Let us first assure you that it is natural to have questions and concerns about marriage, as it is a significant lifelong commitment ordained by God. We will address your concerns through the lens of biblical principles and pray together for God's will in your life. Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His church (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB).
Firstly, it is important to understand that physical attraction is a normal part of human nature, but it should not be the sole basis for choosing a spouse. Proverbs 31:30 WEB reminds us, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." While physical appearance may initially draw you to someone, a godly character and a genuine love for the Lord are essential for a strong and lasting marriage. A spouse who is disfigured or disabled can be a wonderful partner and believer in the household of faith. We would like to mention that, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. You shall call on me in prayer, come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. (Jeremiah 29:11, 12 WEB). In some cases, many who are disabled have a wonderful heart and are stronger believers than those who rely on their physical looks. In the end, it is the new heart that God creates in us that matters.
It is commendable that you desire to marry someone you will love and want to avoid divorce and adultery. God takes marriage seriously, and so should we. Malachi 2:16 WEB says, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." Jesus Himself emphasized the sanctity of marriage in Matthew 19:6 WEB, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." And Matthew 5:28 WEB, But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.
To find a godly spouse, it is crucial to seek God's will in prayer, trusting that He will guide you to the right person. As you mentioned, nothing is too hard for the Lord Jesus. Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. (Proverbs 3:5, 6 WEB).
Moreover, we must understand that we do not simply "choose" our spouse based on our desires alone, but rather seek God's will in this matter. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun. Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. (Psalm 37:5-7 WEB).
Now, let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this young man seeking Your will for his life. Lord, he clearly states that he wants to marry a woman who is a believer whom he will love and not divorce. We ask for Your guidance and wisdom as he navigates this important decision. Help him to discern the qualities of a godly wife, looking beyond physical appearance and into the heart, as You see us. Give him the strength to wait patiently for Your timing and to trust in Your plan for his life.
Father, we also pray for his future wife, that You would prepare her heart and protect her until the time when their paths cross. We ask that You would help them both to grow in their faith, to be firmly rooted in Your Word, and to be a blessing to each other and to those around them.
Lord, we thank You for Your promises, and we claim them for this young man's life. We pray that You would give him the desires of his heart as he delights himself in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
