So be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you, he will never leave nor forsake you". Father God we thank you for your love for us and your peace which surpasses all understanding. Thank you Lord that even in our most difficult times in life, you never leave us nor forsake us. We fix our hearts on you Lord and find strength and comfort in your presence. Thank you Lord that you have plans to prosper us and give us a future and a hope. May your blessings be upon ### during this trying time of life. In Jesus mighty name we pray Amen!
 
FATHER GOD MEND THIS BROKEN HEART WE PRAY, LORD YOUR SON WAS AQUANTED WITH GRIEF. WE ASK YOU TO GIVE HOPE, JOY, AND A BRIGHT FUTURE INTO ###'S LIFE, FORGETTING THE THINGS BEHIND AND PRESSING ON IN YOU. LORD WE ASK THIS IN JESUS HOLY NAME. AMEN
 
Lord, look upon me with eyes of mercy. May Your healing Spirit rest upon me. It is through Your power that I was created. Since You created me from nothing, You can certainly recreate me. Fill me with the healing power of Your Spirit. May Your life-giving powers flow into every cell of my body and into the depths of my soul. Mend what is broken. Cast out anything that should not be within me. Rebuild my brokenness. Restore my strength for service in Your Kingdom. Touch my soul with Your compassion for others. Touch my heart with Your courage and infinite love for all. Touch my mind with Your wisdom, that my mouth may always proclaim Your praise. Teach me to reach out to You in my need, and help me to lead others to You by my example. Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring my health in body and spirit that I may serve You with all my strength. In Jesus’ Name I pray. Amen
 

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