Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Please pray that my sweet older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting up your precious older daughter before the throne of grace, and we stand with you in agreement for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing. We hear your heart as a mother who has raised your children in biblical values, and we grieve with you over the exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual attacks that have come upon her and your whole family through this toxic and ungodly living arrangement.

We must speak clearly in love about what the Lord shows us here. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, it is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. What is being presented as a significant other or a home is not a covenant before God. A godly courtship is not cohabitation, it is a man and a woman seeking the Lord together with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman that honors God. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity? We rebuke the greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation you have described, for these are not love. Love does not exploit finances for selfish benefit or seek to take authority that belongs to God and to family. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 reminds us Love is patient and is kind, love doesn't envy, love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way. We also rebuke the idolatry of putting this young man and his mother before faith, before God-given family, and before the purpose God has given her in her work. Exodus 20:3 says You shall have no other gods before me, and no person should take the place that belongs to the Lord in her heart.

We also see the spiritual battle you have discerned so rightly. The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy, and he uses division, confusion, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion to isolate and wear down. But Jesus came to set the captives free. John 8:36 says If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. Romans 12:2 says Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. We pray that her mind, heart and spirit will be renewed and that she will see clearly that she is not being loved, she is being used, and that this lifestyle is not a home but a trap. We pray she will stop seeking counsel from those who guide her to remain in this ungodly arrangement and will instead seek wisdom from the Lord, for James 1:5 says But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

We take great comfort that you are declaring over her what the Lord Himself declares, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me. Isaiah 41:10 says Don't you be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. And Isaiah 43:1 says Don't be afraid, for I have redeemed you. I have called you by your name. You are mine. She does not belong to this young man, she belongs to the Lord, and she is deeply loved and seen by Him. Psalm 34:17-18 says The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. We pray she will see the peaceful, beautiful courtship modeled by her younger sister and understand that God wants that same purity, honor and joy for her, a relationship that protects her fellowship with loved ones and her unity with family rather than destroying it.

So we pray together now. Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we come before You and we thank You that we have access to Your throne only through the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we can be saved and no other name by which we can approach You. We lift up this beloved daughter to You. Lord, flood her mind with supernatural clarity today and onward. Open her eyes to see this young man for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep's clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider, and not ready for a godly marriage. Remove the veil from her eyes, soften her heart to Your voice, and give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship and from living together outside of marriage. Break every chain of control, financial exploitation, manipulation and false loyalty to this young man and his mother. Let her see that this arrangement was not Your will and that it has stolen her peace, her independence, her self-worth, her purpose and her fellowship with family.

Lord, whisper to her even now, Walk away, trust your family, trust Me, I will provide, protect and restore everything he is trying to take from you. Give her a spirit of power and not of fear, for 2 Timothy 1:7 says For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. Guide her gently to see herself and her mother and siblings through Your eyes, not through the eyes of those who look at them with disrespect and exclusion. Lead her to turn from fornication and to repent and to walk in purity, and guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret and with full assurance that You will protect her with every ounce of Your power.

Father, we ask You to restore what the enemy has stolen. Joel 2:25 says I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten. Restore her faith, her freedom, her independence, her self-worth, her peace, her satisfaction and her sweet fellowship with her family. Heal the division, isolation, chaos and exhaustion in the home and let Your peace reign. We ask for a special blessing upon this whole family today and tonight. Fill each one with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of their lives. Saturate them with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let Your Holy Spirit fill every room and every heart. We trust You to provide, to protect and to make her path straight as she trusts in You with all her heart, for Proverbs 3:5-6 says Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. We thank You that You are already at work and that You will complete what You have begun. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been for you as her mother, loving your older daughter deeply while watching the exhaustion, financial strain, and distance this relationship has brought on her and on your whole family. It is understandable you are longing for her to see clearly and to find peace and freedom again.

What you describe about control, dishonesty, and being isolated from loved ones is so draining, and it makes sense you are carrying such concern for her safety and wellbeing. One insight that has helped other parents walking through something similar is remembering that love can stay warm and open while still holding clear boundaries. That can look like keeping your home and your heart a steady, shame free place she can always return to, sharing your concern in brief, calm moments rather than long debates, and not taking on burdens that are not yours to carry. It helps protect your own peace while keeping the relationship open so she can more easily hear both you and the Lord.

It may also help to have one trusted pastor or counselor you can talk with privately as you navigate how to love and support her well in this season.

Father, we lift this beloved daughter to You and ask for Your protection over her mind, heart, and body. Give her supernatural clarity, courage, and wisdom to recognize what is harming her and to take steps toward safety and health. Restore her peace, self worth, and fellowship with You and with her family, and provide for every need. Strengthen her mother with wisdom, rest, and hope as she trusts You day by day. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[marls]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord and we join our hearts with yours in earnest supplication for your older daughter and for your whole household.

We hear the heaviness of your burden, the exhaustion and financial hardship, the division and isolation, the spiritual heaviness that has come upon your family. We do not ask God to bless what He has not ordained, for living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it cannot bear the peace and security which God has reserved for the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. What you have discerned is true and according to Scripture, that such an arrangement brings chaos rather than a home, and that greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love. We pray with you that your daughter will see this clearly, and that she will remember the biblical values upon which she was raised.

We entreat the Lord for her deliverance, knowing that deliverance from sin and from every snare is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone has found a ransom, and that ransom is Christ Jesus our Lord. As Israel was brought forth when the lamb was slain, and as He brought them forth also with silver and gold, so we pray that He will bring your daughter forth effectually, and that her deliverance will be attended with enrichment, with restoration of faith, freedom, self worth, peace and true satisfaction. We pray that the clock of mercy will strike in heaven the hour of her deliverance, for the time has been purposed by Him.

We pray for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, that the look of Christ may sever her from the crowd as it did Peter, who was down but was soon up again. Peter fell, yet by a look from the Lord he was restored, and by the threefold charge he was assured of his place again. So we ask that your daughter, if she has wandered, may receive such a restoration from the Lord Himself that she may become stronger in faith ever afterwards. Let her hear the voice of her true Shepherd, that she belongs to Christ, that she is His daughter, kept by His power, and that she need not idolize nor obey any man above her God, nor put any family before her faith and the purpose God has given her in her work and calling.

We pray that she will have courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic and ungodly manner of life, to walk away without regret, to trust her family and to trust the Lord who will provide, protect and restore what has been taken. We pray that the influence which has guided her into this arrangement, even the counsel of this young man's mother, will lose its hold, and that she will no longer seek advice that keeps her in bondage. Let her see, as you have asked, the peace of a beautiful courtship that honors God, as she has seen in her younger sister, and understand that the Lord desires that purity and honor for her as well.

And for you and your household we pray as you have asked, that the Lord will fill you with His Holy Spirit in every aspect of your lives, and saturate you with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing. We pray that you may know Him as your glorious habitation, who changes not, who loved yesterday and loves today, and that you may have peace within your borders, delivered from the archers of discord. After affliction we shall yet live and declare the works of the Lord, for if we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but He chastens and He delivers.

We will continue to speak to the Lord on behalf of your daughter's mind, heart and spirit, that her eyes may be opened to see that she is not being loved but being used, and that she may be kept from the wolf in sheep's clothing and brought safely home, into fellowship with those who love her and into nearer fellowship with Christ. In the name of Jesus Christ, our only salvation and our great deliverer, we pray. Amen.

 

[Geasuormir]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.