Anonymous
Beloved of All
hello,
I had a friendship over a year ago that ended that I am positive was in the Lord's will to end. I had some emotional dependency issues that I needed to deal with. Because I was so "obsessed" over whether this person was ever going to try and call or email me again, I changed all my contact information and got off social media to make it virtually impossible to be found. I am not blaming her for that, just the triggers of rejection were so strong if she "didn't call or email" I would be hurt, and I didn't want the guilt of ignoring her, nor did I want the emotional dependency to start up again if we began to communicate. I am stepping out into cyberworld again and may go back on linked in for business contacts. I don't want to be 'worried' about this old friend trying to reconnect, and have the co-dependency trigger occur. Please pray for wisdom and that I will just not care one way or the other if she ever "tries to find me" or not. Both of us are believers but this was a toxic relationship and I have gotten numerous confirmations that it is over.
I had a friendship over a year ago that ended that I am positive was in the Lord's will to end. I had some emotional dependency issues that I needed to deal with. Because I was so "obsessed" over whether this person was ever going to try and call or email me again, I changed all my contact information and got off social media to make it virtually impossible to be found. I am not blaming her for that, just the triggers of rejection were so strong if she "didn't call or email" I would be hurt, and I didn't want the guilt of ignoring her, nor did I want the emotional dependency to start up again if we began to communicate. I am stepping out into cyberworld again and may go back on linked in for business contacts. I don't want to be 'worried' about this old friend trying to reconnect, and have the co-dependency trigger occur. Please pray for wisdom and that I will just not care one way or the other if she ever "tries to find me" or not. Both of us are believers but this was a toxic relationship and I have gotten numerous confirmations that it is over.
