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Kriurkaire

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My landlord has been calling and texting over a insurance claim I had to file because my dog had bit a emt when sent here I was not home at the time she has belittled me said I am playing victim and all I have done is made file as requested by the parties workman’s comp she said she hates that she rented to me and I should have stayed home instead of visiting my mother in the nursing rehab due to having a stroke I am at a loss I don’t feel peace in my home no longer it’s become a dreadful home with this landlord I love the house and location but can’t take dealing with the toxic landlord I just would love to have peace
 
We have heard your cry for peace in your home and we are bringing your burden before the Lord together in Jesus' name. It grieves us that what should be a place of rest has become a place of dread because of these harassing calls and texts from your landlord, and that you were belittled for simply filing an insurance claim as you were asked to do through workman's comp, and for honoring your mother by visiting her in rehab after her stroke.

We want to gently remind you of something important we noticed, your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want you to know that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and peace with God. As Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and to call upon His name both for salvation and for daily access to God's throne of grace.

We understand the weight you are carrying. You were not home when your dog bit the EMT, yet as the owner you bear responsibility for what your animal does, and filing the claim was the honest and right thing to do when requested. At the same time, visiting your mother in her need is honoring to God, for scripture says Honor your father and your mother, Exodus 20:12, and caring for her after a stroke is not something you should be shamed for. The landlord's words that she hates renting to you and that you should have stayed home are harsh and do not reflect the grace we are called to show one another.

We do not condone harassment or belittling, and we pray the Lord will soften her heart and convict her where she has spoken harshly. A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger, Proverbs 15:1. We also encourage you to guard your own heart against bitterness and to seek peace where it is possible, for we are told If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men, Romans 12:18, and Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God, Matthew 5:9. This does not mean you must endure abuse or constant harassment, but that you can respond with calm firmness while setting right boundaries.

We pray for wisdom for you in this practical matter. We encourage you to keep a record of the calls and texts, to ask that future communication be in writing and limited to necessary matters, and to seek wise counsel about your rights as a tenant in your area, perhaps through a local tenant assistance office or a trusted pastor or counselor. We also encourage you to take steps to ensure your dog is properly secured and managed so that such an incident does not happen again, for A righteous man respects the life of his animal, Proverbs 12:10.

Above all we pray for God's peace to return to your home. We know the anxiety of feeling unsafe where you live, and God invites us to bring that to Him, for we are told In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:6-7. Jesus Himself said Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you, not as the world gives, give I to you. Don't let your heart be troubled, neither let it be fearful, John 14:27. Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you, 1 Peter 5:7, and we know He will give strength to His people and bless His people with peace, Psalm 29:11.

We pray together now, Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and lift up our dear one who is weary and without peace in her home. Lord, You see every text and call, You heard every belittling word, and You know the stress of this insurance claim and the concern for her mother recovering from a stroke. We ask You to cover this home with Your peace, to let her lie down and sleep in peace for You alone make her dwell in safety, Psalm 4:8. Heal her mother, Lord, restore her strength and bring comfort to the family. Soften the landlord's heart, convict her where she has been harsh, and give her a spirit of fairness and kindness. Give our sister wisdom to set healthy boundaries, to communicate with grace and firmness, and to handle all matters honestly and responsibly. Guard her heart from fear and resentment, and let Your peace rule within these walls. We ask that You provide clear direction whether to stay or to seek another home, and that You open the right doors in Your perfect timing. We pray all of this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and our peace, amen.

We encourage you to keep seeking the Lord daily, to pray for your landlord even as you set boundaries, and to trust that God cares deeply about your peace at home and will walk with you through this difficult season.
 
We can hear how heavy this has become for you. You did what was asked with the insurance paperwork, you were caring for your mother after her stroke, and now the place that should feel like home feels dreadful instead. It makes sense you feel at a loss when the person who controls your housing is calling and texting with belittling comments.

It stood out that you love the house and the location, and at the same time you no longer feel peace there. Holding both of those is hard. It can help to think of a boundary as a property line for your own life. It clarifies what is yours to carry and what is not yours to absorb, like someone else's harsh words or blame. You can still be responsible and cooperative about the claim without taking in every insult.

A practical step that often steadies things is to narrow communication to one written channel and keep a record. You might let your landlord know you will respond to non emergency matters once a day by text or email, keep the insurance papers together in one folder, and save messages without debating the personal comments. If the pressure keeps up, it helps not to carry it alone. A trusted friend, pastor, or a local tenant information service can look with you at what is reasonable in your area and be a buffer.

We are holding you and your mother in prayer.

Father, we bring this home before You and ask for Your protection and calm where there has been harshness and dread. Give wisdom for each conversation, strength for caring for a mother who is recovering, and a clear path toward peace in this house. Surround our friend with steady, trustworthy support. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
We have heard your cry and have brought it before the Lord, for you are in a place of great distress where the very home that should be a shelter has become a place of dread.

You love your house and its situation, yet the peace of your borders is broken, and you write that you have no rest within your own walls. The Psalmist says, He maketh peace in thy borders, and we are reminded that such peace is the gift of God alone. No outward quiet can give rest to the heart if the heart itself is troubled, and yet when the heart is stayed upon Christ, there can be peace even when sorrows are surging round.

You were not at home when this trial came upon you, but were engaged in a work of honour and mercy in visiting your mother in her affliction after her stroke. To honour thy mother in her weakness is pleasing to God, and you ought not to bear reproach for doing what duty and love required. That your landlord should belittle you and say you play the victim, and that she should harass you with many calls and texts concerning the claim you were required to make, is a heavy burden. It is lawful and right to fulfil what is required of you by those concerned, and to do so honestly before God and man.

There is a peace which the world cannot give and cannot take away. Our Lord Jesus has said, Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you. And the prophet declares, Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee, because he trusteth in thee. True peace is not found in the absence of trouble from a landlord or in the settling of an insurance matter, but in being at peace with God through Jesus Christ our Lord. When we know that our great debt of sin is discharged by the blood of Christ, who alone is the way of salvation, then the conscience is at rest, and from that inward rest we may look for wisdom and quietness in outward trials.

Come then and lie at His feet and cry, I will not depart until Thou speak peace to me. Cast this whole burden upon Him, the dog, the claim, the harsh words, the fear for your home, and your dear mother far away in her place of recovery. He who is our peace will give you strength to bear what you cannot change and wisdom to do what you ought to do.

We will pray for you, and we counsel you also to pray.

O Lord our God, who art the great Landlord of all our dwellings and who hast taught us to seek peace and pursue it, look in mercy upon this troubled one. Speak Thy perfect peace to a mind that is stayed upon Thee. Forgive sin through the blood of Jesus Christ, and give the quietness of one reconciled to God. Comfort the mother in her infirmity and raise her up, and let the child find comfort in having honoured her. Give grace to bear reproach with meekness, and give to the landlord also a heart disposed to that which is just and kind. Make peace in these borders if it be Thy will, and if not, direct to a path where peace may be found with a clear conscience. Grant wisdom to act prudently, to keep a faithful record, to seek godly and wise counsel where needed, and to answer with gentleness while maintaining what is right. Fill this home again with the finest of the wheat of Thy presence, that whether remaining or removing, this soul may dwell in the peace of God which passeth all understanding, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Keep thy mind stayed upon Him. Be much in prayer, be careful in all thy dealings, answer softly where thou canst, and commit thy way unto the Lord who sendeth forth His commandment upon earth and whose word runneth very swiftly to accomplish His purpose.
 

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