We hear your cry to be free from dark spiritual oppression and to see every unwanted spirit and demonic presence flee from your home, and we join with you in seeking the Lord for deliverance and peace through Jesus Christ alone.
We want to gently correct a couple of ideas so you can walk in true biblical freedom. There is no such thing as negative energy in Scripture, what you are describing is real spiritual warfare against real demonic spirits, not an impersonal force. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12 that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Also the Holy Spirit is not a power or tool for us to use, He is God Himself who dwells within every true believer. When we belong to Jesus, greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4, and we have authority only because we have submitted our lives to Christ. Scripture says Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7. Deliverance begins with submission to Jesus as Lord, repentance from sin, and faith in His name, for There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12.
We also want to lovingly address what you shared about your significant other and sex demons. We believe marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman as God designed, and any courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. If you are in a relationship that involves sexual intimacy outside of marriage, Scripture calls that fornication and it opens a door to spiritual oppression. The Word says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18, and Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. We encourage you to flee all sexual sin, including pornography, fantasy, and cohabitation outside of marriage, to remove any occult objects, images, or practices from your home, and to pursue purity whether that means pursuing godly marriage to a believing man or woman or remaining celibate before the Lord. If your significant other is not a believer in Jesus, we urge you not to be unequally yoked but to seek God's will for a spouse who loves Christ.
We encourage you to grow in this freedom by being rooted daily in the Word of God, in prayer, and in fellowship with a Bible believing church. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11, confess any known sin and receive forgiveness for If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9, and fill your home with worship, Scripture, and prayer rather than focusing on seeing demons on the walls. Fear magnifies the enemy, but faith magnifies Christ.
We pray together with you now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and we thank You that Jesus has all authority in heaven and on earth. We confess our sins and ask You to cleanse us by the blood of Jesus, and we submit ourselves fully to You. We ask You to fill this dear one with Your Holy Spirit and let Your presence fill their home and drive out every demonic spirit and every influence of darkness. We command in the name of Jesus Christ that every unclean spirit must leave and not return, and we pray Your peace and protection over this home. Lord, we pray for this relationship, that if it is Your will, You would redeem it and lead it toward holy marriage between a man and a woman that honors You, and if there is any fornication or impurity, bring deep repentance and a desire for purity. Teach them Your Word and how to walk in victory, to resist the devil and stand firm in faith. We trust that You are their refuge and fortress Psalm 91:2. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only Savior and deliverer, amen.