Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Please pray that my sweet older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting your older daughter before the throne of grace in Jesus' name, and we hear the anguish and love in your heart as a mother who has raised her daughters in biblical values. We agree with you that what is happening is not love and is not marriage, and we stand with you for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing.

Your discernment is right to call this what it is. Living together outside of marriage is fornication, it is sin before God, and it is not a marriage no matter how it is presented. Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. We lovingly but firmly rebuke this living arrangement and the deception that has surrounded it, for it brings exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual vulnerability instead of the peace and honor God intends. A young man who is greedy, lazy, controlling, dishonest and manipulative does not reflect the love described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, and he is not acting as a shepherd or provider but as one who exploits. We also agree that no person, including this young man or his mother, should be idolized or obeyed in place of God or put before faith, God-given family and God-given purpose. Exodus 20:3 says you shall have no other gods before me, and Colossians 3:5 warns against covetousness which is idolatry.

We also affirm your desire for her to know a beautiful courtship that honors God rather than this counterfeit. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as outlined in Genesis 2:24 and Matthew 19:6, and we pray for godly courtships that look toward marriage with another Christian believer. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage, not a substitute for it, and not an arrangement of living together and sharing finances and intimacy without covenant. Your younger daughter's courtship is a beautiful testimony of how God intends a relationship to bring peace, respect and unity rather than chaos and depletion, and we pray your older daughter will see that contrast clearly.

We pray together now for supernatural clarity to flood her mind and for the Holy Spirit to open her eyes. Ephesians 5:11 says have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them. Romans 12:2 says be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. 2 Corinthians 4:4 reminds us that the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving, and we ask Jesus to remove every blindfold and to let her see she is being used, not loved, and that this lifestyle is not a home and not a future.

Father in Jesus' name we come before You and we lift this precious daughter to You. You say in Isaiah 41:10 do not be afraid, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God, I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Lord whisper to her heart as only You can, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power. Let her hear Your voice above every manipulating voice and every ungodly counsel, including counsel from this young man's mother that has guided her into this arrangement. Give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship, to walk away without regret and to trust You and trust the family You gave her. James 4:7 says be subject therefore to God, but resist the devil, and he will flee from you. We pray she will submit to You and resist this entanglement, and that the spiritual attacks, division, isolation, chaos and exhaustion will be broken in Jesus' name. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers, and we ask for Your protection over her and over this whole family.

We pray You will restore what has been stolen, her independence, her self-worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship with loved ones and her unity with her family. Psalm 34:17-18 says the righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles, Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Psalm 91:1-2 says he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, I will say of Yahweh, He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust. Bring her back home swiftly, Lord, gently guide her to see herself and her family through Your eyes, not through the eyes of those who demean and control her. Remind her of the training she received in Your Word, for Proverbs 22:6 says train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

We continue to join you in speaking to her mind, heart and spirit, asking Jesus to open her eyes to see that this man's lifestyle is not love and not provision, that his taking authority over her finances for selfish benefit is exploitation, and that true love protects, honors and provides. We ask for healing from financial hardship and for wisdom in stewardship, for peace to replace chaos, for respect to replace disrespect, and for gratitude to return.

We also pray a special blessing upon you and your whole family today and tonight. Fill each of you with the Holy Spirit in every aspect of your lives, saturate your home with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. 1 John 4:18 says perfect love casts out fear. Let Your perfect love cast out all fear and confusion. Restore her faith, her freedom, her joy and her fellowship swiftly, and let this family walk in unity again, with Christ at the center.

We thank You, Lord, that You hear us when we pray in the name of Jesus, for John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me, and Acts 4:12 says there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We trust Your power to provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take from her. We ask all of this in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We are praying with you for your older daughter and for your whole family. We hear how much you love her and how heavy these months have been as you watch the exhaustion and financial strain and distance grow.

You have carried this so faithfully in prayer, asking for clarity and protection and a way back to peace and fellowship at home. It is painful when a daughter you raised to value faith and family seems pulled in another direction, especially when you feel another family is influencing her choices. Loving her well right now can mean holding two things together, staying clear about what you hope for her, while keeping your relationship a safe place she can turn to without shame.

One gentle step that often helps in this kind of season is to keep the door home steady and open. Letting her know, calmly and consistently, that she is welcome, that you believe in her independence and worth, and that you will listen without a lecture can keep connection alive when pressure might otherwise push her further away. It also helps to have someone to walk with you, a trusted pastor or wise mentor you can talk to regularly for support and perspective as you keep praying.

Jesus, we lift this daughter to You. You know her by name and You see her heart. Give her wisdom and courage for each next decision, guard her safety and dignity, and draw her close to You. Bring Your peace and healing to this family, and restore what has felt divided and weary. Lead each step according to Your will. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and we join you in bringing it before the throne of grace, asking the Lord to work in power for your older daughter and for your whole household.

We agree with you in asking God for freedom, protection, restoration and healing. We pray that He will grant your daughter courage and wisdom to turn swiftly and completely from a relationship that has brought exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual oppression. We ask the Lord to open her eyes to see clearly that what she is experiencing is not love but use, not care but control, and that greed, laziness, dishonesty and manipulation can never be called love. We do not ask God to bless a union that stands outside His holy ordinance, for we hold fast to what Scripture teaches, that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together outside of marriage is not marriage at all and cannot bear the blessing, the purity or the peace which God gives within that covenant. As it has been well said, charity and purity are the two great garments of Christianity, and to keep ourselves unspotted from the world is not left optional. True religion visits the afflicted in love but it also walks in holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord.

We pray with you that the Lord will speak to her mind, heart and spirit with supernatural clarity, that she may see this young man for what he is, not a shepherd or provider, but a wolf in sheep's clothing, and that she will no longer idolize or obey him, nor put him and his family before her faith, her God given family and the purposeful work God has given her. We ask that she will cease to seek counsel from those who would guide her to remain in an ungodly living arrangement, and that she will remember the biblical values in which she was raised. We pray that she will hear her heavenly Father say in her soul, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and that she will trust Him to provide, protect and restore all that has been taken, to guide her to walk away without regret and to return to the fellowship and safety of home where she is loved and valued as God sees her.

We know that deliverance from sin and from the pit is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has found a ransom, even the precious blood of the Lamb slain, and through that ransom He brings His people forth. When the hour of mercy strikes in heaven, He makes deliverance effectual. We pray that He will do so now for your daughter, severing her by His own gracious look as He once severed Peter from the crowd, bringing godly sorrow and then full restoration. Though she may fear her purity and peace can never return, we remind you of the promise of perfect restoration, that the Holy Spirit can create a clean heart and renew a right spirit within, that He can give back more than was lost, restoring faith, freedom, self worth, peace and joy, and dwelling again with those who return to Him.

We also pray for your family this day and night, that the Lord who is your habitation from generation to generation would fill your home with His Holy Spirit, saturate you with peace, love, favor, protection and healing, and keep you from the archers of discord and division. May you have that blessed well in the family where in prayer you bring all the necessities of the household before God, mentioning each child by name, and may you be kept in unity and fellowship. May your younger daughter's pure courtship stand as a quiet testimony of the beauty and peace God intends in waiting upon His way.

We will continue to speak to the Lord on behalf of your daughter, that He who has chastened will also deliver, and that she who has known affliction may yet live and declare the works of the Lord. May the Lord in His tender indulgence toward the least and feeblest of His family magnify His choice favor toward her, bring her out with enrichment, and restore to her all that the enemy has sought to steal. In the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and our only ransom, we pray. Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Praying in agreement with you for your older daughter in Jesus Name Amen.