Freedom, Restoration, Protection and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship with this young man swiftly with no regrets. I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage and an obligation to obey him. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother knows of his negative behaviors but has but that bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her sons' negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Jesus I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join with you in bringing your older daughter before the throne of grace in Jesus' name, and we thank you for your faithful, discerning love as her parent. We hear the burden you carry for her freedom and restoration, and we stand with you to pray for her swift deliverance from this toxic and ungodly relationship.

We agree with you that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not God's will for her life. Scripture is very clear about this. Marriage is a holy covenant ordained by God between one man and one woman for life, and it is to be honored by all. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Also 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. What she is treating as a marriage with obligation to obey this young man is fornication, and it brings spiritual bondage, confusion, division and the loss of self worth you are seeing. A boyfriend is not a husband, and a girlfriend is not a wife. Courtship should be with a fellow believer with the goal of godly marriage, not cohabitation. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity. We pray she will see this truth with supernatural clarity and choose repentance and purity, for God promises to forgive and cleanse when we turn to Him.

We also see the manipulation, exploitation, laziness, dishonesty, control and disrespect you describe, and how his mother is enabling his negative behavior and putting undue responsibility on your daughter to fix him while giving ungodly counsel to disobey and dishonor her family. This is not love, it is being used. The Bible teaches that children are to honor their father and mother, Ephesians 6:1-3, and that a person who does not provide and live responsibly is not ready to lead a home. We pray the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see that this is a dark path and not love, that her finances are not his to manage or spend, and that seeking approval from this woman by disowning the family God blessed her with is not His will. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us to guard our heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.

We thank God that you have prayed in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only by that name we have access to the Father and can be saved. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We rejoice that you are pleading the blood of Jesus over your family, for Isaiah 54:17 declares No weapon that is formed against you will prevail.

Let us pray together.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You and lift up this precious daughter to You. Lord, we ask that You flood her mind, heart and spirit with Your light and truth. Remove the spiritual blindness and stubborn hold this young man and his mother have upon her. Let her see every red flag clearly and stop making excuses for dishonesty, manipulation, control, division, isolation and disrespect. Show her that she is not being loved but being used, that living together outside of marriage is sin and not security, and that this young man is not her covering or authority. We ask that You speak to her now and let her hear Your voice saying You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and that You will protect her with all Your power from this ungodly relationship.

Lord, we ask You to break the ungodly soul tie and the false hope that keeps her bound. Give her holy courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, to move back home where she is unconditionally loved, and to have her self worth, independence, gratefulness, peace and purpose fully restored in You. Surround her with friends who will speak the truth in love and with family who will reflect Your love. Guard her finances, her job and promotion You have blessed her with, from greed and exploitation.

Father, we pray for this young man and his parents. Convict his heart of rebellion, laziness and selfishness and show him he is not ready for a relationship. Speak firmly to his mother to stop overstepping boundaries, to stop putting her son's responsibility on this daughter, and to stop giving selfish ungodly counsel. Speak to his father to rise up with godly authority and guide his son to return home alone and take responsibility for his own life. Let division, chaos and disrespect be blocked from this family.

Lord, we pray for this mother who has cried out to You. Go before her as a shield from every attack and disrespect she experiences for standing on biblical truth. Fill her with supernatural strength, courage, grace, favor and protection. Fill this whole family with Your Holy Spirit, saturate them with Your peace, love, healing and favor. We declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her unity with her family. We submit to You, resist the enemy, and trust James 4:7 that he will flee from us.

Father, we thank You that nothing is impossible for You. Restore what has been taken, protect this daughter from jealous and selfish advice and lifestyle, and guide her back to honoring You and honoring her family. Let her delight again in the way she was raised in Your truth. We pray all of this in the powerful and only saving name of Jesus. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in love and truth, to keep the door of home open with grace while not affirming the sin, to set healthy boundaries around finances and disrespect, and to keep speaking Scripture over her. God is faithful to complete the work He has begun, and He hears the prayers of a faithful parent. Trust in Isaiah 41:10 that He will strengthen you and uphold you with the right hand of His righteousness as you navigate this difficult season.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been praying with you as you carry this burden for your older daughter. It is painful to watch someone you love give up her independence and peace while believing this is love, and to feel the strain it brings to your whole family.

We hear your longing for her to see clearly and to find freedom again. One thing that has helped many parents in a similar place is remembering that love keeps the door open while also keeping healthy boundaries. A boundary is simply knowing what is yours to carry and what is not, your values, your choices, your time and energy, and allowing your daughter the freedom to make her own choices even as you stay connected. That can mean not trying to fix him through her, but keeping your relationship with her steady and separate, speaking truth briefly in love when invited, and then stepping back.

It may help to keep short, warm contact that is not about the relationship, to decide ahead of time what respectful communication looks like in your home, and to have one trusted pastor or counselor to talk with regularly so you are not holding this alone.

Father, we bring this daughter before You and ask for Your protection over her, for clarity in her mind and heart, and for wisdom for her mother. Guard this family with Your peace, restore what has been strained, and guide each next step. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[bobr69]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[CozyHomer]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with deep sympathy and earnest intercession, and we join our hearts with yours for freedom, restoration, protection and true breakthrough for your daughter and your household.

We affirm with you what the Scripture plainly teaches, that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman before God, and that living together outside of that covenant is not marriage and is not the Lord's will. It carries no vow, no sacred obligation to obey, and no right to the privileges and authority which belong only within holy matrimony. To treat such an arrangement as if it were marriage is to walk in a false hope, and we pray that the Lord in His mercy will give your daughter clear eyes to see this, and a settled conviction to turn from it.

We have pleaded that God alone would work the deliverance you seek, for deliverance from sin and from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He must bring them forth, and He makes that deliverance effectual. We have asked Him to do for your daughter what He did for Israel when He brought them forth with silver and gold, not merely bringing them out of bondage but enriching them after. We have asked Him to show her that a ransom has been found, that Jesus Christ has paid the price to deliver sinners from the pit, and that in Him there is a higher restoration than any outward change, even the restoration of the soul to God Himself.

As we have prayed for her, we have remembered Peter. He was down, but he was soon up again through a look from the Lord, a look that severed him from the crowd and broke his heart into repentance. So we pray that Christ would fix His tender and convicting gaze upon your daughter, that she would hear His voice saying, You are Mine, and that supernatural clarity would flood her mind. We pray that she would no longer make excuses for what is dishonest, controlling, divisive and disrespectful, but would see that she is not being loved as Christ loves the church, but being used and exploited, isolated from those who truly love her, and robbed of her peace, her purpose and the godly independence with which God has endowed her. We pray that she would see that her finances, her body, her future and her obedience belong to the Lord first, and not to a man who has no covenant right to them, and that she would be given courage to walk away swiftly, without regret, and to return to the shelter of her family and to the freedom she has in Christ.

We pray also as you have asked for that young man and for his mother and father. We do not ask God to bless what is outside His holy order, but we ask Him to bring conviction of sin, godly sorrow and repentance. We pray that the young man would be shown that he is not ready for such a relationship, that his ways of laziness, dishonesty, selfishness and manipulation are not love, and that he would be led to return to his own home and to his own responsibilities. We pray that his father would take up rightful authority with firmness and love, and that his mother would cease to place undue responsibility upon your daughter and to give counsel that encourages disobedience to parents and disowning of family. May the Lord teach that household to bear its own burden and to seek the Lord's ways rather than to overstep godly boundaries.

For you and your family, we pray for the shield of the Lord to go before you. You have felt the exhaustion, the strife, the disrespect and the spiritual attack that comes when truth is spoken in love. We ask for supernatural strength, grace and favor to stand, for the peace of God to saturate your home, and for protection as you continue to follow the biblical teaching in which you raised your children. We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and that He who has chastened will also deliver. When He has delivered, you shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord, for if we had no troubles we would have less to declare. May your testimony after this trial be that the Lord heard, that He delivered, and that He restored with abundance what the enemy sought to steal.

We will continue to bear you up before the throne, trusting that nothing is impossible with God, and that in His perfect time He will bring light out of darkness and order out of confusion. Continue to speak the truth in love, to keep the door open with prayer and with the unconditional love of family, and to look to Jesus Christ alone for salvation and for every needed grace.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your prayer for your older daughter has been heard, and the love and anguish you carry for her is clear. You are right to bring this burden to Jesus, for nothing is impossible for Him, and He alone can bring true freedom, restoration, protection and breakthrough.

We agree with you in prayer that God will open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship clearly. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage in God's sight, and it does not carry the covenant, commitment or obligation of marriage. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that intimacy and sharing a home in this way belongs within that covenant. To treat this arrangement as if it were marriage, to obey this young man as if he were a husband, and to place him and his family before her God given family, her faith and her calling, is not God's will for her life. We do not ask God to bless what is outside His design, we ask Him to lead her out of it into what is good and holy and life giving.

We join you in praying that the Lord will give your daughter supernatural clarity. May she see the manipulation, dishonesty, control, disrespect and exploitation for what they are, and understand that this is not love but being used. May she stop making excuses for what is harmful and stop believing the false hope that she must fix him. May God break the ungodly hold that has kept her isolated, divided from family, exhausted and diminished in self worth. We pray that she will hear the voice of her true Father saying, you are Mine, you belong to Me, and I will protect and restore you. We pray she will have courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, to move back home, and to have her independence, self respect, gratefulness and freedom in Christ fully restored. As Christ has shown, faith makes us sons and daughters, and He came to deliver from evil and to bring us into that adoption. May your daughter remember who she is as a daughter of God, and find healing through that faith.

We also pray for this young man and his parents. We pray that his mother will stop placing undue responsibility on your daughter and stop giving counsel that encourages what is not godly. A mother and father are responsible to guide and correct their own son, not to shift that burden to another man's daughter. We pray his father will step in with loving authority and guide his son to return home alone and to face his own need for maturity and change before he is ready for any relationship. We pray that this young man will see that he is not ready for a relationship, that greed and control are not love, and that he has no right to manage or spend your daughter's finances or to isolate her from those who love her. We pray God will convict and change him, and that his family will focus on what is theirs to steward.

We pray for you and your household for protection and strength. May the Lord go before you as a shield when you stand for biblical truth and face disrespect and strife. May He give you wisdom to speak the truth in love, to set healthy boundaries, to not be drawn into chaos, and to keep the door of unconditional love open while refusing to enable what is harmful. We plead the blood of Jesus over you and your children and declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. May God fill your home with His Holy Spirit, with peace, favor and healing, and saturate every part of your lives with His presence.

Continue to pray and to trust Him. A considerate and faithful heart is what God honors, and He is able to use your faithful prayers, the loving voices of friends and family, and His own Spirit to bring your daughter to see clearly and to choose freedom. He can restore what has been taken, including her peace, her purpose and the unity of your family.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, our only Savior, we ask for deliverance for this daughter, for her eyes to be opened, for her to be set free from this toxic and ungodly arrangement, and to be restored to You and to her family. Give her mother strength, courage and grace. Protect this family from division and harm. Let Your will be done in each life involved. Amen.