Help me Jesus I need a breakthrough

[Anonymous]

Protect my middle daughter 24/7 She's going through difficulties with her evil stalking ex fiance and then had a series of things happening car breaking down illness etc from black magic . She had to take an Uber and will for the next 5 days He was odd. Knows her address. Go to her holy spirit. Keep her safe and my youngest as well and heal her. Help us jesus. My bf called me fat tonight but said I didn't leave you did I? Then. Flirts around. I'm devastated and hurt. I've been eating because of stress . Help me lose weight jesus. Help me maintain calm and peace. I'm so hurt. Let him know what it feels like to be alone and I should be cherished no matter what. I know I look heavy and bloated but I am stressed

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry for breakthrough and we join with you before the throne of grace in Jesus name, lifting up your middle daughter, your youngest, and your own hurting heart.

We pray first for your middle daughter. We ask for the Lord's 24 hour protection over her, for a hedge of angels around her wherever she goes, whether at home, in an Uber, or at work. We pray for her safety from her stalking ex fiance and we ask God to stop his harassment and bring him to repentance or to justice. No stalking, no threat, no weapon formed against her will prosper, for Isaiah 54:17 reminds us that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We pray Psalm 91:1-2 over her, that she who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, and that the Lord will be her refuge and fortress. We pray Psalm 91:11 that He will give His angels charge over her to keep her in all her ways, and 2 Thessalonians 3:3 that the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.

We also address your fear about black magic, car trouble and illness. We want to gently remind you that for the child of God, there is no power greater than Jesus. The enemy uses fear to torment, but Scripture says greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world in 1 John 4:4, and that we are to submit ourselves to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you in James 4:7. The practices of sorcery and curses are forbidden by God in Deuteronomy 18:10-12 and they have no authority over those who belong to Christ. If illness and breakdowns have come, we pray for healing and restoration, and we pray that any fear be replaced with perfect peace, for God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love and self control in 2 Timothy 1:7. We pray practically as well that you will help your daughter document every stalking incident, seek help from authorities if needed, from trusted church family, and take wise precautions about rides and her address, for wisdom and protection work together.

We lift up your youngest daughter as well, asking the Holy Spirit to go with her, keep her safe, and heal and strengthen both of your girls in body and spirit. We pray Psalm 34:7 that the angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him and delivers them.

For your own heart, we weep with you over the hurt caused by your boyfriend. What he said to you was cruel and does not reflect biblical love. A man who is pursuing a woman for marriage is called to love her as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her in Ephesians 5:25, and to not be bitter against her in Colossians 3:19. Love is patient and is kind, it does not dishonor others in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5, and it does not use cutting words. Ephesians 4:29 says let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. To call you fat and then say I did not leave you did I, and to flirt with others while you are in a courtship, is demeaning and unfaithful. It is not cherishing, and you are right to desire to be cherished, for you are fearfully and wonderfully made in Psalm 139:14 and your value is not determined by a number on a scale.

We want to speak lovingly about this relationship. In Scripture a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is not casual dating but courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Marriage is honored among all and the bed undefiled in Hebrews 13:4, and any sexual intimacy outside of that marriage covenant is fornication and the Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality in 1 Corinthians 6:18. If there is any sexual immorality in this relationship, we urge you to repent and to pursue purity. Even if there is not, we encourage you to step back and ask whether this man is demonstrating the character of a godly husband who will honor, protect and remain faithful to you. Flirting with others and tearing you down with words is a serious warning sign. We encourage you to seek wise godly counsel from a pastor or mature believers about whether this courtship should continue toward marriage or whether the Lord is calling you to be released from it for your protection and peace.

We also hear your pain in wanting him to know what it feels like to be alone. Your hurt is valid, and the Lord sees every tear, for He is near to those who have a broken heart in Psalm 34:18 and He heals the broken in heart in Psalm 147:3. Yet we must gently correct the desire for revenge, for vengeance belongs to the Lord. Romans 12:19 says do not avenge yourselves, but give place to God's wrath, for it is written, Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord. We are called to not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good in Romans 12:21 and to bless those who mistreat us. We pray God will work in his heart to convict him, and work in your heart to give you the grace to forgive and to set healthy biblical boundaries.

For your stress, eating, weight and need for calm, we pray that you will cast all your worries on Him, because He cares for you in 1 Peter 5:7, and that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus in Philippians 4:6-7. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, and we want to encourage you to steward it with grace, not shame. Stress eating is understandable, but we pray for strength to find comfort in the Lord rather than in food, for healthy habits, for rest, and for the knowledge that charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised in Proverbs 31:30. The Lord cherishes you no matter what you weigh, and He wants to give you calm even while you wait for breakthrough.

We pray together now. Father in heaven, we come to You only through the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved and have access to Your throne in Acts 4:12 and John 14:6. We lift this dear mother and her daughters to You. Cover the middle daughter with Your wings, keep her from the stalker, heal her body, restore what has been broken, and let no curse or fear have any hold on her. Cover the youngest daughter as well. Give this mother wisdom, comfort her broken heart, heal the wound caused by cruel words and unfaithfulness, and show her clearly what to do about this courtship. Bring conviction where needed and bring godly sorrow that leads to repentance. Give her Your peace that passes understanding, help her to rest in Your cherishing love, and give her strength day by day to steward her body in a healthy way, to eat with self control and to find calm in You. Let her know she is fully loved and valued by You. We ask for breakthrough, for protection, for healing and for restoration, and we trust You to act for Your glory. In the mighty and merciful name of Jesus we pray, amen.

 

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We have been praying as we read your note. You are carrying so much at once, fear for your daughters and fresh hurt in your own heart, and we want you to know you are seen and not alone in this.

Your middle daughter is weighing heavily on you and we understand why. A stalking ex who knows where she lives, plus car trouble and illness and an uneasy Uber ride, would leave any mother on edge. We are asking Jesus to surround her and your youngest with protection and to bring healing where she has been unwell. A practical step that can help right now is to make a simple safety plan together, share her daily schedule and ride details with you or another trusted person, keep a written record of any contact from her ex, and reach out to local authorities or a trusted advocate if she feels threatened at all. Having another person nearby for the next few days while she needs rides can also bring more peace.

We also heard how wounded you felt when your boyfriend called you fat and then brushed it off, while flirting with others. Those words are demeaning and it makes sense you feel devastated. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect at any size, and it is understandable that stress is affecting your appetite and how you feel in your body. Alongside prayer, it can help to talk with a trusted pastor or counselor and with your own doctor about the stress and eating changes, so you have caring support for both your heart and your health.

Jesus, we lift this mother and her daughters to You. Keep them safe, bring healing and calm, and give wisdom for each next step. Comfort this weary heart, remind her of her worth in You, and lead her in Your peace and direction. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The Lord is near to them that are of a broken heart and He heareth the cry of those who call upon Him in truth. You have poured out a heavy burden and it is good to bring it all before Jesus, for He is both Physician and Friend, and His healing virtue is abundant for every wound of body and spirit.

There is healing in Christ, not only in great things but in the least things about Him. As it is written, the leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations, and even the smallest touch of Christ brings health to the soul. Pardon and healing go together in His hands, and when He forgives He also restores, and will in His time make whole both soul and body.

For your middle daughter, know this, that no power of darkness, no stalking evil, no fear called black magic, can stand against the Lord Jesus. He has triumphed over all principalities and powers at Calvary. Fear not witchcraft, for Christ is Lord over all, and he that is in you is greater than he that is in the world. The promise is that He will keep them that trust Him. Commit her and your youngest daily to His watchful care, laying them at His feet in importunate prayer, and asking Him to keep them under His eye. At the same time use the wisdom God gives, keep doors guarded, let trusted friends and family know where she is, keep record of any stalking, and seek help from proper authorities if she is followed or threatened, for God ordains such protection for our good. Pray also that the Lord would heal her body from illness and trouble, and quiet her spirit with His peace. The Uber driver and the knowledge of her address you mention, bring that fear also to Christ, and ask Him to encamp around her and cause her to dwell in safety.

For your own sorrow, the words that wounded you are grievous, and the Lord sees how you have been hurt by unkind speech and by unfaithfulness. Your value is not measured by a man's words about your body, nor by flattery or neglect, but by the price Christ paid for you. He calls you beloved and He cherishes His own. A man who loves as Christ loves the church will speak with kindness, honor and purity, not with contempt or with eyes that wander. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that intimacy and living together belong within that covenant alone. Any relationship outside that holy bond cannot be blessed as it is, but must be brought under the Lordship of Christ. I urge you to seek godly counsel in your church, to bring this relationship into the light, and to ask the Lord for wisdom whether this man will lead you toward a holy marriage before God or whether you must step away to walk in purity and peace. Do not seek that he suffer loneliness in return, but pray instead that God would work repentance where it is needed, and give you a calm heart to forgive as Christ forgave, while also guarding your heart with holy boundaries.

Your stress and eating and weariness are also known to Him who healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds. He does not despise your struggle with weight and heaviness, and He invites you to cast all your care upon Him. Ask Him not only for health of body but for peace that passeth understanding, for temperance and strength to steward the body He has given you as His temple, and for daily grace to rest in Him rather than in food or in the approval of others.

Let us pray together.

O Lord Jesus Christ, Sun of Righteousness with healing in Thy wings, look in mercy upon this mother and her daughters. Forgive sin and heal infirmity, for with Thee pardon and healing are one. Cover the middle daughter and the youngest with Thy hand, keep them from the evil one, frustrate every stalking purpose, and let no weapon formed against them prosper. Heal the daughter who is ill, restore her strength, and make her to lie down in safety. Give this mother peace in place of anxiety, calm in place of turmoil, and teach her to cast every burden upon Thee. Grant her wisdom concerning the man in her life, that she may walk in holiness and chastity, honoring marriage as Thou hast ordained, and seeking only what is pure and pleasing in Thy sight. If that relationship is not ordered toward a godly covenant before Thee, give her courage to walk in obedience. Comfort her heart where it has been wounded, remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made and dearly bought with Thy blood, and help her to steward her body with grace and self control. Let Thy Holy Spirit be her keeper day and night, and let Thy healing leaves bring freshness to this whole household. In Thy name and for Thy glory we ask, Amen.

Continue to look to Christ daily in His Word, in prayer, and among His people, for faith cometh by hearing, and healing cometh with the teaching of Christ. He will not leave you nor forsake you.