We hear the deep distress and longing in your heart, and we are lifting you up in prayer, knowing that our Heavenly Father sees your pain and cares for you. Your cry for relief from physical, emotional, and financial burdens is not unheard—God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). However, we must first address a critical truth: there is no peace, relief, or true fairness apart from surrendering this situation—and your entire life—to Jesus Christ. Your prayer does not mention His name, and it is only through Him that we can approach the throne of God with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). Without Jesus, we are powerless to overcome the brokenness of this world. If you have not yet placed your faith in Him as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. The Bible tells us, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that your burdens can be lifted and your heart can find true rest.
Your pain reveals a relationship that is not aligned with God’s design for marriage. You describe a man who is causing harm—financially, emotionally, and possibly spiritually—yet you feel trapped, unable to walk away. Sister, this is not the will of God for you. Scripture warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and even if this man claims to be a believer, his actions do not reflect the love, leadership, or sacrificial care that a godly husband is called to provide (Ephesians 5:25-33). A husband is to be a provider, a protector, and a spiritual leader—not a source of debt, stress, or destruction. If this man is not your husband, you are not bound to him, and staying in this situation out of fear or obligation is not what God wants for you. If he *is* your husband, then separation or biblical confrontation may be necessary for your safety and well-being (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Matthew 18:15-17). Either way, you must seek God’s wisdom and strength to take action, not passively pray for the situation to "take care of itself." God often calls us to *move* in faith, not wait in fear.
We also sense a deep desire for independence—even from your family—yet this longing for isolation is not the answer. God designed us for community (Hebrews 10:24-25), and while it is understandable that you want to protect yourself from further hurt, cutting yourself off from loved ones or refusing help is not the solution. Your children and family may not fully understand your struggles, but bitterness or withdrawal will only deepen the divide. Instead, pray for reconciliation and wisdom in these relationships. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). At the same time, you must set godly boundaries to protect your heart, finances, and future. If this man is dragging you into debt or financial ruin, you have a biblical responsibility to steward your resources wisely (Proverbs 22:7, 1 Timothy 5:8). This may require difficult decisions, such as separating your finances or seeking legal counsel to protect yourself.
As for your longing for a godly husband—one who will be a true provider, supporter, and safe space—we rejoice that your heart desires what God desires for you. But we must gently rebuke the passivity in your prayer. You cannot simply ask God to "send" you such a man while remaining in a situation that dishonors Him. First, you must seek God’s kingdom and righteousness *above all else*, trusting that He will add to your life what you need (Matthew 6:33). This means surrendering this unhealthy relationship, repenting of any fear or idolatry that has kept you bound, and actively preparing yourself to be the godly wife God calls you to be. Are you walking in obedience? Are you growing in your faith, serving in your church, and allowing God to heal your heart? A godly marriage begins with a godly *you*. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4). But those desires must align with His will—not just your immediate need for relief.
Lastly, your stomach pain is a physical manifestation of the spiritual and emotional turmoil you are carrying. Stress and worry are not your portion as a child of God. Jesus said, *"Don’t be anxious for your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear... Your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things"* (Matthew 6:31-32). Cast your anxieties on Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). We pray now for your healing—body, soul, and spirit—and for the courage to walk in obedience, even when it is hard.
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious sister to You, knowing that You see her pain and hear her cries. Lord, we ask first and foremost that if she does not know You as her Savior, You would draw her to Yourself today. Open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus Christ came to save sinners, to heal the brokenhearted, and to set the captives free. May she surrender her life, her fears, and her future into Your hands, for apart from You, there is no hope.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has kept her bound in this unhealthy and destructive situation. Give her the courage to take godly action, whether that means confronting sin, setting boundaries, or walking away entirely. Lord, if this man is not her husband, break every ungodly soul tie and set her free from this relationship. If he is her husband, convict him deeply of his sin and bring him to repentance—or grant her the wisdom and strength to do what is necessary to protect herself and her children. Do not let her be destroyed financially, emotionally, or spiritually. Shut every door the enemy has opened to harm her, and provide for her needs in ways she cannot even imagine.
We pray for her stomach pain—Lord, heal her body as she surrenders her stress and worry to You. Calm her mind and guard her heart with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remove every negative attitude from her life, and replace it with a spirit of faith, joy, and expectation for what You will do.
Father, we ask that You prepare her for the godly husband You have for her—one who will love her as Christ loves the church, who will provide, protect, and lead with integrity. But first, prepare *her* to be the woman You’ve called her to be. Heal her wounds, restore her trust in You, and help her to walk in purity, patience, and faith as she waits on Your timing.
We pray for her family—soften their hearts toward her and grant them understanding. Where there is division, bring reconciliation. Where there is bitterness, bring forgiveness. But Lord, also protect her from further harm. Give her discernment in her relationships and the wisdom to know when to speak, when to act, and when to rest in You.
Most of all, Father, we ask that Your will be done in her life. Break every chain, restore every loss, and lead her into the abundant life You promised. May she experience Your peace, Your provision, and Your presence in ways she never has before. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
