Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I pray that my older daughter will see her jobs and the family You've blessed her with as a blessing and not in the eyes of thie rude young man and his mother. Lord, remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in prayer for your older daughter and for your whole family, and we hear the deep burden and grief you carry over this long and painful stronghold. We join you in asking the Lord for freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough, and for His light to expose every work of darkness.

We must speak clearly about what the Lord shows in His Word concerning this living arrangement. What you describe is not a marriage and must not be treated as one. Living together outside of marriage, having children outside of marriage, and sexual intimacy before marriage is fornication, and God calls His children to flee from it. Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. A boyfriend or girlfriend relationship should be courtship with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not a substitute for marriage. We pray for a godly spouse for your daughter in the Lord's timing, a marriage between a man and a woman that honors God, not a prolonged ungodly cohabitation that drains her and dishonors Him. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. This young man as you describe him is not acting as a shepherd, provider, or spiritual leader, but as a controlling and exploitative presence, and his mother's counsel to live together, to put her family before your daughter's God given family, and to normalize fornication is contrary to Scripture and has no biblical authority over your daughter.

We also see the pattern you describe of manipulation, division, isolation, dishonesty, laziness, and financial exploitation. The Word tells us to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them Ephesians 5:11. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. We agree with you that every word curse, scheme and plot meant to divide your family, to make your daughter feel worthless and familyless, and to keep her isolated from her supportive network and church community must be broken in Jesus name. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17. The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds 2 Corinthians 10:4.

We thank God with you for the jobs He has blessed your daughter with and for the promotion last month, and we pray she will see these as gifts from Him to be stewarded for His purpose, not as resources to be exploited to sustain a man who is not her husband. We pray for wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt or credit to support this toxic lifestyle, and to stop imitating the stubbornness, gossip and mocking that has wounded you and her siblings. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right, and Honor your father and mother Ephesians 6:1-2 still stands, and we pray her heart will be softened to honor you again with gratitude, graciousness and respect.

We join you in praying for her deliverance.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come boldly before Your throne together. We thank You that it is only through Jesus that we have access to You, for there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus 1 Timothy 2:5, and that whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved Romans 10:13. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and ask for Your supernatural protection, favor and healing over every broken place.

Lord, we ask You to open our dear daughter's eyes to see the truth. Let her see this young man not as a husband or provider, but as a stumbling block in her walk with You, and let her see this living arrangement for what it is, fornication and bondage, not marriage. Grant her godly sorrow that leads to repentance, and the courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets. Break every chain, frustrate every plan to control, divide and isolate her, and expose the motives rooted in pride, selfishness, jealousy and manipulation. We ask You to remove the overreach of this young man's mother who has no authority to speak into our daughter's life, and we pray You would convict her and her son and bring them to repentance, and that his father would take responsibility and have his son move back home alone to be dealt with by his own family.

Holy Spirit, fill our daughter afresh. Remind her that she is a child of the Most High God, that she is not homeless and does not need this woman's approval, that she belongs to You. Restore to her a hunger for righteousness, a love for Your Word, and a desire for fellowship with her family and church community. Renew her mind, heal her exhaustion and confusion, and give her wisdom, self worth and strength to protect her finances, to refuse to be exploited, and to put her faith and her God given family before this relationship. We pray that she will stop confiding in and helping one who despises her and our family and our worship, and that she will stop treating her family as a financial resource for this man.

Lord, soften her heart toward her mother and siblings, take away the cold, ungrateful and rude behavior she has learned, and restore a gracious, loving and respectful manner. Guard her new promoted job from interference and let her work shine for Your glory. We pray for complete restoration of peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this family. Let Your love overflow, heal all brokenness, and let no weapon formed against us prosper.

We thank You that if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36, and that it was for freedom that Christ set us free, therefore do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage Galatians 5:1. We submit ourselves to You, we resist the devil and trust that he will flee from us James 4:7. We will not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap if we do not give up Galatians 6:9. We ask all this in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and intercessor. Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and long this has been for you, watching the daughter you raised to love the Lord become exhausted, withdrawn, and pulled away from her family and church community, while also carrying financial strain in the middle of a new job promotion that should be a joy. It makes sense you feel worn down, especially when her words toward you have turned cold and rude.

One thing that stood out is how isolated she has become from the supportive people who love her. When that happens it is much harder to see clearly or to recognize even her own worth and weariness. It can help to think of boundaries as a kind of property line around what God has entrusted to each of us, our time, energy, finances, choices and values. Loving your daughter well does not mean taking on responsibilities that are not yours to carry, or leaving hurtful words and financial demands without a calm, loving limit.

A steady next step that often helps in a long situation like this is to have one trusted pastor or mentor walking with you, not to fix your daughter, but to help you stay consistent, keep the door open with her without getting pulled into arguments about the young man or his mother, and decide peacefully what help you can and cannot offer financially. If her exhaustion continues, gently encourage her to see a medical professional as you continue to pray.

Jesus, we lift this mother and her older daughter to You. Protect this young woman and surround her with Your care, clear her eyes to see what is true, and restore her sense of worth as Your child. Give her wisdom to guard what You have entrusted to her and courage to turn toward You and toward the family and community who love her. Comfort her mother, guard her heart from discouragement, and guide them both day by day. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with many tears, and we join you in bringing it to the throne of grace where mercy is found. We have heard the weight of your sorrow for your older daughter, the weariness of seeing her entangled in a way of living that is not according to the Word of God, and the pain of watching a controlling influence and an ungodly counsel draw her away from her family and from the fellowship of the church. The Lord knows this burden and He does not turn His ear from the cry of a parent who pleads for a child.

We will not ask God to bless what He has called outside His holy design, for we hold fast to what Scripture teaches, that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the gift of children belong within that covenant. To ask a blessing upon cohabitation or upon children conceived outside of marriage would be to ask God to contradict His own Word. What we do ask, and what you have rightly asked, is that He would bring conviction, deliverance and a clear path out of darkness into light.

There is hope for such deliverance, for our God is a God who restores the prodigal. As it has been preached among us, when the prodigal returned, the father saw him and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him in much love. That much kissing meant much forgiveness and full restoration. The son would have said, make me as a hired servant, but the father with a kiss acknowledged his sonship again. So we pray that your daughter, who was raised in the ways of the Lord, would hear again that she is a child of the Most High God, not belonging to another family that would control and isolate her, but belonging to Christ. We pray that the Holy Spirit would soften her heart to receive conviction, grant her courage to walk away from bondage with no regrets, and reignite in her a hunger for righteousness.

We pray with you for freedom and protection. May the Lord frustrate every scheme to control, divide and isolate, expose every selfish and jealous motive that is rooted in darkness, and break every chain and word curse spoken against you and your household. May He block the exploitation of her finances, give her wisdom to protect what He has provided through her work, and keep her from taking on debt to sustain a relationship that is not a marriage and a man who is not her shepherd, provider or spiritual leader. We pray that the influence which encourages laziness, dishonesty, manipulation and disrespect would be removed, and that the voices which contradict the Word of God would be silenced by His superior voice.

We thank God with you for the promotion He has graciously given her and for the beautiful purpose of her work for others. We ask that He would guard that gift, keep her from withdrawing from those who love her, and restore her to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. We ask that He would restore in her a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, fill her with the Holy Spirit, and renew fellowship, peace and unity in your home. We plead the precious blood of Christ over you and your children, praying that no weapon formed against you shall prosper.

We pray also for mercy upon the young man and his mother, that the Lord would open their eyes to see their need of Christ and to turn from enabling and controlling ways. But above all we pray that your daughter would see this man as he is, not a husband, and would no longer defend or commit herself to a living arrangement that exhausts her and brings financial hardship and chaos. May she remember the God of her fathers and mothers, and like the prodigal say, I will arise and go to my Father. For deliverance is solely by the power of God, and He has found a ransom. He brings His people forth and He attends their deliverance with enrichment.

Continue to stay at the brook of prayer as Jacob did, and trust the Lord to work. He can deliver from the pit and give perfect restoration, so that the returned one is as if she had never wandered, with music and dancing in the Father's house and assurance beyond all doubt. Declare the works of the Lord even in this chastening, for after affliction He gives a song of deliverance.

We stand with you, asking for supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow in you and your family, for healing of brokenness, and for your daughter to be kept from a disruptive path and, in the Lord's time and in His way, to be led to that which is holy and godly. May the Lord grant her wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage to leave swiftly what is unhealthy and ungodly, and to follow again the biblical teachings she was taught from her youth. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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