Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You have laid out many requests, but none is closer to the heart of God’s law than the first: to honor father and mother. Hear how Christ Himself upholds this commandment and condemns those who would craft a pious excuse to set it aside. Some in His day would tell their parents, “What you would have received from me is a gift to God,” and thus defraud them under a guise of devotion. This teaching makes you worthy of death, for if the one who merely speaks dishonor is condemned, what of the one who teaches others to do so in deed? You pray for grace to honor these patriarchal and matriarchal figures, and that is good. But see that you do not, even subtly, withhold from them the support they need while offering fine words to heaven. The commandment comes with a promise, but it also comes with a sword.
As for your many prayers regarding healing, be careful not to assign every sickness to a particular sin in the one afflicted or in the parents. When the disciples asked about the man born blind, our Lord did not say the man or his parents were without sin, but that the blindness was not a direct punishment for sin. He said it was so the works of God might be displayed. Do not think that every bodily hurt is the immediate stroke of vengeance; God’s purposes are often deeper. Yet pray for healing, always, but pray with humility, not as if you can command the Lord with your many verses. The prayer of faith will save the sick, but faith is shown in submission, not in a multitude of words.
You ask for renewed minds. That is the very thing I sought for my flock: not a harmony of words only, but of mind and judgment. The divisions we saw in Corinth, the schisms you fear, come not from differences in true doctrine but from the contentiousness of human pride. A renewed mind is not a mind puffed up with a list of scriptures it has collected. It is a mind that has died to envy and boasting. For what is more pernicious than envy? It subverts the churches, it genders heresies, it armed a brother’s hand against his own flesh. Even when God exhorted Cain, his complaint was incurable. So look within: Is your desire for the healing and honor of these figures pure, or is there any hidden root of rivalry? Do you seek their good, or your own comfort? For love would cover their offences, but a grudging spirit festers.
You ask that the Word dwell in you richly. Let it then perform its proper work. A soul is known by its operations. If the Word dwells in you, it will tame the tongue from whispering and backbiting, which Paul numbers among the worst vices. It will cut off the filth that flows from the heart. It will make you not just a hearer, but a doer. To honor parents is not merely a sentiment for prayer; it is a deed of patience, of provision, of bearing their burdens when their minds fail or their bodies break. That is the mind of Christ: to serve, not to be served. Do not wait for a fresh revelation or a feeling of transformation; the transformation is proven when you do the will of God. Go, then, and prove your prayer by your deeds.
As for your many prayers regarding healing, be careful not to assign every sickness to a particular sin in the one afflicted or in the parents. When the disciples asked about the man born blind, our Lord did not say the man or his parents were without sin, but that the blindness was not a direct punishment for sin. He said it was so the works of God might be displayed. Do not think that every bodily hurt is the immediate stroke of vengeance; God’s purposes are often deeper. Yet pray for healing, always, but pray with humility, not as if you can command the Lord with your many verses. The prayer of faith will save the sick, but faith is shown in submission, not in a multitude of words.
You ask for renewed minds. That is the very thing I sought for my flock: not a harmony of words only, but of mind and judgment. The divisions we saw in Corinth, the schisms you fear, come not from differences in true doctrine but from the contentiousness of human pride. A renewed mind is not a mind puffed up with a list of scriptures it has collected. It is a mind that has died to envy and boasting. For what is more pernicious than envy? It subverts the churches, it genders heresies, it armed a brother’s hand against his own flesh. Even when God exhorted Cain, his complaint was incurable. So look within: Is your desire for the healing and honor of these figures pure, or is there any hidden root of rivalry? Do you seek their good, or your own comfort? For love would cover their offences, but a grudging spirit festers.
You ask that the Word dwell in you richly. Let it then perform its proper work. A soul is known by its operations. If the Word dwells in you, it will tame the tongue from whispering and backbiting, which Paul numbers among the worst vices. It will cut off the filth that flows from the heart. It will make you not just a hearer, but a doer. To honor parents is not merely a sentiment for prayer; it is a deed of patience, of provision, of bearing their burdens when their minds fail or their bodies break. That is the mind of Christ: to serve, not to be served. Do not wait for a fresh revelation or a feeling of transformation; the transformation is proven when you do the will of God. Go, then, and prove your prayer by your deeds.
