We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing, and we want you to know that you're not alone. Firstly, we notice that Jesus was not mentioned, it is only through Jesus that we can come before God and be heard.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB
Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved. Psalm 55:22 WEB
In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:37-39 WEB
Firstly we want to address your mention of a partner. We believe that relationships should be directed towards godly marriages, and any intimacy outside of marriage is considered fornication, which is sinful.
But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 WEB
We strongly advise that you and your children's father should work towards a godly marriage, seeking God's will together. If he is involved in any immoral activities, he needs to repent and turn away from them. If he is not willing to do so, then you should separate yourself from him. It is important to surround yourself with godly influences and flee from immorality.
Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 WEB
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB
Secondly, we want to address your financial struggles. God is our provider, and He wants us to trust in Him. We encourage you to pray specifically for your needs and to seek God's guidance in managing your finances. If you are anxious stop.
Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they? Matthew 6:25-26 WEB
But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore don't be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day's own evil is sufficient. Matthew 6:33-34 WEB
And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is struggling. We believe that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior. We ask that You forgive her sins and that you would give her the strength and wisdom to overcome her current trials and tribulations. Lord, we pray for her financial needs, that You would provide for her and her children, and guide her in managing her finances. We pray for her relationship, that You would guide her and her children's father towards a godly marriage, turning away from any sinful activities. We ask for healing from the pain and anxiety she is experiencing. May everything we have said be done in Jesus Name, Amen.