Father please let this be your will

[Anonymous]

Dear heavenly Father God I pray that I will never lose one of my wanted relations please end every dream about them fleeing out ot of mine and eachothers lives or having some kind of of problem with eachother even with me pease let us share bunch of smile laughs share lots of laughs and great moments and fun moments together forever I pray we won't ever lose each other in live in Jesus victoriousI pray amen

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s deep longing for lasting connection and joy in your relationships, and we join you in bringing this before our Heavenly Father. Your prayer reflects a desire for unity, laughter, and enduring bonds, which are beautiful gifts from God when aligned with His will. However, we must also approach this with biblical truth, wisdom, and a heart surrendered to His purposes.

First, we want to gently remind you that our prayers must always be submitted to God’s will, not our own desires. Jesus Himself taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, as in heaven, so on earth" (Matthew 6:10 WEB). While it is natural to want relationships to last forever, we must trust that God’s plans for us are good, even when they differ from our own. His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and He works all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

We also want to lovingly address the nature of the relationships you are praying for. If these are romantic relationships, we must encourage you to pursue them with the goal of marriage, as Scripture teaches. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God for lifelong commitment (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If these relationships are not moving toward marriage or are not with fellow believers, we must rebuke any sin or misalignment with God’s Word. The Bible warns us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If these relationships involve sexual intimacy outside of marriage, we must call this what it is, sin, and encourage repentance and purity. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).

If these relationships are friendships, we rejoice in the gift of godly fellowship. However, we must also guard our hearts against idolatry, placing anyone or anything above God. Jesus said, "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn’t worthy of me" (Matthew 10:37 WEB). Our ultimate security and joy must be found in Christ alone.

We also want to address the fear of losing these relationships. Fear is not from God, for "God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB). Instead of dwelling on nightmares or anxieties, we must cast our cares on Him, for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). Trust in His sovereignty and His promise to never leave or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble and surrendered hearts. Lord, we lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would fill their heart with Your peace and assurance. Father, we ask that You would align their desires with Your perfect will. If these relationships are honoring to You, we pray for their strengthening, joy, and longevity. May they be built on the foundation of Christ, rooted in love, respect, and mutual faith. Lord, if any of these relationships are not in line with Your Word, we ask that You would bring conviction, repentance, and realignment. Give wisdom and discernment to walk in Your ways.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and anxiety that seeks to torment. We declare that Your perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Replace every nightmare or worry with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Help this dear one to trust in You completely, knowing that You hold their future and their relationships in Your hands.

Lord, we pray for godly friendships and, if it is Your will, a godly spouse. Prepare hearts, soften them to Your leading, and bring together those who will sharpen and encourage one another in the faith. May laughter, joy, and Your presence fill their lives as they seek You above all else.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come to You and the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We surrender this prayer to You, trusting that You will do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Amen.

We encourage you to seek the Lord daily through prayer and Scripture, allowing His Word to guide your steps. Surround yourself with fellow believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember, your identity and security are found in Christ alone. He is the only One who will never leave you nor forsake you, and in Him, you have an eternal relationship that nothing can break. "For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39 WEB). Walk in that truth, dear one, and let it anchor your soul.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the ache behind this prayer, the fear of losing people who mean so much to you runs deep, and those dreams you describe sound like they've been wearing on your heart. When our minds replay worst-case scenarios while we sleep, it can feel like we never truly get to rest. That kind of ongoing anxiety is heavy to carry alone.

What strikes us is how clearly you're longing for permanence and joy together. That's not a shallow wish, it's a reflection of the way God made us for lasting, glad relationships. The very fact that you're asking Him to let this be His will shows a humble heart, one that wants to hold relationships with open hands before Him.

While you wait and pray, one small step might be to anchor this to something concrete. When a fear like this swirls, losing someone, drifting apart, the fog can lift a little when we name what's actually true today, not what might happen someday. This week, consider reaching out to one of those people and simply enjoying a moment together: share a meal, take a walk, laugh about something silly. Let that real connection push back against the anxious "what ifs," not as a fix but as a small act of faith.

And if those dreams keep robbing your sleep and stirring up dread, it's worth mentioning to your doctor, persistent sleep disturbance and anxiety can sometimes have physical roots, and a checkup can be a wise part of stewarding your health.

We are praying with you, not from a distance but as people who also treasure the gift of companionship.

Jesus, You see this child of Yours lying awake, worried that cherished people will slip away. Calm the racing thoughts and quiet the troubling dreams. Surround them with the steady reassurance that they are held, by You and by the love of those You've placed in their life. Give them moments of genuine laughter and joy this very week, reminders that You knit hearts together for good. And grant them the peace that passes understanding, guarding their heart and mind in You. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The heart’s cry for unbroken bonds is known to the Lord, yet it is often through the very shakings of our earthly comforts that He draws us nearer to Himself. You speak of dreams that flee, of feared separations, much of this darkness may be of your own imagining. As we feel a thousand deaths in fearing one, so do we feel a thousand afflictions in the fear of sorrows which will never come. Our Savior so loved us that He stripped Himself of His robes of radiance; He who did that will not lightly cast off those for whom He died. His feet tread the same miry places as our own, and all the while He calls us His beloved, His love, His dove, His undefiled, and tells us of the land which lies beyond the darkness.

Yet I fear there is a danger of seeking a joy too much anchored in the creature. The cares of this life, yes, even the care of keeping relationships, can intoxicate and surfeit the soul, crowding out that higher delight which is found in Christ alone. You ask that you may never lose one of these wanted relations; but if they become idols, the Lord who loves you may see fit to chasten. When He lays the rod on, with many blows and smart ones, there is not one thought of anger in His heart, there is not one look of displeasure in His eye. He means it all for your good; His heaviest blows are as much tokens of His affection as His sweetest caresses. Happy is the man who fears always with that loving, childlike fear of grieving so tender a Father, rather than a slavish fear that something evil is about to happen.

The true joy of the children of Zion is not in the unbroken circle of earthly loves, but in their King. His age is eternity, and eternity has not the fretting tooth of time. He is still the same Christ, as mighty in power as when He routed the hosts of Hell. As to His kingdom, there is no fear of its failing. The gates of Hell shall not prevail against it. Let your request be this: that whether you lose or keep these dear ones, you may know that love of Christ which passes knowledge, and feel yourself a part of Christ, a member of His body, flesh of His flesh and bone of His bone. For if you have that, you shall go forth with weeping, bearing precious seed, and doubtless you shall come again with rejoicing, bringing your sheaves with you, not sheaves of mere earthly gladness, but the harvest of eternal communion in the land where there is no parting.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

You pray for a guarantee against loss, a life where loved ones never flee and smiles never fade. This is a prayer born of fear, and that fear itself is a kind of slavery. The soul that demands a perpetual festival of earthly joy has already lost its peace, for it lives in constant terror of the festival ending. This is not the freedom Christ bought for you. The world’s joy, rooted in the secure presence of others, carries the name of joy but consists entirely of pain, for anxiety is its constant companion.

You ask that no dream of separation disturb you. Yet consider what produces real and untroubled joy. It is not the absence of trials or the unbroken presence of every beloved face. That sort of security is a prison, and those who clutch at it spend their whole life in bondage to the fear of death and loss. True security is found when a soul, clinging to God alone, can look at loss and say, "This too is gain, for I have not blasphemed, nor turned to other comforts, but have learned to be content with little." The one who fears God need not fear the departure of any other, for his treasure is not stored where loss can touch it.

Do you see how you have made an idol of a trouble-free life among your relations? You seek a pasture where no wolf can enter, but you seek it on your own terms, demanding that God make your earthly affections the source of your comfort. The pasture Christ provides is Himself, and from that pasture no one can be thrust out. But to enter it, you must not demand that He secure your earthly loves before you will be content. You must love Him so much that prisons, scourges, and the loss of all things become the root and occasion of a joy that cannot be taken. A pure conscience and a life hidden in God bring comfort that no human failing can touch, even when innumerable trials surround you.

Let the terror of this prayer awaken you. It is not wrong to love your relations, but it is a fearful thing to love them more than the Lord who gave them, to demand from Him a perpetual human happiness as if His grace were not sufficient. The ground that drinks in the rain and only produces thorns is near to cursing. Do not be high-minded, but fear. Cast away this demand for a life without problems, and throw yourself upon the mercy of God, thanking Him even for the losses that teach you to despise the world. Then you will find that in losing your life and all its clinging attachments, you have gained a relationship with Him that death cannot sever and a joy that is eternal.

 

[Silas]

The ache you are expressing reaches for something eternal, a bond that will not be broken by time, misunderstanding, or death. That longing itself points to a reality our hearts were made for, though on this side of heaven it often meets frustration and sorrow. The prayer you have poured out reveals a deep love for those around you, and that is not wrong. Yet the history of a man like Job reminds us that every earthly gift, including the people we cherish most, can be stripped away in a moment for reasons we may never understand. Job lost his children, his health, his possessions, and even the comfort of his friends, all while crying out to a God who seemed silent. Yet when he was reduced to the bare consciousness of his being, with nothing left but God, he discovered that the Lord alone is the unshakable foundation.

Dreams of desertion and fractured bonds torment the mind because we invest so much hope in mortal relationships. But as Job learned, we are all like a shadow on the sundial, like a wildflower that blooms briefly and vanishes. The people we love are not ours to keep forever in this life. They are entrusted to us for a season, and that season is under the sovereign hand of the one who numbers every step. The fear of losing them can become a kind of prison, but the answer is not to demand that God bend every circumstance to our will. Instead, we are invited to place our trust in the witness who is in heaven, the mediator who vouches for us, Jesus Christ the righteous. He alone can secure what no human promise can guarantee.

When Job cried out from his misery, he often spoke out of his pain rather than out of true knowledge of God. He wished for death, he questioned his existence, and he could not see the end. Yet God in Christ has provided for the deepest need of every heart: reconciliation with himself and the hope of resurrection. The laughter and joy you long to share forever with those you love will one day be fulfilled beyond all imagining in the presence of the Lord, not because this world holds onto anything permanently, but because Jesus rose from the grave and has prepared a place for his own. Until then, our shared moments of gladness are fleeting gifts that point us upward.

Do not let the dread of loss rob you of the peace that comes from knowing that the hand of the Lord holds every soul. His ways are higher than ours, and his love is fiercer than our fears. If you have called on his name, your life is hidden with Christ, and no one can snatch you from his hand. That same hand holds every detail of your relationships. Sometimes he allows the very things we dread to strip away our false securities, not to destroy us, but to teach us that he is enough. As Job at last could say, “I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you.” Let that be your prayer: not just for the preservation of every treasured connection, but for the vision of God that makes every other loss bearable.

Therefore, keep loving deeply, laugh freely, and make memories with gratitude, but hold them with open hands. Entrust those you care about into the care of the one who loves them more than you ever could. As you do, you will find that the joy you share is not diminished but deepened, because it is anchored in his unchangeable character rather than in anything that can be shaken. And when the shadow moves and the vapor clears, you will be ushered into a kingdom where every smile is eternal and every tear is wiped away by the very hand that was pierced for you.