For me

[Caliarnar]

Praise the Lord brother and sister. I have so many struggles in my life, how to take the decision I don't know. Every day I fight with my husband. I am suffering from myself so many fear and confusions. What's going on in my life, what I'm doing? He and a third party are cheating on me every single day. I'm facing so many problems. He is not talking to me so much, angry, hurting, broken. Please pray for me. I am working with my husband's office, but still, we are fighting and arguing with a third party. That's why I'm not going to our office, but I need a job. Please pray for me. She says after fighting and arguing with me, "God knows you, you hurt me. God will punish you." I don't know what I'm doing. My husband is not speaking to me. I have so many confusions, my mind is blind. Please God, guide me on how to handle this. My husband spent time with a third party. I'm just leaving this life. I have so many wounds in my heart. I need a job. I take care of myself and my children. I'm saying to my husband, "Please leave the third party, don't do this." He says, "Adjust, I need that person, and you also." So, I still argue and fight. Finally, he says, "I give the divorce." I don't know what happened. Please pray for us. I'm stuck on what next decision I'm going to take. Please pray for us. I need a job. I am not a well-educated person. Please God, forgive us, help me. Prayer for us, please pray for us.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and confusion in your heart, sister, and we come before the Lord with you in this difficult season. The betrayal, the broken trust, and the emotional wounds you carry are not unseen by God. He knows every tear, every fear, and every moment of despair you’ve endured. The Word of God tells us, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone, and your suffering is not in vain.

First, we must address the sin that has entered your marriage. Adultery is a grievous violation of the covenant between a husband and wife, and it brings deep destruction. The Bible is clear: "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14), and Jesus Himself said, "Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery" (Matthew 19:9). Your husband’s involvement with a third party is not only sinful but also a direct attack on the sacred bond of marriage that God designed. We rebuke this unfaithfulness in the name of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against your marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).

Yet we also recognize that the enemy seeks to use this pain to push you toward despair, confusion, and even bitterness. The words of that third party, "God knows you, you hurt me. God will punish you", are not from God. They are lies meant to torment you. The devil is the accuser (Revelation 12:10), but Jesus is your Advocate (1 John 2:1). We rebuke every spirit of accusation, fear, and confusion over your life and your marriage. You are not under condemnation if you are in Christ (Romans 8:1), and God does not speak curses over His children. His desire is to heal, restore, and redeem.

Your husband’s demand that you "adjust" to his sin is not only unbiblical but also emotionally abusive. No one should ever be expected to tolerate unfaithfulness. The Bible says, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" (Amos 3:3). Right now, there is no agreement, only brokenness. We pray that your husband’s eyes would be opened to the gravity of his sin and that he would repent before God. If he is truly unrepentant, Scripture allows for separation in cases of ongoing adultery (Matthew 19:9), but we pray that repentance and restoration would come first.

You are also carrying the weight of providing for your children, and the stress of unemployment adds to your burden. We lift this up to the Lord, trusting that He is your Provider. "And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19). We pray for open doors of opportunity, wisdom in your job search, and favor as you seek employment. You are not defined by your education or your circumstances, God can use you mightily, and He will equip you for what He calls you to.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, You see every wound, every tear, and every moment of confusion she has endured. We ask that You would be her Comforter, her Strength, and her Guide. Father, we rebuke the spirit of adultery that has entered her marriage, and we declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. We pray for her husband, that his heart would be softened, that he would repent of his sin, and that he would return to You and to his marriage covenant. If he remains unrepentant, Lord, give our sister wisdom and courage to make decisions that honor You.

Father, we ask for Your provision in her life. Open doors of employment, give her favor with those who can help her, and provide for every need of her and her children. Remove the spirit of fear and confusion, and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Heal her broken heart, Lord, and remind her that she is deeply loved by You.

We also pray for the third party involved. If she is unrepentant, we ask that You would convict her of her sin and draw her to Yourself. If she is being used as a tool of the enemy, we break every assignment of the devil over her life in Jesus’ name.

Lord, we declare that this marriage is not beyond Your redemption. You are the God who restores, who heals, and who makes all things new. We trust You to work in this situation for Your glory. Give our sister the strength to stand firm in faith, to walk in forgiveness, and to seek Your will above all else. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

Sister, you are not without hope. Even in this pain, God is working. We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor, who can walk with you through this season. You do not have to carry this burden alone. The Lord is your Refuge (Psalm 46:1), and He will lead you step by step. If your husband continues in unrepentant sin, remember that God’s Word gives you permission to separate (1 Corinthians 7:15), but we pray that repentance would come first.

Continue to seek the Lord in prayer, in His Word, and in fellowship with other believers. You are precious in His sight, and He has not forgotten you. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). Hold fast to Him, and He will sustain you.

 

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Oh sister, we’re standing with you right now, holding your heart in ours as you carry this heavy load. First, let’s acknowledge the raw pain of betrayal, it’s like a knife twisting in your chest every time you think about your husband’s choices. But we want you to know God sees you in this moment, even when it feels like no one does. He’s not surprised by the tears you’ve cried or the nights you’ve spent wondering what came next. You’re not failing; you’re surviving, and that’s a testament to the strength He’s giving you.

We’re praying for clarity for you, so many questions swirling in your mind right now, and it’s okay to feel lost. But Jesus is the Light in your darkness. Ask Him to show you what to do next, even if it’s just one step at a time. For your husband, we’re lifting up a heart of repentance, we pray he’d feel the weight of his sin so deeply that he’d turn back to God and to you. But if he doesn’t, we’re praying for your strength to walk in peace, knowing God honors your boundaries and your heart.

And sister, you’re not alone in this. The fear of not having a job is real, but we’re declaring that God is your Provider. He doesn’t see your lack of education as a limitation, He sees your heart for your children and your willingness to keep going. Open doors will appear, and He’ll give you the words to say and the courage to step forward. We’re praying for peace in your home, even if it’s just for your children right now. Let them feel your love, no matter what’s happening around them.

Most of all, we’re praying for your heart. The wounds are deep, but God is the God of healing. He doesn’t want you to stay stuck in the confusion or the anger. He wants you to feel His presence, His comfort, and His hope. You’re not just surviving, you’re being transformed, one moment at a time.

In Jesus’ name, we’re holding you close. Keep talking to Him, keep trusting Him, and let us love you through this. You’re not forgotten.

 

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please bless this person with your wisdom. In Jesus' name Amen

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.