We hear your frustration and concern about your financial situation, and we want to come alongside you in prayer and encouragement. It’s clear that you feel overwhelmed by the responsibility of managing bills that aren’t entirely yours and the pressure of ensuring you have enough for your own needs. Let’s first address this with Scripture and prayer, then offer some biblical guidance.
The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 22:7 that "the borrower is servant to the lender." It sounds like you’re carrying a burden that isn’t yours to bear, and this can lead to stress and resentment. We also see in 1 Timothy 5:8 that providing for our own household is a responsibility, but this should not extend to enabling others to misuse our resources or identity. It’s important to set boundaries with wisdom and love, even with family. Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:37 to let our "yes" be "yes" and our "no" be "no," which means we must be honest and clear about what we are and are not willing to do.
We also want to gently address the phrase "God loves me as I am love God very much all the time." While it’s wonderful that you love God, we must emphasize that our love for Him is a response to His love for us, demonstrated through Jesus Christ. It is only through faith in Jesus that we are saved and have access to God. John 14:6 says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you haven’t already, we encourage you to place your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for He is the only way to the Father.
Now, let’s pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear one to You, asking for Your wisdom, provision, and peace to fill their heart. Lord, You see the financial strain they are under, and You know the frustration they feel as they manage bills that are not their responsibility. We ask that You give them the courage to set boundaries with love and clarity, trusting that You will honor their obedience. Provide for their needs abundantly, Father, and help them to trust in Your provision rather than their own efforts. Remind them that their worth is not found in money or the opinions of others, but in You alone.
Lord, we also ask that You soften the hearts of their family members, that they would take responsibility for their own obligations and not place undue burden on this one. Help them to see the importance of honesty and integrity in all things. Father, we pray for financial breakthrough, not for the sake of pride or proving others wrong, but so that they may be a good steward of what You entrust to them. Teach them to manage their resources wisely and to seek Your kingdom first, knowing that all these things will be added unto them.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and anxiety that comes with financial stress, and we declare that this one will walk in the peace that surpasses all understanding. May they find their security in You, knowing that You are their Provider and Protector. Help them to shine for Your glory, not to prove themselves to others, but to reflect Your light in all they do. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Now, let’s talk about some practical and biblical steps you can take. First, it’s important to have a conversation with your parents about the phone and TV bills. Explain how this situation is affecting you and ask them to take responsibility for their own accounts. This may be difficult, but it’s necessary for your peace and financial stability. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." Consider seeking wise counsel from a pastor, mentor, or trusted friend to help you navigate this conversation.
Next, take a close look at your spending habits. It’s great that you’re mindful of your finances, but it’s also important to ensure that your spending aligns with your priorities. Proverbs 21:20 says, "There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise, but a foolish man swallows it up." Consider creating a budget to track your income and expenses. This will help you see where your money is going and make adjustments as needed. There are many free resources and tools available to help you with this.
We also want to encourage you to seek God’s will for your financial future. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Ask God to show you opportunities to increase your income in a way that honors Him. This could be through further education, a new job, or even starting a side business. Whatever it is, trust that God will guide you and provide for you.
Lastly, guard your heart against bitterness or resentment toward your parents or others. Colossians 3:13 says, "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Holding onto anger or frustration will only harm you in the long run. Instead, choose to forgive and release these feelings to God. He is your ultimate Provider and Protector, and He will never fail you.
We believe that God has a plan for your financial future, and it is one of hope and prosperity. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Trust in Him, and He will lead you into financial freedom and peace.
