Swantalelf
Servant
Help me be okay with people not being okay with me. I will stop trying but if anyone is doing anything behind my back, I need to know.
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We understand the deep struggle you’re facing—the pain of feeling rejected or misunderstood, and the temptation to seek control over what others think or do behind your back. But let us gently remind you that the peace you seek does not come from knowing others' hidden motives or gaining their approval. True peace comes from surrendering these burdens to Christ, who alone knows the hearts of all people and calls us to trust Him rather than our own understanding.
The Bible tells us in **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* You are not responsible for how others perceive or treat you—only for how you respond in faith. If someone is acting against you, God sees it, and He will handle it in His perfect timing. Your focus should be on obeying Him, not on uncovering what is hidden.
We also see a hint of fear and distrust in your words—the desire to "know" if others are plotting against you. But **2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* Living in suspicion will only steal your joy. Instead, pray for those who may oppose you, as Jesus commanded: *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (**Matthew 5:44, WEB**).
As for "stopping trying"—we caution you not to confuse godly humility with resignation. You are called to love others, but not to seek their validation. If you are weary from striving for acceptance, rest in Christ’s acceptance of you. He alone defines your worth.
Let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul who is weary from the weight of others’ opinions and hidden motives. Lord, You see every heart and know every secret thing. We ask that You free them from the need to uncover what is hidden, and instead fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Teach them to trust You fully, even when others do not. Guard their heart from bitterness, fear, or the temptation to retaliate. Remind them that their identity is found in Christ alone, not in the approval of people. If there are those acting against them, we pray You expose it in Your way and time—or grant the grace to release it to You. Strengthen them to walk in love, forgiveness, and confidence in Your sovereignty. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen."*
Finally, we encourage you to meditate on **Psalm 139:23-24 (WEB)**: *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."* Let God examine *your* heart first, and trust Him with the rest. You are deeply loved by Him—no matter what others do.
The Bible tells us in **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* You are not responsible for how others perceive or treat you—only for how you respond in faith. If someone is acting against you, God sees it, and He will handle it in His perfect timing. Your focus should be on obeying Him, not on uncovering what is hidden.
We also see a hint of fear and distrust in your words—the desire to "know" if others are plotting against you. But **2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* Living in suspicion will only steal your joy. Instead, pray for those who may oppose you, as Jesus commanded: *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (**Matthew 5:44, WEB**).
As for "stopping trying"—we caution you not to confuse godly humility with resignation. You are called to love others, but not to seek their validation. If you are weary from striving for acceptance, rest in Christ’s acceptance of you. He alone defines your worth.
Let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul who is weary from the weight of others’ opinions and hidden motives. Lord, You see every heart and know every secret thing. We ask that You free them from the need to uncover what is hidden, and instead fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Teach them to trust You fully, even when others do not. Guard their heart from bitterness, fear, or the temptation to retaliate. Remind them that their identity is found in Christ alone, not in the approval of people. If there are those acting against them, we pray You expose it in Your way and time—or grant the grace to release it to You. Strengthen them to walk in love, forgiveness, and confidence in Your sovereignty. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen."*
Finally, we encourage you to meditate on **Psalm 139:23-24 (WEB)**: *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."* Let God examine *your* heart first, and trust Him with the rest. You are deeply loved by Him—no matter what others do.
We're here with you, dear friend, feeling your struggle with how others perceive you. It's tough, isn't it? It's like we're all walking in a fog, trying to figure out what's real and what's not. But remember, Jesus sees us clearly, even in the fog. He knows our hearts, our fears, our hopes. He's walking right beside us, guiding us.
In times like these, it's easy to want to control what's behind us, to want to know what others are thinking or doing. But that's not our job, is it? Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) He's calling us to trust Him, to let go of the things we can't control and hold onto Him.
Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Jesus, we come to You today, carrying our worries and fears. Help us to trust You more, to let go of the need to know what's hidden. Help us to love like You love, to forgive like You forgive. Give us the strength to walk in Your way, not ours. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In times like these, it's easy to want to control what's behind us, to want to know what others are thinking or doing. But that's not our job, is it? Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) He's calling us to trust Him, to let go of the things we can't control and hold onto Him.
Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Jesus, we come to You today, carrying our worries and fears. Help us to trust You more, to let go of the need to know what's hidden. Help us to love like You love, to forgive like You forgive. Give us the strength to walk in Your way, not ours. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift your heart before the Lord these past few days. Your honest cry for peace in the face of others’ disapproval has been a burden we’ve carried with you in prayer, trusting God to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus. We know how deeply it can wound when relationships feel uncertain or when motives are questioned, and we’ve asked the Father to replace your anxiety with His perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
If the Lord has granted you clarity, comfort, or even resolution in this situation, we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report. Sometimes God works in ways we don’t immediately see—softening hearts, redirecting paths, or simply giving us the strength to release what we cannot control. If this weight still feels heavy, we invite you to share it with us again so we can continue standing with you in prayer, asking God to reveal His will and protect your spirit from bitterness or fear.
May you rest in the truth that your worth is not defined by others’ opinions but by the love of the One who calls you His own. We’re praying you feel His presence tangibly as you seek Him, trusting that He will either change your circumstances or give you the grace to walk through them with unwavering faith.
In Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has granted you clarity, comfort, or even resolution in this situation, we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report. Sometimes God works in ways we don’t immediately see—softening hearts, redirecting paths, or simply giving us the strength to release what we cannot control. If this weight still feels heavy, we invite you to share it with us again so we can continue standing with you in prayer, asking God to reveal His will and protect your spirit from bitterness or fear.
May you rest in the truth that your worth is not defined by others’ opinions but by the love of the One who calls you His own. We’re praying you feel His presence tangibly as you seek Him, trusting that He will either change your circumstances or give you the grace to walk through them with unwavering faith.
In Jesus’ name.
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