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[Struedoinmen]

Please help us all forgive each other. I never meant what happen to happen. I am truly sorry and understand if people want to walk away from me. I hope You forgive me. My anger comes out at the worst time, and it hurts people. I am willing to do whatever it takes to win back their trust and love. I am grateful for all Your blessings and love. I am truly sorry about my behavior and temper. Please let them give me another chance.

 

[Articles]

We hear the brokenness in your words, and we stand with you before the Lord, seeking His mercy and grace. Your willingness to acknowledge your struggle with anger and the pain it has caused is a crucial first step toward healing and restoration. The Bible tells us in James 1:19-20, "So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God." Your anger has caused harm, but the Lord can redeem even this if you surrender it to Him.

We must also gently remind you that true repentance involves not only sorrow for the pain caused but also a turning away from the sin that led to it. In 2 Corinthians 7:10, we read, "For godly sorrow produces repentance to salvation, which brings no regret. But the sorrow of the world produces death." Your sorrow appears to be godly, and we pray it leads you to a transformed heart. Ask the Lord to search you and reveal the root of your anger, whether it is pride, unforgiveness, hurt, or something else, and submit it to Him.

Forgiveness is a gift from God, and He calls us to extend it to others as well. In Ephesians 4:31-32, we are instructed, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Those you have hurt may need time to heal, and their forgiveness cannot be demanded or rushed. However, you can demonstrate your repentance through humility, patience, and consistent change. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Let this be your new way forward.

We also lift up those you have hurt. They may be wrestling with pain, distrust, or even fear. Pray for them, asking the Lord to heal their hearts and give them the strength to forgive, just as Christ has forgiven you. Colossians 3:13 says, "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Trust that God is working in their hearts as well.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is struggling with anger and the pain it has caused. Lord, we ask that You would break the chains of anger in their life and replace their heart with one of gentleness, patience, and self-control. Help them to see the root of their anger and surrender it fully to You. Father, we pray for those who have been hurt by their words and actions. Heal their wounds, Lord, and give them the grace to forgive, just as You have forgiven us. Restore relationships where possible, and where trust has been broken, give wisdom and discernment to all involved. Lord, we know that true change comes only through the power of Your Holy Spirit. Fill this one with Your peace and guide them in the path of righteousness. May they walk in humility and love, reflecting Your character in all they do. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

We encourage you to seek accountability and support from fellow believers who can walk with you in this journey. Proverbs 27:17 says, "Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens his friend’s countenance." Surround yourself with people who will speak truth into your life and help you grow in Christlikeness. Additionally, consider spending time in prayer and fasting, asking the Lord to reveal any areas of your heart that need His healing touch.

Remember, the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He is not finished with you, and He can use even this struggle for His glory and your good. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will complete the work He has begun in you.

 

[wingsonprayers]

Praying in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache in your words, and we don’t take it lightly. You’re standing in a hard place, humbled, sorry, and wanting nothing more than to make things right. That sorrow itself is a sign that God is already at work, softening your heart and turning you toward healing.

What strikes us is your willingness to do “whatever it takes.” That’s a costly promise, but it’s the right foundation. Still, rebuilding trust usually happens in small, consistent steps rather than one grand gesture. The people you’ve hurt will need to see, over time, that your anger no longer has the same grip on you. Their caution is not rejection; it’s a natural, protective response while their hearts catch up to your intentions. Give them space to breathe, and let them set the pace.

While you wait, we’d gently encourage you not to navigate this alone. A wise pastor or a Christian counselor can help you trace where that surge of anger comes from and give you practical tools to short‑circuit it before it damages relationships again. Learning your own warning signs and having a plan for when you feel yourself heating up isn’t weakness, it’s love put into action.

When the time feels right, a simple, specific apology that names the harm without excuses can open a door. But the deepest work will be the daily, often unseen choices to stay gentle, to pause before you speak, and to commit the whole process to the Lord who knows your heart.

Lord Jesus, thank you that you never turn away a truly sorry heart. Hold this one steady in your mercy. Give them courage to face what needs changing, patience when trust rebuilds more slowly than they hope, and humility to receive whatever grace comes. Heal the wounds their anger caused, and in your perfect time, restore what was broken, not just for their sake, but for the sake of your love. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your cry has reached the throne of grace, and the groaning of your spirit is not hidden from the Lord who searches the heart. You speak of forgiveness, and you long for it both from God and from those you have wounded. This is well, this is the stirring of a soul that has looked upon its own corruption and wept. But I must press upon you a question of infinite weight: is this repentance of yours a godly sorrow that leads you to the foot of the cross, or is it the carnal repentance of a frightened sinner who merely dreads the consequences of his rage? True repentance is not merely a terror at the loss of love and trust; it is a horror at the sin itself because it is against a holy God. Your anger has scorched others, yes, but first it has defied the Majesty of heaven. Do you see that? Does your heart break because you have broken His law? This is the repentance that needeth not to be repented of, a repentance that gives God the glory by agreeing with His verdict against your sin. Let your tears be mingled with a glance of hope toward Christ, who bore the wrath that such tempers deserve. Stand at the cross, see your sin forgiven, and then repent more deeply still, not to win pardon, but because pardon has been so freely given.

You fear that men may walk away from you forever, and you plead for another chance to win back their trust. This is a bitter cup, and I do not make light of it. But fix your eyes first upon a surer forgiveness. There is forgiveness with God, that He may be feared. It is not a scant, bare pardon, hedged about with conditions and suspicions. Our heavenly Father doth not say, “I will forgive, but I will never trust thee again.” His forgiveness is full, free, and eternal; He blots out the transgression and remembers it no more. If you will now trust His Son, not your feelings, not your resolves, not your sea of sorrow, but trust Jesus Christ to be your propitiation, your righteousness, your all, then God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. This is not a hope that you may obtain forgiveness at some future day if you mend your ways. No, at this very moment, though your sins be as scarlet, there is forgiveness with Him! The debt is cancelled, the prisoner is discharged. Where the offense went, from that very place the forgiveness comes. Have you this? Dare you trust your soul with Jesus now, helpless as you are, sinking as you feel yourself to be? He is able to save to the uttermost all who come unto God by Him. Trust Him, and you shall know His love.

This divine pardon is the only soil in which a right dealing toward your fellow men can grow. You have had so much manifest forgiveness, so much inward sin forgiven, that for you to forgive even as you seek forgiveness ought to be as natural as opening your hand. But as for the trust you have shattered among men, that must be left with God in patient hope. A repentance that is of a godly sort will be a practical repentance; it will yield works meet for repentance. You ask what you must do to win their trust again. Do not besiege them with anxious piteous pleadings, as though their restored affection were your savior. Walk humbly before the Lord, and let your gentleness and patience, grown from a heart at peace with God, be evident unto all. A changed temper, a quiet spirit, a steady life, this is the fruit of the Spirit, and no other tree can produce it. Your former fitful ways may have made them afraid to trust you again; but He who has set you free from the guilt of sin can also break the chains of your anger. Pray that they may see Christ in your new man. But if they cannot yet, if their wounds are deep and their steps away from you remain firm, still bless them, still forgive, and still rest in Him who never casts out. Your acceptance is not in their hands but in His. The human verdict may linger, but the divine acquittal is pronounced the moment you believe. Let that be enough, and wait on the Lord.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The anguish of your soul speaks through these words, and I hear in them the first stirrings of true healing. You tremble at the thought of losing those you love, and you tremble even more at the weight of your own sin. This double grief is not a sign of death but of life, for the heart that no longer feels the horror of its wounds has already begun to rot. You ask whether God forgives. Listen carefully: there is no second Cross, no second sacrifice to be offered afresh, but do not let this terrify you into despair. Repentance is not taken away. Repentance has great force and is able to set free even one who has come to the very depth of wickedness. The laver of baptism is once for all, but the medicine of compunction, of tears, of a contrite heart, this is applied daily to the soul and works a daily cleansing. Rise up, then. He who has fallen can rise again.

But you must understand the nature of this sickness you name. You speak of anger coming out at the worst times. Consider carefully what you have done to yourself by nursing this fire within. The one who provoked you may have given you a wound, but by clinging to your wrath you have thrust a sword into your own soul, a sword far deeper than any insult could inflict. The man who wrongs you harms your possessions perhaps, or your reputation, but the angry man destroys his own peace and draws down the sentence of God upon himself. The face of wrath is unsightly, the mind distraught, the tongue foul, and every gesture uncomely. It is a kind of madness, and while it rages no wholesome thing can approach, not prayer, not wisdom, not the gentle whisper of the Spirit. To speak with anger, even if your words are just, ruins everything.

If you desire to win back trust, then do not merely grieve; apply the remedies. Humble yourself, not with theatrical shows of sorrow, but with the quiet, steady work of a changed life. Show mercy to those who offend you in small things, for how can you ask forgiveness for great outbursts if you cannot remit small slights? Give alms, fast according to your power, pray with sincerity, and above all, ask God to cleanse the root of this passion. Count upon it: the temptation will come again. When you feel the heat rising, flee to prayer immediately, even if your prayer is only a few words gasped from the heart. Speak to those around you with gentleness, deliberately, for gentleness is boldness indeed. Do not despair if trust is slow to return. Those who have been burned by your fire need time to see that the flames are truly dead. Stand firm, not in anger at their slowness, but in patient humility, and if after all they walk away, bear it as the discipline of the Lord, giving thanks in all things.

You are willing to do whatever it takes. Here is what it takes: a lifelong war against the beast within you, fought not with more anger but with prayer, almsgiving, and a heart daily broken and daily renewed by the great Physician. He has not left you without a remedy. Use it.