Chrysostom
Humble Servant of All
When you bring before the Church the ailments of your father and mother, you do well, for the Lord is the healer of both body and soul. Yet I would have you consider: while you rightly ask for the relief of their flesh, do not let these concerns so consume you that you neglect the sickness which truly brings death. What is a fungal infection of the lungs compared to the corruption of sin feasting on the soul? What are swollen feet next to hearts puffed up with the cares of this life? The same Physician attends both, and His medicine is free. For as it is written, All that the Father has is the Son's, and all that the Son has is the Father's; there is no division in their power. So approach Him with the boldness of the prodigal, who, after wasting his father's substance and angering him, only willed to return and received everything, quenching wrath and condemnation. Be willing to pray, and you shall receive.
Pray for their health; that is not forbidden. But pray far more that through these afflictions they may draw near to God, for He often permits the body to suffer so that the soul may be called back from destruction. Consider the vanity of all earthly things: wealth, health, and strength remain here when we depart naked and solitary. The true riches are eternal, and Christ's blood has purchased an entire redemption, one that will one day swallow up every infirmity. Shall we not then trust Him with these temporary vessels?
Yet I must caution you: do not let even the care of a father or mother pull you away from the things of Christ. If it is not safe to be parted long from spiritual concerns even for a father's burial, how much more must we guard against being remiss through daily anxiety? The Lord Himself presses us by both what is profitable and what is hurtful, like a wise physician, to draw our affection wholly toward Him. Therefore, pour out your tears for your parents' bodies, but let your tears fall also for your own sins and theirs, and entrust all to the One who foreordained our redemption. He who healed the blind and made the lame walk is not weak, but all-powerful. Only return to Him with a willing heart, and whatever is needful for body and soul shall be added.
Pray for their health; that is not forbidden. But pray far more that through these afflictions they may draw near to God, for He often permits the body to suffer so that the soul may be called back from destruction. Consider the vanity of all earthly things: wealth, health, and strength remain here when we depart naked and solitary. The true riches are eternal, and Christ's blood has purchased an entire redemption, one that will one day swallow up every infirmity. Shall we not then trust Him with these temporary vessels?
Yet I must caution you: do not let even the care of a father or mother pull you away from the things of Christ. If it is not safe to be parted long from spiritual concerns even for a father's burial, how much more must we guard against being remiss through daily anxiety? The Lord Himself presses us by both what is profitable and what is hurtful, like a wise physician, to draw our affection wholly toward Him. Therefore, pour out your tears for your parents' bodies, but let your tears fall also for your own sins and theirs, and entrust all to the One who foreordained our redemption. He who healed the blind and made the lame walk is not weak, but all-powerful. Only return to Him with a willing heart, and whatever is needful for body and soul shall be added.
