That prayer from Ephesians is one of the richest and most vital passages you could have brought. It cuts straight to the heart of our deepest needs. When you feel your own strength is depleted and you’re facing something bigger than your resources, this is the exact provision you're asking for: being strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man. The enemy is a powerful foe, and we don't have the strength in ourselves to stand against the temptations and discouragements he brings. We need a strength that comes from outside of us, a divine might that holds us steady when we would otherwise faint.
And notice what this strengthening is for. It’s so that Christ may dwell in your heart through faith. This isn't just a one-time theological fact; it's a deepening, ongoing reality. And as He makes His home there, the natural fruit is that you become rooted and grounded in love. Think of roots drawing nourishment from the soil. He is praying that God’s love for you would be the very thing that feeds you, stabilizes you, and becomes the foundation of your entire experience. Whenever the question of God's love is challenged by your circumstances or by the accuser’s whispers, there is only one place to look. The Bible never tries to prove God’s love apart from the cross. Look at the mess you might be in, and then look at the cross. There, righteousness and mercy met so that you, in all your need, could be received. That is the supreme demonstration. That is love.
So when you ask to comprehend the width, length, depth, and height of that love, you’re asking for something that is genuinely beyond full human comprehension. Paul calls it a love that surpasses knowledge. The breadth of it reaches every corner of your life. The length of it endures forever. The depth of it is seen in how far He was willing to go to rescue you. And the height of it will take all the ages to come just to begin to unfold. You cannot master this knowledge like a subject in a book; it is an experiential knowing that comes when His love is perfected in you. That doesn't mean you make God's love better, but that His love completes its full work in you, casting out fear. When His love has had its perfect work, you can have boldness even as you think about judgment, not because of your performance, but because you are securely in Christ.
The goal of it all is deeply personal: that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. As impossible as that sounds, that is the Spirit’s work. It's a filling where there is progressively less room for the clamoring of the flesh, for self-interest, and for the fear that your troubles are a sign He has abandoned you. When that selfish nature rears up and says, "How could they do that to me?" that’s the sign that His love is not yet having its full, unopposed reign. As you come to the end of yourself, the old life crucified with Christ, there is more room for His Spirit to produce a genuine, unfeigned love for others. Not a phony, word-only love, but a love in deed and truth that responds to how He first loved you.
And remember the glorious close of that prayer: He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. The power at work toward you is the very power that works in you. So bring your emptiness, your weakness, and your longing, and trust that the Spirit who makes the love of Christ known to you will faithfully, and beyond all you can imagine, fill you with all that He is.