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Kliyser

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God please help me god I am confused with my decision with my marriage I am not sure what to do not to do please give me some clarity.
 
We hear the deep cry of your heart, and we are joining you in seeking the Lord’s wisdom and clarity for your marriage. The confusion you are feeling is not from God, for He is not the author of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33). We encourage you to turn to Scripture, where God’s will is made clear, and to seek Him earnestly in prayer. Remember, the Lord promises to give wisdom generously to all who ask in faith (James 1:5).

Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman that reflects Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are struggling with decisions in your marriage, we urge you to examine whether your heart and actions are aligned with God’s design. Are there areas of unforgiveness, bitterness, or unrepentant sin that need to be addressed? The Bible calls us to love one another as Christ loved us, to bear with one another in patience, and to pursue reconciliation (Colossians 3:12-14). If there has been brokenness or sin in your marriage, repentance and forgiveness are the path to restoration. The Lord is faithful to heal and restore what is broken when we turn to Him.

If your confusion stems from considering separation or divorce, we must gently but firmly remind you that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). Divorce is only permitted in cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 5:32) or if an unbelieving spouse chooses to leave (1 Corinthians 7:15). Even in those cases, reconciliation should always be the first pursuit. If there is no biblical grounds for divorce, we urge you to commit to praying for your marriage, seeking godly counsel, and trusting the Lord to work in your heart and the heart of your spouse. Remember, with God, all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).

If your struggle is rooted in feelings of dissatisfaction, loneliness, or unmet expectations, we encourage you to lay those before the Lord. Contentment is found in Christ alone, not in circumstances or in another person fulfilling your needs perfectly (Philippians 4:11-13). Ask God to renew your heart and to help you love your spouse selflessly, as He loves you. Pray for a spirit of gratitude for the blessings in your marriage, even amid challenges.

We also notice that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation comes through repenting of your sins and believing in Jesus Christ, who died for your sins and rose again (Romans 10:9-10). Without faith in Him, there is no true foundation for marriage or any other area of life.

Let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, asking for Your divine clarity and wisdom to flood their heart and mind. Lord, You are the God of order and peace, and we ask that You would dispel every shadow of confusion and replace it with Your perfect light. Help them to see their marriage through Your eyes, to love as You love, and to walk in obedience to Your Word.

If there is sin that needs to be confessed, grant them a spirit of repentance and humility. If there is bitterness or unforgiveness, soften their heart and fill them with Your grace. If they are considering a path that does not align with Your will, convict them by Your Spirit and turn them back to Your truth. Remind them that marriage is a covenant, and You are faithful to sustain those who trust in You.

Father, we also pray that if this person does not know Jesus as their Savior, You would draw them to Yourself today. Open their eyes to see their need for Him, and grant them the faith to believe and be saved. May they find their hope, peace, and identity in Christ alone.

Strengthen their marriage, Lord. Restore what has been broken, and bind them together in unity and love. Give them the courage to seek godly counsel if needed, and surround them with believers who will support and pray for them. May their home be a place where Your presence dwells, and may their marriage bring glory to Your name.

We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, particularly in passages that speak to marriage, such as Ephesians 5:22-33, Colossians 3:18-19, and 1 Peter 3:1-7. Seek out a mature believer or pastor who can provide biblical counsel and prayer support. Do not walk this path alone—lean on the body of Christ. We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will bring clarity, healing, and restoration as you seek Him with all your heart.
 
We're right there with you, dear one, holding your hands up to our Father in prayer. We understand the weight of the decision you're facing, and we want you to know that you're not alone. The Bible tells us that God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He sees your confusion and pain.

We join you in asking for clarity. Let's ask God to make His path clear, like the ancient Israelites who saw the cloud and fire guiding them (Exodus 13:21-22). Trust that He will guide your steps, for He promises to direct the humble (Psalm 147:6).

We also want to encourage you to seek peace and pursue it (Psalm 34:14). Even when we can't see the way forward, we can choose peace. Let's ask God to fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

And remember, dear one, that God is love (1 John 4:8). He loves you and your spouse deeply, and He wants the best for you both. Let's trust Him with your marriage, knowing that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).

Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, we come to You today, laying down our confusion and uncertainty. We ask for clarity, Lord. Show us the path You want us to take. Fill us with Your peace, and help us to trust in Your love. We believe that You are working in our marriage, and we trust You with our future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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