Gods will and ways for ###s heart and mind ♥️♥️♥️

[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

Thank you for your goodness and for hearing my prayers. I praise you for opening this door and leading us to connect through our video call. Thank you for guiding our steps and bringing ###s into my life.

Lord, I commit this new relationship into your hands. I ask that your will and your ways be done above all else. Please touch ###’s heart and mind. Stir a genuine romance and a deep spark within him toward me. If it is your will, let this relationship grow deep and serious, to the point where he openly and out loud declares his love for me. I pray that he sees the value in me, feels a true connection, and views me as a perfect fit for his life.

I pray that you shape him into a man with the heart of a provider—someone who is kind, loving, and ready to be a wonderful partner to me and a loving stepdad to my boys. I ask that you make a way for him to visit me soon.

Father, I lay my deepest desires before you: our future together, marriage, a petition to join him in America, and a united family with my boys as his stepsons. I trust these dreams to your perfect timing and your perfect plan. Guide our steps, protect our hearts, and let your peace lead us every day.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s longing and lift this relationship before the Lord, seeking His perfect will above all else. First, we rejoice that you acknowledge Jesus Christ as Lord in your prayer, this is the foundation of all true guidance and hope. As it is written, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12). Only through Christ can we approach the Father, and only in Him can relationships find their true purpose and fulfillment.

Father God, we come before You with this matter, asking that Your will be done in every aspect of this relationship. We pray for ’s heart and mind, that You would draw him closer to You first and foremost. May he seek You above all else, for "unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it" (Psalm 127:1). We ask that You shape him into a man after Your own heart, a provider, yes, but more importantly, a man who leads with godly wisdom, humility, and love. May he be a reflection of Christ in his character, treating others with kindness, patience, and selflessness.

We also lift up your desires for marriage and family, for these are good and honorable in Your sight. However, we must gently remind you that relationships must align with Your Word. If this connection is to grow, it must be rooted in mutual faith and commitment to You. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If is not a believer, we urge you to pray fervently for his salvation and to seek the Lord’s wisdom about whether this relationship honors Him. Even if he professes faith, we must ensure that his walk with You is genuine and that his intentions toward you and your children are pure and selfless.

We also feel compelled to address the nature of your request for romance and affection. While it is natural to desire love and connection, we must guard our hearts against placing our hope in another person rather than in Christ. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). True fulfillment comes from abiding in Him, not from another’s declaration of love. We pray that you would find your ultimate satisfaction in Christ, trusting Him to provide for your needs, emotional, spiritual, and physical.

Father, we ask that You protect both hearts in this relationship. If this is Your will, make it clear and unmistakable. If it is not, give them the strength to surrender their desires to You. We pray against any impatience or temptation to rush ahead of Your timing. "Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord" (Psalm 27:14). If marriage is in Your plan, we ask that You prepare both of them, spiritually, emotionally, and practically, for the sacred covenant of marriage. May they build their relationship on the foundation of Christ, with open communication, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to Your Word.

We also lift up your children, Lord. If this relationship is to move forward, we pray that would embrace them with the love of a father, not merely as a stepfather, but as a man who reflects Your heart for the fatherless. "Pure religion and undefiled before our God and Father is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained by the world" (James 1:27). May he be a godly influence in their lives, pointing them to You.

Finally, we pray for wisdom regarding the practical aspects of this relationship, visits, relocation, and the blending of families. These are significant steps that require Your guidance and provision. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths" (Proverbs 3:5-6). We ask that You open doors that no one can shut and close doors that are not of You. Provide clarity, peace, and confirmation as You lead them.

Heavenly Father, we surrender this relationship into Your hands. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in every step. Guard their hearts from idolatry, impatience, and ungodly desires. Fill them with Your peace, Your wisdom, and Your love. If this is Your plan, unite them in a marriage that honors You, reflects Christ and the Church, and stands as a testimony to Your faithfulness. If it is not, give them the grace to release their desires and trust in Your greater purpose.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We can sense how much you’ve poured your heart into this, the hopes you’re carrying for your boys, the longing for someone to see and cherish you, the dreams of a future built together. That kind of vulnerability before God is never wasted. Something we’ve seen again and again is that the deepest prayer underneath all the specifics is often simply, “Lord, don’t let me be forgotten. Lead clearly.” And He doesn’t waste that either.

When a new connection stirs this much, it’s easy for our minds to race ahead and try to settle every future question at once. One thing that can genuinely steady you right now is simply holding all of it with open hands. Not because God needs our permission to work, but because open hands keep our hearts from squeezing the joy out of today while we wait for tomorrow. You’ve already asked for His will above all else, and that’s a solid place to rest.

So for this week, amid the hoping and wondering, anchor yourself in what you already know for certain: you and your boys are seen and loved. Nothing about that changes based on how quickly someone else recognizes it.

Let’s pray that together.

Lord, thank you that we don’t have to figure everything out tonight. You know the hopes she’s laid before you, the desire for love, for a partner, for a family united under one roof. We ask for your wisdom and your peace to guard her heart right now, not just in the outcome but in the waiting. Protect her and her boys. Give her clarity where things feel uncertain, and help her trust your timing even when the future feels far away. We pray in Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak much of your will and your ways, of the desires you have laid out with such particularity. But what of the great axle of the universe, the very heart of providence? Is it your will that turns it, or His? As surely as He is King, willing to do as He pleases, having mercy on whom He will have mercy, so in these tender matters of the heart we must rest assured that salvation, yes, and every blessing, is of God’s will. To say “I will” have this man’s affection on my terms, “I will” see this romance kindled, “I will” shape him into the provider I envision, is this not to speak as though you were stronger than Omnipotence? The universal experience of all God’s people is that the work which changes the human will, and so makes us willing in the day of His power, is the effect of His will, not the product of our own fierce pleadings.

The prayer of a heart truly written upon by God sounds little like a list of demands. When the Law of the Lord is inscribed within, the soul abhors itself and cries, “Who can stand before this terrible Law?” It does not come dictating the precise shape another man’s heart must take, nor the timeline of his declarations. The mark of that divine writing is a delight in God’s dictates, a daily striving to make the entire life accord with His will, not a straining to make His will accord with our cherished plans. The heart where God has written His name is royal property; it can never perish, and though temptation and sin assail, if the Law of the Lord is in the heart, it shall not give way to the sin of demanding one’s own way. A new heart must be given, for the old one is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked, forever trying to bend the Eternal to its own puny purposes.

Is it not foolish for a creature to feel she can do as she likes, that she can both propose and dispose, and has not to ask God’s consent at all? You have said, “I will do this or that”, that he will be a provider, that he will visit, that there will be marriage and a petition and a united family. Where is the governing clause, “If the Lord wills”? No harm can come to you if you bow to His sovereign sway, but great harm comes when you make plans as if there were no Divine will which governs all things. There is a revealed will you must not violate, and a providential will you should always consult. Your best profit, your truest gain, will consist of doing God’s will, not of securing your own.

The measure of His goodness is the heart of God, not the earnestness of your requests. He did great things for David, not because of David’s greatness, but according to His own heart. The reason for mercy lies not in man, not in the perceived fitness of a match, but in God’s own heart. He says, “For My own sake, and will not remember your sins.” If you look only to the thing desired, you weary yourself in the length of your way, hoping in some secret spark of your own devising. But to forsake all hope in your own resolutions and doings is the path to true hope. The heart unrenewed virtually says, “I shall not be tied and ruled. I will be a free thinker in my petitions.” Just so, and you are free to lose all peace until you submit.

Yet hear this: “I will allure her, and bring her into the wilderness, and I will speak to her heart.” God knows how to speak, not only into the ears, but into the heart. He does not say, “I will if they will,” but, “I will, and they shall.” He has the key of free agency, and when He turns it, He makes the soul willing, willing to be denied what it craves, willing to wait, willing to surrender the idol of a perfect earthly prospect. Will you not, therefore, give Him your heart? Will you not cast away the sin of dictating to Him? The goodness of God in even opening this connection is an argument for your repentance, not for your presumption. Turn to Him with a broken and contrite spirit, and you shall see how quickly He will forgive this grasping, and how He delights in mercy. Lay your desires down, and take up His will alone. For what if you strive to enter the door of your own making, and find it shut in the end? There is a seeking that comes too late. Seek Him now, and let the petition be simplified: “Thy will be done.”

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

You are thoughtful about your interests, but leave them to God. If you are thoughtful about them, you are thoughtful as a human; but if God provide, He provides as God. Do not be so concerned about this relationship that you let go of the greater things, the spiritual, for then He will not much provide for it. Your hope of salvation rests not in any human tie, nor in romance, but in Christ alone and in doing His will.

You pray for a spark in this man’s heart and for a future together. But seek first a husband, if God wills you to marry, who will be truly a husband and a protector, not one chosen for the feelings he stirs or the provision he might offer. Seek not money, nor splendor, nor a path to a new country; these are superfluous. Seek piety of soul, gentleness, the true understanding, the fear of God. For if you pursue a man for worldly advantage, you do your soul and your children harm, making yourself a servant rather than a free woman in Christ. The pleasure of a romantic ideal will not outweigh the grief of a yoke unequally drawn.

Commit the matter entirely to God, as Abraham’s servant did when sent to find a wife for Isaac. He did not scheme or set his heart on a particular woman; he prayed, “Whomsoever Thou wilt, do Thou provide.” Go and do likewise. Say, “Into Thy hands I commit this; Thy will be done.” If He honors your trust, He will send a man, in His time, who is sober, just, holy, temperate, one who rules well his own house and has his children in subjection with gravity. For how shall he care for your sons and your household if he cannot first govern his own passions and affairs? A man who does not provide for his own family, the Scripture says, is worse than an infidel; how much more one who would neglect the souls entrusted to him?

Yet while you wait and pray, be not idle in anxiety. Attend to the household God has already given you. A widow or a mother with children need not a new marriage to be secure. Strictness of life, continual prayer, and diligent care for your own, this is acceptable service. If you have leisure from a husband, let it be for the Lord, not for restless daydreams. Do not cast your peace at the feet of a man’s uncertain affection. The stage of this world is full of illusions that overthrow houses and wound hearts; do not look to a video call to build what only God can establish in the hidden place.

Above all, stop measuring your worth or your family’s future by whether this man declares love, books a visit, or opens a door to another land. These are earthly things. The kingdom of heaven is like a marriage feast where the call goes out, but many make light of it and go their own ways. Be not among them. Let your heart answer first to the Bridegroom of your soul, and then, if He ordains an earthly husband, you will receive him as a gift, not an idol. Trust His perfect plan; let His peace lead you. Pray simply: “Thy will be done,” and then rest. He who cares for the birds will not forsake you or your children.