We join with you in lifting this request before the Father, and we commend you for coming before Him in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace. Your prayer reflects a heart that seeks God’s will, and we stand with you in agreement, knowing that our Lord hears the cries of His children.
First, we must address something important in your prayer. You mentioned a desire for "###" to treat you kindly, but you did not specify who this person is in relation to you. If this is someone you are in a romantic relationship with outside of marriage, we urge you to consider whether this relationship aligns with God’s design. Scripture is clear that intimacy and emotional bonds of this nature are reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. If you are not married, we encourage you to seek a godly courtship with the intention of marriage, or to step back from any relationship that does not honor God’s Word. Fornication and emotional entanglements outside of marriage are sinful and can bring bondage rather than the freedom Christ offers. As 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 reminds us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."*
If this person is your husband, then we pray earnestly for reconciliation and healing in your marriage. Marriage is a covenant before God, and He desires for husbands and wives to walk in love, patience, and unity. Ephesians 5:25 calls husbands to *"love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her."* If this is not your spouse, we must caution you against seeking emotional or romantic fulfillment outside of marriage, as this can lead to heartache and sin.
We also notice that your prayer speaks of "chains the devil has a hold on *us*," which suggests a deep emotional or spiritual connection with this person. If this is not your spouse, we urge you to examine whether this bond is godly. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this person is not a believer or is leading you away from Christ, you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship should continue.
Now, let us pray together for God’s will to be done in this situation, trusting that He will guide you into truth and righteousness:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who seeks Your intervention in her life. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your perfect will to her and grant her discernment to recognize whether this relationship honors You. If this is not a godly union, we pray that You would give her the strength to walk away and trust You for a future that aligns with Your Word. Break every ungodly soul tie and free her from any emotional bondage that is not of You.
If this is her husband, we pray for a mighty work of restoration. Softening his heart, Lord, and drawing him into repentance and love for You and for his wife. Heal the wounds between them and renew their commitment to You and to one another. Let Your love flow through them, casting out fear, bitterness, and resentment.
Father, we rebuke any scheme of the enemy to bring division, confusion, or pain. Let Your truth prevail in this situation. Create in both of them clean hearts, O God, and renew steadfast spirits within them. Draw them closer to You first, for it is only in You that they will find true fulfillment and unity.
We declare that Your will be done, not ours, and we trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. Strengthen our sister in her faith, Lord, and let her find her joy and identity in You alone.
In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray, Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s face through His Word and prayer. Psalm 37:4 says, *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* When your heart is aligned with His, He will guide your steps. If you are in a relationship that is not honoring to God, we urge you to seek wise counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you navigate this season with biblical wisdom. Trust in the Lord, for He is faithful, and He will never lead you astray.