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Sliilhill

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I am ### hus name ### many times i messaged u for issues with my hus but stil he wont talk find blame full issues. Stil ### is good i am bad lady i hoped one day he regret.he need divorce its my last message now my all hop went.i don trust god any more
 
We hear the deep pain and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness, yet we know the enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together. The blame, silence, and rejection you’ve endured are not God’s design, He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Your husband’s hardness of heart is grievous, but we must also examine where unforgiveness, bitterness, or even self-condemnation may have taken root in your own spirit.

First, we must address the danger in your words: "I don’t trust God anymore." Sister, this is the enemy’s greatest lie, that God has abandoned you. But Scripture declares, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). Even now, He sees every tear (Psalm 56:8) and collects them as precious testimony of your suffering. You are not forgotten. You are not "bad", you are deeply loved, and your worth is not defined by your husband’s accusations or the world’s standards. Christ’s blood was shed to break every chain of shame and condemnation (Romans 8:1).

We rebuke the spirit of divorce in this marriage. We command it to loose its grip in Jesus’ name, for what God has joined together, let no man, or demon, separate (Matthew 19:6). We also rebuke the lie that you are unworthy of love or that your husband’s regret is a condition for your healing. Your healing begins now, with Christ alone as your foundation.

Let us pray:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister. Lord, You see the years of pain, the unmet longings, and the way the enemy has twisted truth in her mind. We ask You to break every chain of bitterness, self-blame, and despair. Restore her trust in You, for You are faithful even when others are not (2 Timothy 2:13). Soften her husband’s heart, Father, melt it with Your love, and let him see the damage of his words and silence. If there is any sin in his life, pride, hardness, or neglect, convict him by Your Holy Spirit. We declare that this marriage is not over unless You say it is over, and we stand on Your promise to heal the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3).

Lord, where our sister has believed the lie that she is unlovable, remind her that You knit her together in her mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13-14) and that Your love for her is relentless. Where she has lost hope, fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Where she has doubted Your goodness, let her see Your hand at work in ways she hasn’t noticed. And if divorce is truly the path ahead, be her Husband (Isaiah 54:5), her Provider, and her Defender. But we ask first for reconciliation, let pride fall, let humility rise, and let love cover a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).

We also ask for godly counsel for her, a pastor, a mentor, or a Christian counselor who can walk with her through this valley. Surround her with believers who will speak life, pray fiercely, and remind her of Your promises. And Father, if there are areas where she needs to repent, unforgiveness, anger, or self-pity, reveal them gently and lead her to freedom.

Above all, draw her back to You. Let her fall in love with Your Word again, with prayer, with worship. Remind her that her identity is in Christ, not in her marriage or her husband’s opinion. We declare that joy will come in the morning (Psalm 30:5), and that this season of weeping will not last forever. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen."

Sister, we urge you not to make any permanent decisions in this place of pain. The enemy wants you to walk away from your marriage, from hope, and from God, but we serve a God who specializes in resurrections. Even now, He is working. You are not alone. We encourage you to:

1. Fight for your marriage in prayer. Storm heaven daily for your husband’s heart. Pray Scripture over him (e.g., "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord", Psalm 19:14). Ask God to show you how to love him in ways that break through his hardness.

2. Seek godly counsel. If you haven’t already, find a pastor or Christian counselor who can help you navigate this with wisdom. Proverbs 11:14 says, "Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety."

3. Guard your heart. The bitterness you feel is understandable, but it will poison you if left unchecked. "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15). Forgive your husband, not because he deserves it, but because Christ forgave you (Colossians 3:13).

4. Anchor yourself in truth. Write down Scriptures that speak to God’s love for you and His promises. Meditate on them daily. Here are a few to start:
- "The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in His love He will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing" (Zephaniah 3:17).
- "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7).
- "I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you" (Jeremiah 31:3).

5. Remember: Your hope is not in your husband’s regret, it’s in Christ’s redemption. Even if your marriage ends, God is not done writing your story. He can restore what has been broken, heal what has been wounded, and use even this pain for His glory.

Lastly, if you have not placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. The pain you’re experiencing is a reminder that this world is not our home, and only in Christ can we find true peace, purpose, and identity. Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a free gift, receive it today, and let Him be the foundation of your life.

You are not abandoned. You are not forgotten. You are deeply loved by the One who gave His life for you. Hold on, sister. The best is yet to come.
 
We hear the weariness in your words, and we’re not going to gloss over how heavy this season has been. You’ve reached out many times, and to still be met with blame, silence, and talk of divorce, that’s a crushing place to be. When hope dries up and God feels distant or untrustworthy, it’s not a failure of faith to say so out loud. Many of God’s people have stood right there (we think of the psalms that don’t try to tidy up grief). We’re sitting with you in that ache, not lecturing you.

When hopelessness settles in, it often whispers that nothing can ever change, and that the worst label someone’s pinned on you, “bad lady”, must be the whole truth. That’s the voice of exhaustion, not the voice of God. Right now you can’t feel Him, and that’s okay to admit. But you don’t have to carry this alone. One steady step can be to reach out to a pastor or a wise Christian counselor, not to fix your husband or force a conversation he won’t have, but to give you a safe place to be honest about this pain and to find your own footing again. You need people who will simply be with you, who will pray for you when you have no words left.

We’re praying with you now, simply and softly.

Jesus, this daughter of yours is out of hope and worn thin. You see the blame, the silence, the broken trust, even the trust she’s lost in You. Hold her close when she can’t hold onto You. Surround her with a few safe people who can reflect Your care and help her catch her breath. Guard her dignity and her heart in the days ahead, and give her just enough strength for today. You are still the Shepherd who goes after the one who’s lost. Meet her in the darkness and let her sense, even faintly, that she is not abandoned. In Your name we pray.
 
You sit there with your last message sent, your hope spent like water poured out on dry ground. I will not lecture you, nor will I try to talk you into feeling what you cannot feel just now. But I must tell you something true, something I have seen in a thousand sorrowing souls. It is this: the Lord Jesus Christ is never nearer than when the storm is at its wildest and the boat is already half full. You say you do not trust God any more, but you are still here, still reaching out, still telling someone that your heart is shattered. That is not a soul that has stopped believing. That is a soul that has been battered till it can no longer feel its own grip, and yet the grip remains. Even your anger is aimed at Him. You cannot rage against a God you do not believe exists. He knows the language of a broken heart, and He is not afraid of your accusations.

Have you ever noticed that it was Peter, Peter, who had walked so near to the Master, Peter, to whom the Lord had revealed the deepest things, to whom Jesus said, “O you of little faith”? It was not said in scorn. It was the tender chiding of a friend who knows what His child ought to be able to bear, and yet sees him sinking, and reaches out His hand at once. By this time, you think, you ought to be strong. You have known Him long. You have asked and received before. Yet here you are, feeling as if the waves have won. But look: He did not let Peter go under. The same hand that held the winds held the sinking disciple. And so He holds you, right now, whether your feelings certify it or not.

You have been made to feel that you are the bad one, the whole blame heaped at your door. The enemy of your soul loves to whisper that same charge until it echoes so loud inside you that you can hear nothing else. But Christ does not deal with us on the basis of who is worse and who is better in some human court. He came because we are all ruined and helpless. The woman in Jericho, you know her, Rahab, had a foul name and a fouler past. Every respectable person in the city would have pointed at her as the chief of sinners. Yet faith took hold, just a scarlet cord hanging from a window, and that same faith plucked her out of destruction while the walls fell around her. Her faith was not a strong, shining thing that day; it was desperate, simple, a clinging to the one promise she had heard. And the Holy Spirit saw fit to write her name in the great roll of the faithful, because she trusted the God she barely knew when everything visible screamed that she had no right to be spared. You are no worse than Rahab. And the same Jesus who received her stands ready for you.

You hoped, and you hoped, and you hoped. And now you say all hope is gone. I know that place. It is the room with the windows shuttered, where you sit with the black-edged letter in your lap. But have you considered that even hopelessness, brought to Christ, is a kind of prayer? The father who brought his demon-possessed boy to the disciples found only failure. When he stood before Jesus, he blurted out the most broken, limping petition: “If you can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.” There was an “if” in the wrong place, and the man’s faith was more a trembling question than a confident assertion. Yet Christ did not send him away to go and fetch better faith. Christ simply took the “if” and moved it where it belonged. “If you can believe, all things are possible to him that believes.” The man cried out with tears, “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!” And the child was healed. You do not need to manufacture strong faith this morning. Bring your unbelief to Him, and ask Him to help it. That is faith enough for Him to work with.

You are like a sheep that has been harried by the wolves until it can scarcely hobble. Some of the flock seem to move with such a straight, easy gait, but there are always a few lame ones that the Good Shepherd carries in His arms. Do not despise yourself because you limp. He has a special word for making straight paths for the lame, lest they be put out of joint entirely. You are not cast off because you are wounded. The Shepherd does not beat His limping sheep; He gathers them.

The whole matter of your salvation was never meant to rest on your performance or on your husband’s change of heart, or even on your own ability to hold on. It rests on a receiving. The life of faith begins when we open empty hands and take what Christ gives. That is all. You cannot earn it, you cannot force another to give you what only God can give, and you cannot fill your own emptiness. But the Lord Jesus still holds out mercy to those who have nothing to bring. A cistern does not strain to be filled; it simply lies under the pipe and receives the water. Lie there. Let His grace come.

Pray for your husband, yes, but do not try to be his saviour. That is the Holy Spirit’s work. And if you cannot pray right now, if the words stick in your throat, groan. He who taught the ravens to cry understands the language of a soul too weary to speak. He knows what you meant in all those messages, and He has not thrown them aside.

May the Lord Jesus Christ, who went down into the depths and rose again, come near to you now in your own darkness. May He wrap you in His quiet presence, even when you feel nothing. May He give you the mercy of rest, the mercy of ceasing to strive, and the mercy of finding that underneath your failed hope there are the everlasting arms. And may He, in His own time, bring you out into a broad place, with a song you cannot sing today. I commend you into His faithful hands, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer for your marriage. It has been on our hearts to lift up you and your husband before the Lord, asking Him to soften hearts, open lines of communication, and bring healing to the pain and frustration you’ve both been carrying. We’ve prayed that God would restore trust, renew love, and help both of you see one another through His eyes—with grace, patience, and understanding.

We know how deeply it hurts when conversations lead to blame instead of connection, and when hope feels like it’s slipping away. Please know we haven’t stopped praying, even now, that God would work in ways you may not yet see. If He has moved in your situation since you first shared, we would be so encouraged to hear how He has answered—whether in small steps or mighty breakthroughs. Your praise report could be a blessing to others walking a similar path.

If, however, the silence or struggle continues, we want to keep standing with you. Don’t carry this alone. Please share your request again, and we will continue to lift you both up, asking God to intervene in ways only He can. We’re praying for your heart, too—that even in this disappointment, you would feel His presence and remember that He has not abandoned you. He sees your tears, hears your cries, and is able to do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine.

May the Lord surround you with His peace, give you strength for each day, and draw you closer to Him as you seek His will. We trust that He is at work, even when we can’t see it, and we will keep praying until He brings the breakthrough you long for. In Jesus’ Name.
 

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