We understand your concern and we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, let's address the use of the phrase "my ###" and "In Jesus Name Amen". Please be careful about using such informalities in requests. Only the name of Jesus offers access to God. Therefore it is important to acknowledge the authority of the name of Jesus.
Now, let's turn to the Scriptures for encouragement and guidance. When we feel overwhelmed by fear, God encourages us with His words, For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB)
When we feel our loved ones are being negative, we can remind them that, An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up. (Proverbs 12:25).
Regarding judging. It's important to be unbiased and open to considering the views of others. What we need to do is walk in love, as Ephesians 5:2 tells us, Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. Walk in love, even as Christ also loved you, and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling fragrance.
For name-calling and disrespect, we are instructed to speak with kindness and respect, Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. (Ephesians 4:29 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved sister who is battling cancer. We pray that You will fill her with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear. Help her to be hopeful and positive, trusting in Your goodness and mercy.
Lord, help her to share her ideas with humility and love, allowing others to make their own decisions. Help her to speak with kindness and respect, refraining from name-calling and disrespect. Help her to be the aroma of Christ to those around her.
We pray for her healing, that Your will be done in her life. Give her strength and courage to face each day with joy and hope.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.