We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep pain and longing for healing, knowing that His heart is tender toward the brokenhearted. Your cry for forgiveness, justice, and restoration resonates with the very character of God, who is both just and merciful. We hear the weight of your suffering—the rejection, the minimization of your feelings, the fear of letting go, and the exhaustion of being mistreated. Most of all, we hear your desire to walk in truth, even when it costs you dearly. This is a godly posture, and we commend you for seeking the Lord’s will above all else.
First, we must lift up the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true healing. You rightly acknowledged Jesus in your prayer, and we rejoice that you recognize Him as the source of your blessings and salvation. It is in His name that we find the strength to forgive, the courage to let go, and the hope for a future that aligns with God’s perfect will. As Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in Christ is your anchor, and we pray it grows even stronger through this trial.
Your plea for forgiveness—both to extend it and receive it—is a reflection of Christ’s heart. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Forgiveness is not excusing the wrong done to you, but releasing the debt to the Lord, who judges justly. It is a process, and we ask the Holy Spirit to work in your heart to soften it toward those who have hurt you, even as you seek justice. Likewise, we pray your family’s hearts are opened to the conviction of the Spirit, that they may see their own need for repentance and extend grace to you. Remember, forgiveness does not mean reconciliation is required—especially if reconciliation would place you in further harm. Wisdom and boundaries are godly, and we pray the Lord grants you both in abundance.
You have expressed a deep weariness from being mistreated and having your feelings dismissed. This is not how God intends for His children to live. Ephesians 4:29-32 reminds us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God... Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* If those in your family—especially your husband—have failed to honor you in this way, their actions are not aligned with Scripture. A husband is called to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), sacrificially and selflessly. If he has engaged in fraud or deception, this is a grievous sin before God, and we rebuke it in the name of Jesus. Proverbs 6:16-19 lists *"a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers"* as abominations to the Lord. We pray your husband’s heart is convicted of his actions and that he repents genuinely, making restitution where possible. If he does not, we pray the Lord protects you from the consequences of his choices and provides for you in every way.
Your statement, *"I would rather be alone and happy than miserable and fake,"* reflects a godly desire for authenticity. The Lord honors truth, even when it is costly. Psalm 51:6 says, *"Behold, you desire truth in the inward parts. You teach me wisdom in the inmost place."* Walking in truth may mean letting go of relationships that are built on pretense or control, and we pray the Lord gives you the strength to do so without fear. He is your ultimate protector and provider. Philippians 4:19 assures us, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* Trust that He will bring the right people into your life—those who will love, support, and protect you in ways that reflect His character. Until then, cling to Him as your refuge. Psalm 27:10 declares, *"When my father and my mother abandon me, then Yahweh will take me up."*
We also address your mention of *"fair justice."* The Lord is just, and He sees every wrong committed against you. Romans 12:19 commands, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* Your role is to trust Him with the outcome, even as you take practical steps to protect yourself and seek wisdom. If legal or financial matters are involved, we pray the Lord guides you to godly counsel and advocates who will act with integrity on your behalf. Do not be afraid to seek help—God often works through the hands of others to bring justice and provision.
Lastly, we want to affirm your desire to be used by God. Your willingness to surrender to His will, even in the midst of pain, is beautiful. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, *"For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."* Your season of suffering is not wasted; the Lord is refining you, preparing you for the good works He has ordained for you (Ephesians 2:10). Lean into Him, and He will show you how to walk in freedom and purpose.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift up Your daughter to You, knowing that You see her tears, hear her cries, and collect every sorrow in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Lord, we ask for Your supernatural healing in her heart—where forgiveness is needed, grant it; where boundaries must be set, give wisdom; where justice is required, act mightily. Break the chains of bitterness, fear, and rejection, and replace them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Father, we rebuke every scheme of the enemy to keep her in bondage to pain or manipulation. Let her walk in the freedom Christ purchased for her on the cross.
Lord, we pray for her family, especially her husband. Convict him deeply of any fraud, deception, or hardness of heart. Soften his spirit to repentance, and if he refuses, protect her from the fallout of his choices. Surround her with godly men and women who will stand in the gap for her, support her, and reflect Your love. Father, provide for her needs—emotionally, spiritually, financially, and physically. Let her not lack any good thing as she seeks You first (Matthew 6:33).
We ask for Your justice to prevail in her life, Lord. Expose what needs to be exposed, redeem what can be redeemed, and remove what must be removed for her good and Your glory. Give her the courage to let go of what is not Yours, even if it hurts, knowing that You are preparing a table for her in the presence of her enemies (Psalm 23:5). Let her not fear being alone, for You are with her always.
Finally, Father, use her mightily for Your kingdom. Take the ashes of her pain and turn them into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). Let her story be a testament to Your faithfulness, and give her opportunities to minister to others who are hurting. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in joy, peace, and purpose, no matter what lies ahead.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
