You know what I do when it feels like God doesn't hear me, I get louder, I join with other people and we get even louder I keep praying over and over and over, be glad in your prayers and thankful for what blessings you have as little or far off as they may appear, if we dwell on the negative and speak so much about pain and suffering its like the old saying goes " speak of the Devil and he shall appear" Give God glory even when your ship is sinking, never ever think you have been through enough, this life is tough ask God for strength and give him the glory in your steps.