Muefield

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God pllease help my life my mother inlaw and fatherinlaw are troubling me i need to go seperatly my husbad will hear tehm and do more to me please save my life i dont want to quite my marriage life but i wanted to be happy
 
We hear the deep pain and burden in your cry and we join with you before our Heavenly Father seeking His will together in Jesus' name. Your desire to not quit your marriage life is precious to God and aligns with His heart, for what God has joined together, let no man separate. Matthew 19:6. We also hear your longing to be happy and to have peace in your home, and that your mother in law and father in law are troubling you and that your husband listens to them and then acts harshly toward you. We bring all of this to the Lord who sees you and hears you.

The Word of God shows us the design for marriage from the beginning, Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. Genesis 2:24. This leaving and cleaving does not mean dishonoring parents, for we are still commanded Honor your father and your mother. Exodus 20:12, but it does mean that after marriage the husband and wife become a new family unit under God, with loyalty and protection for one another first. Your desire to live separately from your in laws is not against God, in fact it reflects this biblical principle of establishing your own household in peace where you and your husband can grow together without constant interference. We pray that your husband will understand this calling.

We also want to gently speak to the trouble in your home. Scripture calls husbands to love their wives as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25, and to live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7. It is not God's will for a husband to heed his parents over his wife to the point of troubling or harming her, nor to listen to others and then do more harm to his wife. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter against them. Colossians 3:19. And wives are called to respect and support their husbands as well, The wife should respect her husband. Ephesians 5:33. We encourage you both to seek to honor God in how you speak and act toward one another, with gentleness, truth, and forgiveness.

We notice you cried out to God but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and peace with Him. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6. Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. If you have not yet put your trust fully in Jesus as Lord and Savior, we encourage you to believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead and confess Him as Lord, for if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9. It is through Jesus' blood that we can boldly bring every fear and sorrow to God and find mercy.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ lifting up this dear daughter who is hurting in her marriage and home. Lord You see the trouble she faces with her mother in law and father in law and the pain when her husband listens to them and then comes against her. We ask You to be her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1. Draw near to her for You are close to the brokenhearted, and You save those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18. Lord we pray You would soften and convict her husband's heart to love his wife sacrificially, to protect her, to lead with kindness and wisdom, and to establish their home in unity as one flesh. Give her in laws hearts of peace and understanding and help them to release and bless this marriage. Provide a way, if it is Your will, for this couple to live separately in peace while still honoring parents, and supply all their needs. Teach this wife and husband to speak to each other with respect and grace and to seek godly counsel together. Replace fear and sorrow with Your peace which surpasses all understanding. Philippians 4:7. Keep her safe, Lord, guard her life, and let Your joy and hope fill her home again. Restore love and trust between them and make their marriage a testimony of Your faithfulness. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, Amen.

We encourage you to continue to pray and to not carry this burden alone. In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. Philippians 4:6. Seek a trusted mature believer or pastor couple in your church who can sit with you and your husband together, to mediate with love and truth and to help set healthy boundaries with honor for all. Speak to your husband at a calm time with respect sharing how you feel and your desire to build a happy godly home with him, not to divide but to strengthen your marriage. The Lord delights in your faithfulness to your vows, and He desires to give you not just happiness as the world gives but deep peace and joy as you both walk with Him. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6. We are continuing to pray that God will save, protect, and restore you and make your marriage strong in Christ.
 
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from trained people, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and help is ready right now.

We are so glad you reached out and told us honestly what is happening. We hear how torn you feel. You do not want to end your marriage, you want it to be healthy and peaceful, and at the same time you feel troubled and unsafe at home when your mother in law and father in law press in and your husband listens to them. Wanting space to live more separately is an understandable way to seek safety and breathing room, not a lack of love for your marriage.

When home does not feel safe it is common to feel powerless and alone, and it helps so much not to carry this by yourself. If you can, please reach out soon to one safe trusted person near you and to a helpline from the link above who can help you think through a safety plan for your specific situation. This could be a family member, a pastor, or a counselor or advocate in your area who understands family conflict and safety. Let someone you trust know what is happening and where you are, keep your important papers and a way to call for help close by, and keep getting counsel alongside prayer rather than trying to sort it all alone.

Father, we lift this dear woman to You in Jesus name. Cover her with Your protection, give her clear wisdom for each next step, and bring trustworthy people around her to listen and help. Bring calm and dignity back to her days and guide her and her husband toward Your way forward. Amen.
 
Your cry has reached our hearts and, more importantly, it has reached the ear of Him who hears the sighing of the afflicted. You are in a place of great distress, troubled in your own household and feeling alone, and you say you do not wish to quit your marriage life but you long for peace and happiness. That desire to honour the covenant of marriage is itself a good and right thing before God, for marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, ordained by the Lord, and what God has joined together we are to guard and cherish.

Know assuredly that the Saviour is greater than your sorrow and His mercy is greater than your trouble. There is no road to true peace apart from Him, for we cannot go the wrong road and yet be happy. Wrong must end in wrong. But to be made right with God through Jesus Christ alone, to trust in Him wholly and solely and entirely, is to have peace with God, and from that peace all other peace must flow. If you have not already done so, cast yourself wholly upon the Lord Jesus, who bore our sins and carries our sorrows, and find in Him the forgiveness of sins and the strength to endure and to do what is right.

You are called to pray without ceasing, for there is no position in life in which you may not be assaulted by the enemy, and there is no position in which prayer is not your refuge. When you have joy, pray. When you have sorrow, pray. When your heart is heavy because those who should be as father and mother to you trouble you, and when your husband hearkens to them rather than cleaving to you as the Scripture teaches a man must leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife, then still pray. Let your prayer be not a fitful cry in an hour of peril only, but a continual leaning upon your Beloved. He is near to you, and you may abide in Him and He in you, and in proportion as that dear Saviour reigns in your soul, you will feel that all is safe because it is in His hands.

Do not act in haste or in bitterness. Seek the Lord's leading in the Word and upon your knees, and seek also the wise and godly counsel of a faithful pastor or mature believers in your church who can know your case fully and walk with you. It is not against God to desire a quiet and peaceable household. Indeed the Scripture desires that there be no breaking in nor going out, and no complaining in our streets, but peace under our own roof. If a separate dwelling from your husband's parents would preserve peace and honour and purity in your marriage, and it can be sought with respect and love and with your husband's understanding, it may be a right and prudent course. But let it be sought not in strife, but in meekness and honour toward all, and with a firm purpose to remain faithful to your marriage vow.

We will pray for you, and we urge you to continue in prayer for your husband and for your mother in law and father in law also, that God would soften hearts and give wisdom to all.

O Lord, look in mercy upon this daughter of affliction. Thou knowest her dwelling and her distress. Grant her faith to trust alone in Jesus Christ for salvation and for daily grace. Give her a meek and quiet spirit, and give her husband a heart to love and cherish his wife and to lead his household in righteousness. Grant to her parents by marriage kindness and restraint, and to this whole household peace. Lead them all in the way of holiness, and let no root of bitterness spring up. Preserve this marriage covenant and make it to reflect the love of Christ for His Church. Keep this precious soul leaning upon her Beloved through every trial, and bring her in due time into a place of quietness and safety, for Jesus sake. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your pain and your desire to honor your marriage have been heard, and God sees the distress you are carrying in your home. You have said you do not want to leave your marriage but you long for peace and safety, and that desire to keep your covenant is good and right in the sight of God, for marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman before Him.

Scripture tells us that even the closest family ties can become a place of conflict. Jesus Himself said He knew division would come even between a daughter in law and her mother in law, and that hearing this should not make us lose hope but help us understand that He is not surprised by what you are facing and His power is still greater. At the same time God does not waste such trials. When He allows His people to be tested, He does so to strengthen them and to bring help near, even when the burden feels intolerable. He calls us to look not only at what is seen and felt right now, but at what is unseen and eternal, knowing that nothing can separate those who love Christ from His love, not tribulation or distress or persecution.

In this hard place, seek to stand with both courage and quiet trust. Do not rush to stir up more conflict, but when you are pressed, stand firm with gentleness and do not return evil for evil. Every quarrel has a root in pride or desire for control, and you can choose a different way by seeking peace, by guarding your heart from bitterness, and by asking God to help you love what He loves and to hold lightly what will pass away.

It is right for a husband and wife to become one and to build their own home together. The Scriptures teach that a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife. Wanting a separate household from your in laws in order to have peace and to protect your marriage is not the same as wanting to end your marriage. If it is possible, speak to your husband with respect and calm honesty about how you are suffering, and invite wise and godly help into the conversation, such as a pastor or a mature married couple in the church who can listen to you both and help set loving boundaries. You should not face this alone. The faithful are called to stand by one another and to help bear each others burdens, and those who support you in this struggle share in the work God is doing.

If you are in danger or being harmed, please seek safety and tell a trusted pastor or other faithful people near you right away so they can help you and your husband find godly counsel and protection. Pray continually for your husband, that God would give him wisdom to lead his home with love and to love you as Christ loves the church, and pray for your mother in law and father in law, that God would soften hearts on all sides.

We pray for you now. Heavenly Father, we come to You through Jesus Christ alone, who is our only hope and salvation. You see this daughter and her tears and her desire to be faithful in her marriage. Have mercy on her and keep her safe. Give her strength to endure and faith to look to You. Give her husband a hearing ear and a heart to protect and cherish his wife and to lead his home in love and righteousness. Grant wisdom to all in this family, bring peace where there is strife, and make a way for this couple to live in a way that honors You. Help this dear one to know Your nearness, to grow in holiness through this trial, and to find joy not only in relief from trouble but in Your unfailing love. In the name of Jesus we ask this, amen.

Please stay connected to your church family, keep praying, and let mature believers walk with you step by step.
 

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