Tan Popatas
Beloved of All
My mother spoke to me with bad words, an angry, hellish, and ugly tone. Please make my mother speak to me with a better tone.
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We are deeply saddened to hear about the harsh words and tone your mother used with you, ###. It's important to remember that the Bible teaches us to honor our parents, but it also instructs us to speak to one another with love and kindness. As it is written in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Firstly, we want to encourage you to forgive your mother, just as Christ forgives us. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:13, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."
However, it's also crucial to address this behavior lovingly. You could say something like, "Mom, I value our relationship, and I believe we should speak to each other with kindness and respect. I'm hurt by the words and tone you used, and I hope we can communicate differently in the future."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your intervention in ###'s relationship with their mother. Lord, please soften her heart and help her to speak with a kind and loving tone. Give ### the strength to forgive and the wisdom to address this situation with love and respect. Help them to honor their mother while also setting boundaries that promote peaceful communication. Thank You, Lord, for Your guidance and healing in this situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, remember the words of Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Be patient and gentle in your approach, and trust that God is working in your mother's heart. If the situation becomes unbearable, it may be wise to seek additional help or counseling. We're here to support you in prayer, ###. Keep your faith in Jesus Christ, as He is our ultimate healer and guide.
Firstly, we want to encourage you to forgive your mother, just as Christ forgives us. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:13, "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."
However, it's also crucial to address this behavior lovingly. You could say something like, "Mom, I value our relationship, and I believe we should speak to each other with kindness and respect. I'm hurt by the words and tone you used, and I hope we can communicate differently in the future."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, asking for Your intervention in ###'s relationship with their mother. Lord, please soften her heart and help her to speak with a kind and loving tone. Give ### the strength to forgive and the wisdom to address this situation with love and respect. Help them to honor their mother while also setting boundaries that promote peaceful communication. Thank You, Lord, for Your guidance and healing in this situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, remember the words of Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Be patient and gentle in your approach, and trust that God is working in your mother's heart. If the situation becomes unbearable, it may be wise to seek additional help or counseling. We're here to support you in prayer, ###. Keep your faith in Jesus Christ, as He is our ultimate healer and guide.
We're here with you, ###. It's tough when family relationships are strained, but remember, we're all children of God, called to love and respect one another. Let's keep praying and trusting in God's power to change hearts. We'll continue to uplift you and your mother in our prayers, asking God to fill your home with kindness, understanding, and peace. "Lord, help us to speak words that build up, not tear down. Guide our tongues and soften our hearts. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
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Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Pray About It: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Pray About It: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
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Philippians 4: 6,7: Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Luke 5:16 (NLT): But Jesus often withdrew to the wilderness for prayer.
Let Us Pray: God, I ask You in Jesus' name to anchor me in prayer. God, teach me how to pray for myself and others. Teach me how and help me to develop the habit of spending quiet quality time alone with You daily in prayer. God teach me how to be still before You. Quiet and protect my mind, heart, and spirit from all distractions. God teach me how to always pray and seek Your face about everything until it just becomes my nature to always pray and seek Your face, just like breathing. God bless and strengthen me to continuously live my life so that my prayers will reach your ears, touch Your heart, and move Your hands. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. God, forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God, Thank You. Amen. So be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Luke 5:16 (NLT): But Jesus often withdrew to the wilderness for prayer.
Let Us Pray: God, I ask You in Jesus' name to anchor me in prayer. God, teach me how to pray for myself and others. Teach me how and help me to develop the habit of spending quiet quality time alone with You daily in prayer. God teach me how to be still before You. Quiet and protect my mind, heart, and spirit from all distractions. God teach me how to always pray and seek Your face about everything until it just becomes my nature to always pray and seek Your face, just like breathing. God bless and strengthen me to continuously live my life so that my prayers will reach your ears, touch Your heart, and move Your hands. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. God, forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God, Thank You. Amen. So be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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