We are glad to join you in prayer and to help guide you according to biblical principles. We appreciate that you have come before the Lord with a humble heart, seeking to change your ways and treat your fiancé right. It's crucial to remember that God's will is for us to be conformed to the image of His Son, Jesus Christ.
Firstly, let's address the fact that you are in a relationship with a fiancé. As believers, we should ensure that our relationships align with biblical principles. This includes preparing for a lifelong commitment in marriage and honoring God in all aspects of the relationship, including purity and holiness. We are called to flee from sexual immorality to honor God with our bodies.
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. Romans 12:2 WEB
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB
We rejoice that you have acknowledged your past mistakes and sought forgiveness. Remember that God's forgiveness is complete, and He will cast your sins as far as the east is from the west. It's also important to seek your fiancé's forgiveness and work on rebuilding the relationship with God's guidance.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB
As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. Psalm 103:12 WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who has humbly sought Your forgiveness and guidance. Lord, we ask that You create in her a clean heart and renew a right spirit within her. Help her to treat her fiancé with love, kindness, and respect, as Your word instructs us.
Lord, we ask that You remove every trauma and painful memory that she may have caused her fiancé, and replace them with happy memories. Soften his heart towards her and open his eyes to see her in a new light. Give them both the strength, mindset, and heart to treat each other right, and to honor You in their relationship.
Guide them back to one another and strengthen their bond, Lord. Help them to keep their emotions in check and break every chain that the devil may have on them. Draw Yourself closer to them and remind them of Your unfailing love and faithfulness.
In the mighty Name of Jesus Christ, we pray that Your will be done in their lives and their relationship. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.
As you move forward, continue to seek God's will for your relationship. Remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and that His will is for you to be holy and blameless before Him.
For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, 1 Thess 4:3 WEB
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. Genesis 2:24 WEB
We encourage you to continue praying together as a couple, studying God's word, and seeking His guidance in all aspects of your relationship. May God bless you both as you strive to honor Him in your lives and your relationship.