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I forgive my sister, and I want her and my son to forgive me, too. I am sorry I hurt her, and I hate how she manipulates people and keeps secrets. I want to let it go, and I pray we will be on the same page!
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We hear your heart, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting up your desire for reconciliation and healing in your family. Forgiveness is a powerful act of obedience to God, and we praise Him that you have chosen to forgive your sister. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:13, "bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Your willingness to forgive is a reflection of Christ’s love working in you, and we pray that same love will soften hearts toward you as well.
Yet we must also speak truth in love, for the Lord calls us to honesty and integrity in our relationships. You’ve shared that your sister manipulates and keeps secrets, and these are not behaviors that align with God’s design for healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Proverbs 26:24-26 warns, "A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but in his heart he harbors deceit. Though his speech is charming, do not believe him, for seven abominations fill his heart. His malice may be concealed by deception, but his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly." We must gently but firmly rebuke these patterns, for they grieve the Holy Spirit and hinder true unity. We pray your sister would come to repentance and walk in the light of God’s truth, for His Word says in James 5:16, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed."
We also lift up your son, asking the Lord to work in his heart to extend forgiveness where it is needed. Children are deeply affected by family strife, and we pray he would experience the peace of Christ as he sees His love demonstrated through humility and reconciliation. Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." May your son see the power of grace in action and be drawn closer to the Lord through this process.
Now, let us come before the throne of grace together, seeking the Lord’s will for your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, we thank You for the work You are doing in their lives, and we ask that You would continue to soften hearts and bring healing. Father, we pray for this sister in Christ, that You would reveal any areas of sin in her life—especially manipulation and secrecy—and that she would repent and turn to You for transformation. Your Word says in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." We pray she would walk in the light and experience the freedom that comes from living in truth.
Lord, we also pray for this mother and son. We ask that You would grant them the strength to extend forgiveness and the wisdom to navigate this relationship with grace and discernment. Help them to let go of past hurts and to trust in Your plan for their family. Father, we pray that You would knit their hearts together in love, as Colossians 2:2 encourages, "that their hearts may be comforted, they being knit together in love, and gaining all riches of the full assurance of understanding, that they may know the mystery of God, both of the Father and of Christ."
We ask that You would guard their hearts from bitterness and resentment, and that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we know that true reconciliation can only come through You, and we pray that You would be at the center of this family. May they seek You first in all things, and may Your love be the foundation of their relationships.
We also pray for protection over this family, Lord. Guard them from the enemy’s schemes to divide and destroy. Your Word says in Psalm 133:1, "See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!" We pray that this family would experience that goodness and pleasantness as they seek to honor You.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would continue to draw each of them closer to You. May they grow in their faith and trust in You, and may their lives be a testimony to Your grace and mercy. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to You, and it is only by His name that we are saved. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and to trust in His timing for reconciliation. Remember that true unity is not just about being "on the same page" with one another, but about being aligned with God’s Word and His will for your lives. Keep your focus on Him, and He will guide your steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." May the Lord bless you and your family as you seek Him together.
Yet we must also speak truth in love, for the Lord calls us to honesty and integrity in our relationships. You’ve shared that your sister manipulates and keeps secrets, and these are not behaviors that align with God’s design for healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Proverbs 26:24-26 warns, "A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but in his heart he harbors deceit. Though his speech is charming, do not believe him, for seven abominations fill his heart. His malice may be concealed by deception, but his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly." We must gently but firmly rebuke these patterns, for they grieve the Holy Spirit and hinder true unity. We pray your sister would come to repentance and walk in the light of God’s truth, for His Word says in James 5:16, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed."
We also lift up your son, asking the Lord to work in his heart to extend forgiveness where it is needed. Children are deeply affected by family strife, and we pray he would experience the peace of Christ as he sees His love demonstrated through humility and reconciliation. Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." May your son see the power of grace in action and be drawn closer to the Lord through this process.
Now, let us come before the throne of grace together, seeking the Lord’s will for your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, we thank You for the work You are doing in their lives, and we ask that You would continue to soften hearts and bring healing. Father, we pray for this sister in Christ, that You would reveal any areas of sin in her life—especially manipulation and secrecy—and that she would repent and turn to You for transformation. Your Word says in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." We pray she would walk in the light and experience the freedom that comes from living in truth.
Lord, we also pray for this mother and son. We ask that You would grant them the strength to extend forgiveness and the wisdom to navigate this relationship with grace and discernment. Help them to let go of past hurts and to trust in Your plan for their family. Father, we pray that You would knit their hearts together in love, as Colossians 2:2 encourages, "that their hearts may be comforted, they being knit together in love, and gaining all riches of the full assurance of understanding, that they may know the mystery of God, both of the Father and of Christ."
We ask that You would guard their hearts from bitterness and resentment, and that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, we know that true reconciliation can only come through You, and we pray that You would be at the center of this family. May they seek You first in all things, and may Your love be the foundation of their relationships.
We also pray for protection over this family, Lord. Guard them from the enemy’s schemes to divide and destroy. Your Word says in Psalm 133:1, "See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!" We pray that this family would experience that goodness and pleasantness as they seek to honor You.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would continue to draw each of them closer to You. May they grow in their faith and trust in You, and may their lives be a testimony to Your grace and mercy. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to You, and it is only by His name that we are saved. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and to trust in His timing for reconciliation. Remember that true unity is not just about being "on the same page" with one another, but about being aligned with God’s Word and His will for your lives. Keep your focus on Him, and He will guide your steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." May the Lord bless you and your family as you seek Him together.
We're right there with you, sister, holding your hands up to our loving Father. We've been where you are, and we know the weight of unforgiveness and the longing for healing. We're praying with you, believing that God is moving in your family, one heart at a time.
You've taken a bold step in forgiving your sister, and we're cheering you on. Remember, forgiveness isn't about excusing or forgetting the hurt, but releasing it to God. It's a process, and it's okay to take it one day at a time. We're asking God to help you trust Him with the outcome, to give you peace in the present, and to fill you with His love.
We're also lifting up your son, praying that he would experience the freedom and joy of forgiveness. We're asking God to give him a heart that's tender and forgiving, just like Ephesians 4:32 tells us. We believe that as he sees forgiveness in action, he'll be drawn closer to Jesus.
Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room - your sister's manipulative behavior and secrets. We're not here to judge, but to speak truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 tells us. We're praying that God would open her eyes to see the harm these behaviors cause, and that she would turn to Him for transformation. We're asking God to give you wisdom in how to approach this with her, and to protect you both from further hurt.
We're also praying for unity in your family, that you would be knit together in love, as Colossians 2:2 tells us. We're asking God to fill your hearts with His peace, to guard you from bitterness, and to keep your focus on Him.
Remember, God is in control. He sees every tear, every hurt, every secret. He's working all things together for your good, according to His purpose, as Romans 8:28 tells us. Trust in Him, sister. Keep seeking Him, and keep loving your family, even when it's hard.
We're here for you, praying with you, every step of the way. Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, who forgave us so much more than we could ever forgive others. In His mighty name, we pray. Amen.
You've taken a bold step in forgiving your sister, and we're cheering you on. Remember, forgiveness isn't about excusing or forgetting the hurt, but releasing it to God. It's a process, and it's okay to take it one day at a time. We're asking God to help you trust Him with the outcome, to give you peace in the present, and to fill you with His love.
We're also lifting up your son, praying that he would experience the freedom and joy of forgiveness. We're asking God to give him a heart that's tender and forgiving, just like Ephesians 4:32 tells us. We believe that as he sees forgiveness in action, he'll be drawn closer to Jesus.
Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room - your sister's manipulative behavior and secrets. We're not here to judge, but to speak truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 tells us. We're praying that God would open her eyes to see the harm these behaviors cause, and that she would turn to Him for transformation. We're asking God to give you wisdom in how to approach this with her, and to protect you both from further hurt.
We're also praying for unity in your family, that you would be knit together in love, as Colossians 2:2 tells us. We're asking God to fill your hearts with His peace, to guard you from bitterness, and to keep your focus on Him.
Remember, God is in control. He sees every tear, every hurt, every secret. He's working all things together for your good, according to His purpose, as Romans 8:28 tells us. Trust in Him, sister. Keep seeking Him, and keep loving your family, even when it's hard.
We're here for you, praying with you, every step of the way. Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, who forgave us so much more than we could ever forgive others. In His mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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