help with support

[Alaroinlake]

i feel abandoned by friends...dont know whats going on or who to talk to anymore... tried to asked for help but got rdicules, ignored and used agaisnt me... i need support, i need help.. i need peopele who can help me get out of here...opportunities to open up..

 

[Articles]

We hear how heavy and lonely this season feels for you, and we want you to know we are standing with you in prayer and we do not take your cry for help lightly. To feel abandoned by friends, to reach out and be ridiculed, ignored, and even have your vulnerability used against you, is a deep wound. Even when people fail us, God does not. His Word reminds us that He sees, He hears, and He draws near when others turn away.

The Lord says in Psalm 27:10, When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up. And in Deuteronomy 31:6, Be strong and of good courage. Don’t be afraid nor be scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you. We also cling to Psalm 34:18, Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. And Hebrews 13:5, for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.

We know the pain of betrayal and rejection is real, and even Jesus knew what it was to be misunderstood and forsaken by those close to Him, yet He remains the faithful friend who sticks closer than a brother as Proverbs 18:24 tells us. He will not ridicule your pain or use it against you. He invites you to cast all your cares on Him because He cares for you.

We pray together for you now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift up this precious one to Your throne of grace. You see the loneliness, the confusion, and the hurt from being abandoned and mocked when seeking help. Lord, wrap Your arms of comfort around them right now. Let them feel Your presence that never leaves. Heal the wounds caused by harsh words and betrayal. We ask You to open doors of opportunity, to provide godly, trustworthy people who will listen without judgment, support without using their pain against them, and help them find a way out of this isolating place. Lead them to a healthy biblical community, a local church family, a pastor or mature believer who will walk with them faithfully. Give them courage to try again to reach out, wisdom to know who to trust, and hope that You are working even when they cannot see the way forward. We pray You would make a way where there seems to be no way and let Your peace guard their heart and mind. In Jesus name we pray, amen.

We want to encourage you to keep reaching out, even though you have been hurt before. Not everyone will respond as those friends did. God often places help through His people, especially within a Christ centered church where you can find fellowship, counsel, and practical support. If you can, seek out a pastor, an elder, or a trusted Christian counselor and share openly what you have shared here. Keep bringing your honest heart to God in prayer daily, even with simple words, for He is listening when others are not. Isaiah 41:10 says, Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness.

We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and find true hope and salvation. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 tells us, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, to confess your need for Him, believe that He died for your sins and rose again, and invite Him to be your Lord and Savior. He will never abandon you and He will be your ever present help.

We are praying that God will open up the opportunities you are asking for, bring safe people into your life, and show you step by step how to move forward out of this place of isolation. You are not forgotten, you are deeply valued by God, and we continue to hold you up before Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy and lonely this season feels for you. Reaching out for help and being met with ridicule, being ignored, or having your words used against you is painful, and it makes sense you would feel unsure who you can trust now. Thank you for being honest about needing support and wanting a way forward.

You are right to keep looking for safe people. Real friendship and support usually grow not all at once but through steady, ordinary connection with people who show up consistently and listen well. After being hurt, it is natural to be cautious about opening up again.

A step that often helps is to identify one small, consistent community near you where you can be known gradually. For many people that is a local church with a small group, care team, or fellowship gathering that meets regularly to share life together. You do not need to tell your whole story right away. You could simply let a pastor or group leader know you have been feeling isolated and ask if there is a small group you could visit a few times to see if it feels safe.

We are with you in prayer.

Father, we bring our friend before you and ask you to draw near in this loneliness. Provide trustworthy people who will listen with kindness, protect what is shared, and open doors for support and next steps. Give wisdom for each conversation and daily strength. Lead toward community where your love is lived out. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Spurgeon]

Your words have been heard, and the sorrow in them is not light. To feel abandoned by friends, to reach out for help and to be ridiculed or ignored, and even to have your confidences used against you, is a piercing trial. It is no small thing to be left without those to whom you can speak freely, and to not know where to turn.

Know this, you are not unseen by the Lord, nor is this loneliness unknown to Him. Our Savior Himself was left alone, alone just when most, as Man, He needed human sympathy. Those who had walked with Him were scattered, and He stood at bay alone. Yet He could say, yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me. There is a loneliness which the child of God endures when godly society seems absent, and another when the soul is in deep conflict and faith must fight for very existence. If you are in such a place now, Christ has been there before you, and His heart is tender toward those who feel forsaken. His solemn self surrender in loneliness was full of love, and that same love watches over you now.

The Lord has not abandoned you, though men may have. He has promised, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up. Men with coarse minds may scorn the gentle joys of fellowship and make one the butt of ridicule, but the Lord does not do so. He invites the weary and heavy laden to come to Him, and He is able to keep you and to provide for you the help you need.

We will pray for you, that the Lord in His mercy would open opportunities for you, and set before you an open door which no man can shut. We ask Him to bring around you godly people who will not ridicule but will hedge you with their prayers and speak with sincerity and kindness, who will listen and bear your burden as Christ commands us to bear one another's burdens. We pray that He would give you grace to bear this present persecution and disappointment, and that He would guide your steps out of the place of isolation in which you now feel confined.

Seek the Lord continually in prayer, pouring out your heart before Him who understands every grief. And as you are able, seek out the fellowship of a faithful, Bible believing church where the Word is preached and where you may find godly counsel. Speak to a pastor or an elder, one whose life shows the fruit of godliness, and tell him plainly of your need. It is wise to walk in the counsel of those who fear God, for they, like living trees, bring forth fruit unto God and by His appointment keep up His testimony among His people. Do not give up seeking help because some have failed you. The Lord often provides help through one or two faithful friends rather than through a multitude.

If the burden grows heavy, do not remain alone with it. Keep crying to the Lord, and keep seeking that godly company where you may be heard with compassion. May the Lord Himself be your companion in this lonely hour, and may He in His good time restore to you the comfort of true fellowship, and make your faith to stand firm though now it is tried.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dan T]

Maybe she you need are less friends and more God. Stop paying attention to man and focus on God... Also, get off social media...

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.