Swantalelf
Servant
I am ready to leave. Help me figure out where to go. I don’t understand how I am wrong all the time. It is not fair. I want to move as soon as possible.
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We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your heart, and He cares for you more than you can imagine. The weariness of feeling constantly misunderstood or wronged can be overwhelming, but we urge you to pause and seek the Lord’s direction before making any hasty decisions. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Moving in haste, especially out of hurt or bitterness, can lead to more confusion rather than the peace and clarity you long for.
It’s important to examine whether the root of your pain stems from unresolved conflict, unmet expectations, or perhaps a pattern of reacting rather than responding in a way that honors God. Scripture tells us in James 1:19-20, *"Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God."* If you feel you are "wrong all the time," ask the Lord to reveal if there are areas where pride, defensiveness, or unforgiveness may be clouding your judgment. It’s not about being "right" or "wrong" in the eyes of others, but about aligning your heart with Christ’s humility and love. Even Jesus, who was perfect, endured misunderstanding and unfair treatment (1 Peter 2:21-23), yet He entrusted Himself to the Father’s justice.
We also sense a deep longing for fairness, but this world is broken by sin, and fairness is not something we will fully experience until Christ returns. Instead of focusing on what feels unjust, we encourage you to surrender your desire for vindication to God. Romans 12:19 says, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* Your energy is better spent seeking God’s will for your next steps rather than fleeing from a situation without His guidance.
As for where to go, we pray you will seek the Lord earnestly in this. Moving may or may not be His answer for you—what matters is that you are walking in obedience to Him, not just reacting to your emotions. Ask Him: *"Lord, are You calling me to stay and work through this with Your strength, or are You leading me elsewhere for Your purposes?"* If He does call you to move, trust that He will provide the right place, the right timing, and the right people to support you. Psalm 32:8 assures us, *"I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you."*
Before you take any steps, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. Proverbs 15:22 says, *"Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established."* Isolation in decision-making often leads to poor choices, but wisdom is found in the body of Christ.
Lastly, we must gently address something critical: your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without Him, no amount of moving or change in circumstances will bring true peace. But with Him, even the hardest paths become purposeful.
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**Let us pray for you:**
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every weary step they’ve taken. Lord, they feel unseen and misunderstood, but You know their heart intimately. We ask that You would meet them in this place of deep frustration and replace their bitterness with Your peace. Softening their heart, Lord—show them if there is any sin, pride, or unforgiveness that needs to be surrendered to You. Give them the courage to face the truth, even if it’s painful, and the humility to seek reconciliation where it is possible.
Father, we pray for clarity in this decision to move. If it is Your will, open the doors wide and make the path clear. But if it is not, we ask that You would anchor them where they are and give them the grace to endure, to grow, and to trust You in the waiting. Surround them with godly counsel, Lord—people who will speak Your truth in love and not just tell them what they want to hear.
Most of all, Father, we pray that they would draw near to You in this season. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them see that He is the only One who can satisfy their longing for justice, love, and purpose. Fill them with Your Spirit, Lord, and let Your Word be a lamp to their feet.
We rebuke the spirit of haste, confusion, and despair in Jesus’ name. We declare that You, Lord, are their refuge and strength, their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let them find rest in You alone.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
It’s important to examine whether the root of your pain stems from unresolved conflict, unmet expectations, or perhaps a pattern of reacting rather than responding in a way that honors God. Scripture tells us in James 1:19-20, *"Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God."* If you feel you are "wrong all the time," ask the Lord to reveal if there are areas where pride, defensiveness, or unforgiveness may be clouding your judgment. It’s not about being "right" or "wrong" in the eyes of others, but about aligning your heart with Christ’s humility and love. Even Jesus, who was perfect, endured misunderstanding and unfair treatment (1 Peter 2:21-23), yet He entrusted Himself to the Father’s justice.
We also sense a deep longing for fairness, but this world is broken by sin, and fairness is not something we will fully experience until Christ returns. Instead of focusing on what feels unjust, we encourage you to surrender your desire for vindication to God. Romans 12:19 says, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* Your energy is better spent seeking God’s will for your next steps rather than fleeing from a situation without His guidance.
As for where to go, we pray you will seek the Lord earnestly in this. Moving may or may not be His answer for you—what matters is that you are walking in obedience to Him, not just reacting to your emotions. Ask Him: *"Lord, are You calling me to stay and work through this with Your strength, or are You leading me elsewhere for Your purposes?"* If He does call you to move, trust that He will provide the right place, the right timing, and the right people to support you. Psalm 32:8 assures us, *"I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will counsel you with my eye on you."*
Before you take any steps, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel—whether from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. Proverbs 15:22 says, *"Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established."* Isolation in decision-making often leads to poor choices, but wisdom is found in the body of Christ.
Lastly, we must gently address something critical: your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without Him, no amount of moving or change in circumstances will bring true peace. But with Him, even the hardest paths become purposeful.
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**Let us pray for you:**
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every weary step they’ve taken. Lord, they feel unseen and misunderstood, but You know their heart intimately. We ask that You would meet them in this place of deep frustration and replace their bitterness with Your peace. Softening their heart, Lord—show them if there is any sin, pride, or unforgiveness that needs to be surrendered to You. Give them the courage to face the truth, even if it’s painful, and the humility to seek reconciliation where it is possible.
Father, we pray for clarity in this decision to move. If it is Your will, open the doors wide and make the path clear. But if it is not, we ask that You would anchor them where they are and give them the grace to endure, to grow, and to trust You in the waiting. Surround them with godly counsel, Lord—people who will speak Your truth in love and not just tell them what they want to hear.
Most of all, Father, we pray that they would draw near to You in this season. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them see that He is the only One who can satisfy their longing for justice, love, and purpose. Fill them with Your Spirit, Lord, and let Your Word be a lamp to their feet.
We rebuke the spirit of haste, confusion, and despair in Jesus’ name. We declare that You, Lord, are their refuge and strength, their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let them find rest in You alone.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
We hear you, friend. We're here with you, feeling the weight of the situation. It's tough when it feels like no one understands, and the weariness is real. But remember, God sees you. He knows your heart, and He cares deeply.
We understand the urge to move on, to leave the hurt behind. But let's pause and seek God's direction together. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."
Before making any decisions, let's ask ourselves if there's something God wants to show us, some truth He wants to reveal. Maybe there's a pattern of reacting instead of responding in a way that honors Him. Or perhaps there's unforgiveness or pride clouding our judgment.
It's not about being right or wrong in others' eyes, but about aligning our hearts with Christ's humility and love. Even Jesus, who was perfect, endured misunderstanding and unfair treatment. Yet, He entrusted Himself to the Father's justice.
We also sense a longing for fairness, but this world is broken by sin. Instead of focusing on what feels unjust, let's surrender our desire for vindication to God. Romans 12:19 says, "Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to wrath; for it is written, 'Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,' says the Lord."
As for where to go, let's seek God earnestly. Moving may or may not be His answer, but what matters is that we're walking in obedience to Him, not just reacting to our emotions. Ask Him, "Lord, are You calling me to stay and work through this with Your strength, or are You leading me elsewhere for Your purposes?"
Trust that if He calls you to move, He will provide the right place, the right timing, and the right people to support you. Psalm 32:8 assures us, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will guide you with My eye."
Before taking any steps, let's seek godly counsel - from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in the multitude of counselors, they are established."
Lastly, we want to gently remind you to include Jesus' name in your prayers. There's no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it's only through Him that we have access to the Father.
Let's trust that God is working in this situation, even if it's not clear right now. With Him, even the hardest paths become purposeful.
Now, let's pray together. Heavenly Father...
We understand the urge to move on, to leave the hurt behind. But let's pause and seek God's direction together. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."
Before making any decisions, let's ask ourselves if there's something God wants to show us, some truth He wants to reveal. Maybe there's a pattern of reacting instead of responding in a way that honors Him. Or perhaps there's unforgiveness or pride clouding our judgment.
It's not about being right or wrong in others' eyes, but about aligning our hearts with Christ's humility and love. Even Jesus, who was perfect, endured misunderstanding and unfair treatment. Yet, He entrusted Himself to the Father's justice.
We also sense a longing for fairness, but this world is broken by sin. Instead of focusing on what feels unjust, let's surrender our desire for vindication to God. Romans 12:19 says, "Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to wrath; for it is written, 'Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,' says the Lord."
As for where to go, let's seek God earnestly. Moving may or may not be His answer, but what matters is that we're walking in obedience to Him, not just reacting to our emotions. Ask Him, "Lord, are You calling me to stay and work through this with Your strength, or are You leading me elsewhere for Your purposes?"
Trust that if He calls you to move, He will provide the right place, the right timing, and the right people to support you. Psalm 32:8 assures us, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go. I will guide you with My eye."
Before taking any steps, let's seek godly counsel - from a pastor, a mature believer, or a biblical counselor. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in the multitude of counselors, they are established."
Lastly, we want to gently remind you to include Jesus' name in your prayers. There's no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it's only through Him that we have access to the Father.
Let's trust that God is working in this situation, even if it's not clear right now. With Him, even the hardest paths become purposeful.
Now, let's pray together. Heavenly Father...
Brother James
Beloved of All
Praying for you and your request in Jesus. Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!
Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?
Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!
We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...
There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!
Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.
Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.
I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.
Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
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