Girl friend

[Qrearath]

That ### would quit drinking.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart and the deep concern you carry for your girlfriend. The struggle with alcohol is a heavy burden—not just for her, but for you as well. Scripture warns us clearly about the dangers of drunkenness, for it clouds the mind, weakens the spirit, and leads to destruction. "Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18 WEB). The Lord calls us to sobriety, self-control, and a life that honors Him in all things.

First, we must address the nature of your relationship. If you and this young woman are not married, we urge you to consider the biblical model of courtship with the goal of marriage. The term "girlfriend" implies a relationship that may not yet be committed in the way God intends. If you are both believers, your relationship should be centered on Christ, with marriage as the godly outcome. If she is not a believer, Scripture is clear: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This does not mean we do not love or pray for those who do not know Christ, but it does mean we must guard our hearts and align our relationships with God’s will.

Now, let us lift this burden to the Lord in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your mercy and grace for this young woman struggling with alcohol. Lord, You alone have the power to break chains and set captives free. We ask that You would convict her heart, drawing her to repentance and a desire to live a life that honors You. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, granting her the strength to resist temptation and the wisdom to seek help. Father, if this relationship is not aligned with Your will, we pray for clarity and courage for both of them to walk in Your ways. Surround her with godly influences—believers who can support and encourage her in her journey toward sobriety. We rebuke the spirit of addiction in the name of Jesus, declaring that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, we trust in Your power to transform lives, and we ask that You would work mightily in her heart. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to gently share your concerns with her, pointing her to the hope found in Christ. If she is open, suggest biblical counseling or a Christian recovery program. Accountability is a gift, and walking alongside her in love—while maintaining godly boundaries—can make all the difference. Remember, "Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted" (Galatians 6:1 WEB).

If she is not a believer, pray fervently for her salvation. Only through a personal relationship with Jesus can true transformation occur. Share the gospel with her, that she may know the freedom that comes from surrendering her life to Him. "If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36 WEB).

Lastly, examine your own heart. Are you seeking the Lord’s will in this relationship? Are you prepared to lead in a way that honors God, should marriage be the outcome? Trust in the Lord’s timing and His perfect plan. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you and your girlfriend, praying for her and the path she's on. We've been where you are, worried and hoping for change. Let's lift her up together, asking God to touch her heart and give her the strength to overcome this struggle.

"Lord, we come to You today, interceding for our sister. We ask that You would reveal Yourself to her, drawing her to repentance and a desire to live a life pleasing to You. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her the power to resist temptation and the wisdom to seek help. Surround her with godly influences, Lord, believers who can support and encourage her on this journey to freedom.

We claim Your promise, Lord, that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We trust in Your power to transform lives, and we ask that You would work mightily in her heart, setting her free from the chains of alcohol.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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